I recently wrote a Domme advertisment with the strict purpose of putting everything I knew was bad into a mushed up clusterfuck of what the bacon. The reaction was staggering. I got praise for it, and more than a handful of desperation.

Such worries me a little that people are willing to even consider such things. I presume a lot of them did not read it at all, and would sort of just wiggle off once they realize their mistake, but still the sarcasm just flies through some people. Below...

Stacked neatly in rows. Orderly by type, lace, and colour by visual spectrum, then shade. There's little purpose to this blog other than showing off how fucking neat this drawer is. Look how neat that thing is.

Lower: Panties, panties with lace
Upper: Half back thongs, half back thongs with lace, that one G-string, string that was once a g string, I think.

<3 Who wants to pick which panties I wear for a week?

Also: Limited edition Pikachu, 1999...

Women are complicated things, we're impossible to understand. Fail to do something, we get mad. Do what we say, we find an issue of how you do it. Women are picky, I know we are. It can be scary, too, when women freak out about what appear to be benign issues. (It's not, just to let you know). And men, I respect you for trying to keep us pleased with your fancy bouquet of flowers and emotional poetry complete with guitar solo.

But seriously, just ram me. You've been thoughtful and all,...

Unrealistic expectations: One of the most common mistakes on both sides. A Dom expects a sub to be perfect, meet his every need, and have no limits. A sub expects a Dom to be perfect, understand their every need, avoid all mistakes on the top, and know everything.

Isolation: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your supporters as “causing trouble”; the abuser may deprive you of a communication and transportation methods.

Extremely...

Beware if the law. Remember to use your own brain to decide if the acts you practice are safe.

Human Rights-The Run Down
Rights and freedoms to which all humans are entitled.

1. All human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights

4. No one shall be held in slavery or servitude; slavery and the slave trade shall be prohibited in all their forms.

5. No one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment...

Sub: Passive, serving, bottom partner. Not to be mistaken for a slave. A Sub chooses the time, place, and appropriateness of my submission. I set my boundaries and limits. My Dominant may be able to push those, but in the end the activity can be stopped by the Sub’s discretion.

“I am the perfect Dom for you”: Common misconception. Stranger who decides to title themselves as such, in hopes they look...