It’s starting to get very real! Sam and I have selected our wedding venue, sent invitations, selected our wedding parties, hired a DJ and photographer, and paid for catering! 34 fricking days and I’ll be walking down the aisle with the love of my life!

A few weeks ago, we had spent the weekend touring different venues and we came up with our decision shortly after the trip. Sam and I had decided to select an old rustic and renovated farm property for our wedding venue. The venue is gorgeous,...

I have always been very insecure. It stems from verbal abuse as a child, and constant rejection growing up. I have been told I am too short, too fat, too opinionated, too much of a tease, too innocent, not sexy enough, not pretty enough, not smart enough, and the list goes on and on.

Not only have people said those things to me, but they have...

I just had a friend having her blog post removed by getDare.

The getDare staff has to remain some order, for legal and practical reasons alone, moderate and even delete some blog posts. Without it, there wouldn't be getDare at all, or at least not as pleasant as I know it and love it. Many thanks for that, especially since the whole amount of work behind this community site is rarely seen.
@getDare staff: Many many thanks! I love you for that.

I also had one of my blog...

Do not contact me if:
• You didn't read the entire about me. Yes, I know it's long, but I have important things to say
• U tipe liek dis. Some spelling errors are fine, but be able to have a normal conversation
• You just want a quick play session and don't want to provide a tribute. I love the fantasy and play, but I'm tired of being ghosted. If you show me your worth my time, I'll happily make your head spin.
• You don't respect my likes, dislikes, or limits
• You...

*AM and I wrote this together. I am pink, he is black.

There was a time when I enjoyed humiliation very much but degradation was a hard limit. I couldn't see myself ever participating in it and anyone who tried to get me to explore it never got very far. Due to childhood traumas and the triggers I assumed it would cause, it was always a very big no. Until recently.

The thing about degradation is that it plays on a different type of shame. Humiliation is playing...

First off I have to thank eveyone that I have met on here so far.
I have found some great and awesome people and they have made being involved on this site and in the community amazing!!

The next thing I have to say is that I have found an amazing girl through said people above. I am a switch and enjoy being a domme online. This lady has opened up so much of my dominant side and let me discover myself. I have found out so much about her and it has been an amazing week just getting...