Originally Posted by SluttyPig

I adore Valentines Day....well only cause it's my birthday today

Originally Posted by SluttyPig

I adore Valentines Day....well only cause it's my birthday today

Originally Posted by IHeartfun

*goes to make you a card*

Originally Posted by sir sam

I wanted to wait with my reaction until your game was fully over becaus I did not want to spoil the fun on that. Let me be very clear,.. I have absolutely no criticism on your play. I am fully confident that you have played it with respect an safety. I did read the reports and they show you did. So...... not criticism on your play.

However,...
I strongly disagree in advising this to others, especially towards inexperienced people or fresh relationships. In fact this play is completely contradictive to the plea I made for doms "to avoid driving until the safeword got used" >>here<<. I see a great danger, experienced people will know how to handle that, but I am afraid of starting people. The interrogation setup drives the dom into more pushing than normal. It has the risk of "excusing" him for being cautious, it has the risk that he will use the setup to feel allowed to push until the sub confesses. At the same time,.. sure the sub will have this confession as some sort of safeword, but while normally we assure our subs to feel comfortable and positive about using his/her safeword, this scene will drive her into delaying the use. She now gets a negative association with the confession/safeword. If she uses it, she will feel bad for failing the interrogation, This may drive her into letting happen far more than she will later feel comfortable with.
So,.. no,.. i strongly advice against an interrogation,

Having said that,... the scenario is hot. Sure,.. very hot.
I discussed it briefly with my pet. My pet was arroused but also afraid, she was convinced she would only confess when I would go for her limits. For above reasons i had already decided not to play this game. If I would have decided to play, I am sure my pet would have played (she trusts me), but it would have been a disaster. Either I would have pushed my pet into confession which then would have been realized by a far over-the-limit interrogation. Most likely I would have unrepairable loss of trust afterwards. Alternatively i would have stopped which would have been a dent in my strict reputation.

But.... some unlucky circumstance turned into an opportunity.
My pet was ill, she had an infection and was really unable to play. Of course however, she got utterly bored and horny form doing nothing. We were chatting at an evening and i asked her how many orgasms she had had that day (for reason of illness her orgasm-restriction was lifted), but she did not want to say.
As we had just read your interrogation-blog she asked "what I would do to her" to get that number. So I let her imagine to get tortured in some interrogation setup. In fact we "did" the interrogation you proposed, but not for real, fantasy only.
We both went very serious in that fantasy. I tortured her, and at the end she confessed. Strangely enough this ended up in being an extremely hot session.
I was able to torture her without having to be afraid about pushing too far. She was enjoying a fantasy that went further than she would be able to handle for real. She had always been curious towards how far I would feel comfortable to push her. Now she could experience. She got thrilled by the push she got,.. and at the end she really wanted to confess. She simply could not stand getting an other even further torturing message from me.
After the play we talked (just like we always do after a real session). We quickly agreed we were both completely insane, but also both had experienced the whole thing as very hot.

Originally Posted by TheKidWithSkills

Interesting points but I want to give my take on this comment.

You're right, inexperienced Doms, subs, Masters, Mistresses, and slaves may go wrong with this. However, the only way to get experience on something is to do it.

So yeah, I vote if you're curious and know your sub/slave.

But, I do agree, don't do this in a fresh relationship. Especially since your goal is to get a safe word. In a scene like this, the Dom has to be aware.

And know when they went to far. Cause in a scene like this, a sub can go way past their limits and regret it later. Know your sub.

In a scene like this, the Dom can stop it if they think the sub has had enough but there's no garuntee the sub will as they may be holding out in order to not disappoint their Dom.

So I wouldn't recommend this for fresh relationships. This can go too far fast if you do not know your partner.

I don't think it excuses the Dom from being cautious. I think it gives the Dom no excuse to not be cautious. Even though this scene technically has a safe word, it needs to be treated as if there are no safewords.

Because the subs goal is not to use it (which is always the goal but usually for both parties). This has the added risk factor as the sub will go past limits and the Dom has to be careful not to take it to far.

And the Dom has to keep in mind what the sub can't do under any circumstances (like I'm sure AM wouldn't tell IceMadien to strip in front of her child), that's too far even in a scene like this.

And he wouldn't tell Heart to have sex with 10 strangers in ten minutes.

This is too far even in a scene like this. This is why parties need to know each other. One to know everyone involved is sane. Two, so the Dom knows what limits he can't go past. There is a limit even without limits as AM has said before.

And I also believe sessions like this do need more aftercare than normal.

So I don't find it dangerous, I find it a huge display of trust.

But if AM was a stranger to them both, then I would have different feelings about it. Same if I thought he was crazy.

Originally Posted by MarvHarvey

Kid, I think maybe you are describing the need to know the difference between, (my choice of words): "limits" of various degrees and the "do not exceed" line -- and the need to know the difference.