Yes it can be hard to find that person, but you just need to be persistent, and enjoy yourself in the process. Write your detailed ad and get it posted, explore the blog section and get to know people by sending them genuine friendly pms, join chat and participate in the general banter, let your personality shine through, make friends .... and just know that it can happen at any time.

I am proof of that. I never expected to meet somebody like Asslvr and to be where I am right now, but it did and it is wonderful and it worth the wait and the frustrations that come with trial and error.

I think If you are being yourself on a site that you love... Don't think about that as hassle, think of it as fun?

I really love this site too! It has been amazing for me, I have explored so much, and had huge amounts of fun, and I believe I have become a better person too. Being a female I don't have the same problem in finding partners, but I do think the above advice is good. If you are yourself, and are active, and let your personality and dedication shine through, it will be much more likely that you will get noticed and that someone will take a liking to you. I will send you good thoughts for sure!

I've been here a little while now and have made ads and such. It is SOOO hard for male subs to find dominants, particularly female Dommes. There are so few per sub that the odds are overwhelming. I think that extreme activity on the site... being active weekly at worst, daily if possible, in the forum and in chat is the best way to stick out from the crowd.

Write a long good ad, not just covering your kink side but also about your personality, hobby's, interests etc.
Also try the chat, no don't sit there asking
"any female dom online" or even worse, just send private chats and whispers. Just participate in the subject in the chat, whatever it is. Make yourself stand out in a good way, some dominant girl may take a liking to you and start chatting with you. That's what I found the best way to find someone who is as serious as you.

I understand what you mean. Most people only want a quick fix on here; finding someone to connect with over a longer period of time over here is a much more difficult task.

Hi Hunter. Welcome to the world of blogging

I love seeing people who never used to be able to spell grow up and change and join the real world :P

Yes, there may be some creeps on here, but most of the people are real, genuine, wonderful people and I hope that if you put yourself out there, you can get to know some of them. If you are interested, go participate in chat (we are in way different time zones, so I won't see you in there likely, but there is usually a great group of people) and please feel free to send me a pm.