Disclaimer: I explicitely state that I don't live up to the following standards I may provide in the following text. I am just Human afterall.

Welcome to the internet, a world of anonymity.
That means, you can just jump in, so much is free today, so less effort is needed. No need to pay an entry fee, show your passport or even a pic of yourself. No one needs to know who you are until you decide to reveal it.

Don't overestimate your disconnect between your virtual persona...

I was asked how people can avoid shutting others off who have trouble with stricly men and women seperation. It was such a nice talk.

While I usually avoid participating in threads discriminating men or women, I recently took part in this add thread. It was not only about deepthroats, my number one love fetish, but also offered something for "anyone else" than "women" and "men", plus I could add more than "men". It didn't feel perfect, but good enough....