Just a rainbow with some kink.
♥ 365 days of being Deschut's subby ♥
Tags anniversary, bdsm, long distance, relationship, sadist
365 days...
and approximately...
(Deschut has been my dommy for a full year* now. I can't even believe it, but it is really true! I have done so many incredibly hard things for him, but he also listens, cares for me a great deal, and makes me always feel safe, cared for, and protected.
We have had a few hard days, 3 to be exact, where one of us made a mistake, but the incredible thing is that with a short conversation, some good communication, and with love, we were able to resolve the problems and move forward even better than before.)
Deschut: When we started, the first few weeks were overwhelmingly intense, exciting and fun. It seemed at the time like it could not possibly last at that intensity, or that it must somehow be unreal.
Over the past year you have become one of my favorite people on the earth. I really think the world of you and honor your personality, dedication, enthusiasm and care. I cherish the times we spend talking about our lives, laughing together, and our amazingly perfect play.
Being your subby is sometimes very very difficult, but it is also the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I love how you always continue to push me to do more, to grow and explore new things. It is so amazing that what we have is still just as exciting and fun as it was those first few weeks, and that it continues to be so so perfect.
* Nice words is what I call the words of affection that constitute most of online aftercare.
* It was technically 4 punishments, but all at the same time.
*It has not technically been a year, it will be in a week. I started working on this over a month ago, and could not contain myself anymore before showing Deschut!
and approximately...
146,000 spanks
43,800 kiks
16,425 nice words*10,950 hours of laughing
7,761km between us
3,600 naughty pictures
1,460 hours bound2,555 edges
1,000 (number of times I think of you each day.)
336 emails565 tasks
295 reports
270 days of denial
200 nights of sleeping tasks210 hours on webcam
184 dead batteries
111 hours of fucking myself with the dildo
9 limits dropped38 new toys.
6 (times I've cried)
3 bumpy days
365 days of feeling protected, cared for and loved1 punishment*
(Deschut has been my dommy for a full year* now. I can't even believe it, but it is really true! I have done so many incredibly hard things for him, but he also listens, cares for me a great deal, and makes me always feel safe, cared for, and protected.
We have had a few hard days, 3 to be exact, where one of us made a mistake, but the incredible thing is that with a short conversation, some good communication, and with love, we were able to resolve the problems and move forward even better than before.)
Deschut: When we started, the first few weeks were overwhelmingly intense, exciting and fun. It seemed at the time like it could not possibly last at that intensity, or that it must somehow be unreal.
Over the past year you have become one of my favorite people on the earth. I really think the world of you and honor your personality, dedication, enthusiasm and care. I cherish the times we spend talking about our lives, laughing together, and our amazingly perfect play.
Being your subby is sometimes very very difficult, but it is also the most rewarding thing I have ever done. I love how you always continue to push me to do more, to grow and explore new things. It is so amazing that what we have is still just as exciting and fun as it was those first few weeks, and that it continues to be so so perfect.
I am so, so, so lucky and grateful every day to be your playtoy, your fucktoy, your subby, and your friend.
I am really strongly hoping for another amazing, fun, incredible, wonderful, exciting, mindblowing, unbelievable, perfect year!
* Nice words is what I call the words of affection that constitute most of online aftercare.
* It was technically 4 punishments, but all at the same time.
*It has not technically been a year, it will be in a week. I started working on this over a month ago, and could not contain myself anymore before showing Deschut!
Total Comments 25
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Posted 06-29-2014 at 08:49 PM by SweetTeen -
Congratulations, you both deserve all the happiness the world has to offer <3
Posted 06-29-2014 at 08:51 PM by jlstockton25 -
Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:00 PM by sonicboom1979 -
Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:17 PM by justJane -
Posted 06-29-2014 at 09:55 PM by Shadowice -
@SweetTeen: Thank you so much, and I hope the same for you!!
@JL: You are so so so so so nice, thank you!!!
@SonicBoom: Thank you!!! I really hope it does too!
@justJane: Pffft. You know how I feel.
@shadowice: I am happy you enjoyed it! I am a big stats junkie myself, that was one of my favorite classes in college! I really do adore him, and every single day I get so so so so so excited for him to wake up!!!Posted 06-29-2014 at 10:14 PM by Happy Me -
Posted 06-29-2014 at 11:15 PM by SaraMueller
Updated 06-29-2014 at 11:43 PM by SaraMueller -
I am a really good subby! *bows*
Edit: Oh, also, that punishment was not anything I would ever want to repeat. *hides*
Edit3: Also... I think Deschut is the best dommy ever and I am pretty constantly worried about letting him down!Posted 06-29-2014 at 11:26 PM by Happy Me
Updated 06-30-2014 at 10:19 AM by Happy Me -
Happy one year anniversary to the both of you! Here's to year(s) to come! It's so great to see what the two of you have together. I know you think the world of Des, and the way Des talks about you shows me he cares a great deal about you.
Oh, and those are some impressive numbers, it's a great idea to post them all like this!Posted 06-30-2014 at 01:39 AM by drwarschauu -
Posted 06-30-2014 at 03:08 AM by Happy Me -
Posted 06-30-2014 at 08:34 AM by Subbiebrookie -
Posted 06-30-2014 at 09:57 AM by StrawDog -
Thank you Subbiebrookie and Straw Dog!
The crazy thing is that I know we should be proud we made it this far, this well. I mean, I know it must have taken some effort. But, while I am aware that we are both extraordinarily dedicated, it has seemed so uncomplicated and effortless (well, effortless is the wrong word when it comes to playing with a sadist, but you know what I mean) almost the entire time. I guess part of that is an extreme compatibility level, our personalities are so similar, and kink-wise, gah. Part of that is that both of us have a really strong aversion to drama. And the biggest part of it is that Deschut really is the best dommy in the history of ever, I am fairly certain!Posted 06-30-2014 at 11:13 AM by Happy Me -
Posted 06-30-2014 at 05:46 PM by DoingMyBest -
Posted 06-30-2014 at 07:55 PM by Happy Me -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 02:45 AM by naughtylittlegirl -
This is so cool. I love the stats, but it's even more amazing that you two have stayed together and that it didn't feel like work. Things like this are reassuring after hearing so many people who can't find what they're looking for.
Of course, you are completely awesome, so that might have something to do with itPosted 07-01-2014 at 09:00 AM by kittenlyss -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 10:15 AM by silverdarknight -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 10:29 AM by Happy Me -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 11:36 AM by pet monkey -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 12:04 PM by Alexis Rune -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 12:13 PM by kittenlyss -
Posted 07-01-2014 at 12:18 PM by kittenlyss -
Posted 07-02-2014 at 03:59 PM by Happy Me -
Lol, glad to be able to cause a laugh. Although looking at your bouncing little rainbow sheep always makes me giggle. I think moving GIFs are a million times better than they could be if they stayed still.
Posted 07-03-2014 at 12:08 PM by kittenlyss