On Christmas day evening, I will be travelling back to Ontario to visit my family. I will be there for 2 weeks. I am both excited and dreading this trip. I have been struggling with a lot of anxiety surrounding it and I thought it might help to put it down here ...

Positive feelings
I am excited to see my mom, brother, cousin and best friend. I am really excited to be able to do some wedding activities with my best friend as she recently got engaged and I am finalizing some of...

This is now my second Christmas here in Alberta with my love. Christmas has always been one of my favorite times of the year, and I grew up with lots of different traditions. Of course traditions change over time, but I guess it is a bit sad that I feel like I have almost none of those traditions left.

We used to always go visit my grandma on Christmas Eve. It would be a huge Christmas dinner with all of my cousins and aunts and uncles. We would have dinner and then open presents. As...

As I explained here, I love PM dares. Maybe you love dressing differently, you dislike it or it humiliates you, but however, if you want to invite others to dare you to dress in certain ways, these PM dare proposals are for you. They also contain some other activities possibly messing with your gender identification. Feel free to link to this list, copy all of them or parts into your own PM dare list, modify them however you like or just let them inspire you. PM or comment with any change or new PM dare...

Somebody recently asked me how I balance our D/s relationship with being in love. It really got me thinking, and I thought I would try to write about it a bit.


When Asslvr and I first met, we met on getDare and started to play online. We seemed to have a strong connection and a great D/s dynamic. We had daily rules, weekly routines and regular playtime, as well as lots of time to just be in contact with each other and talking about kinky and non kinky things. We talked a lot!...

Figging is always something I have wanted to try, but it is something that has always scared the crap out of me! Which I think also turned me on more ….


After reading a blog by Sub Lucy about figging, I wanted to try it even more. Asslvr and I haven’t had much time to play lately, so I decided I would use my sub as a guinea pig.


I had Jaroface purchase some ginger on his way home and then we had a play session with the ginger. I will let him share further...

My pet recently suggested that I post a blog on my views and feelings surrounding punishments, both giving and receiving.


First of all, I want to stress that there is a huge different between a punishment and a funishment.


Punishment
I believe that punishments are something that should be avoided. A punishment should be something that is a consequence for breaking a rule, or being “bad”. It should consist of something that the punishee doesn’t like,...

I have been reflecting a lot lately about the past year. It is too easy to focus on the negative and hard things that happened, however it is so important to remember all the positive and lovely things. So many things have happened this past year. There have been so many ups and a few downs, but the ups are what I want to celebrate:

*I started planning my wedding to the most amazing...