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When Did I Become So Lucky?

Posted 04-20-2015 at 11:29 PM by IceMaiden (IceMaiden's Blog of Awesome)

I'm not really sure, to be honest.

All I know is sometime last year I posted an ad for a female submissive and Soph answered it...and now here we are.

I would NEVER have thought my searching for a female sub would result in me finding the best friend I could ever hope for. Anyone who has read her latest blog post will be aware she has a lot going on right now...of course as her bestie I know the full story, and that only makes her mean even more to me.

This...

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How To Deal With Butthead Doms

Posted 08-10-2015 at 08:40 AM by IceMaiden (IceMaiden's Blog of Awesome)

It's been brought to my attention recently that a few certain Dom's have started to become total buttheads.

I'm here to help you retrain them into the cuddly tear bears they really are. I emphasize that word because: It's all an act! They're trying to pretend they're tough and strong and mean and all things bad and they're hoping you believe it enough to the point you stop questioning it. They have to portray the big bad Dom image somehow, after all.

Don't. Believe. It....

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Eyes down.

Posted 09-17-2015 at 03:14 AM by AbusiveMaster

A submissive should look to the floor, not meet the gaze of her Dominant. She is lower than he is, and her actions should reflect that. Her posture, her gestures should mirror her status. That is why she kneels.

And yet.

Beneath me? Never. She is my equal, the flip side of my coin. In some ways she is so far above me that I could never reach.

I look after her, of course, but that isn's a hardship for me, my side of what we do together is as natural as...

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Reward vs Punishment

Posted 09-17-2015 at 04:15 PM by AbusiveMaster

So. I dont actually remember why i agreed, but I promised my pet I would write a blog on a subject of her choosing. The subject she asked for was "Reward vs Punishment- which is more effective and why?"

It's actually an interesting question, and I dont know if it has a definitive answer. It depends on the dynamic of each relationship, and the people involved. So instead of trying to decide what is right for everyone (i am taking a day off from my usual job) I will just put...

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Being there.

Posted 10-09-2015 at 03:35 PM by AbusiveMaster

Let's just say, theoretically, someone you knew and liked a lot was going through something difficult. Pretending she was ok with something when the reality was quite different. Of course, people tend to cope, even if the mechanisms can be harmful. Somehow you can see through the facade, however strongly it is maintained. You want to help, to be there, and so you are there.

And thats how it begins. In friendship, but protective. A desire to look after someone, make everything as...

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My girl.

Posted 11-29-2015 at 04:56 PM by AbusiveMaster
Updated 11-29-2015 at 05:06 PM by AbusiveMaster

So. I promised my girl a blog, she asked for it. "A nice blog about me." Those were her words. Normally, if she tried to give me a 'task' of any kind she would regret it. So why, then, am I giving in?

Is it because I am wrapped tightly about her little finger? No. Oh I am, no doubt about it. My princess has me right where she wants me, but thats not why.

Is it because I suddenly turned into a switch? Hell no, if that happened I think we would be seeing another...

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When You're Really Not In The Mood.

Posted 03-19-2016 at 02:48 PM by IceMaiden (IceMaiden's Blog of Awesome)
Updated 06-15-2016 at 05:41 AM by IceMaiden

For quite a while Master and I haven't been able to play as much as we used to due to life getting in the way and then I had one illness after another for quite some time.

There's no question about the fact I am always his but when I am not actively playing or able to follow rules after some time I start to become...let's say independant.

And when I get to that stage even the simplest things are just not something I want to do. And then I fuck about and complain and whine...

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