Hot punishment

ohne_id · 07-07-2011, 04:25 AM

For this you will need:

- a large candle (only use artificial wax, no bee wax!)
- a lighter

First you need to get hard, then you light the candle and drop some wax onto your cock. Try to do this slow. It will hurt a bit at the beginning but will feel better soon. If you only have bee wax then you might burn your sensible skin, as this is melting on a too high temperature.

Now you will cover your entire cock with hot wax. Don't let this layer be too thin and don't leave out any spots.

When you're done with that just try to get your cock soft again (maybe use some ice cubes or whatever). Then you should be able to take off the wax and get an imprint of your own cock.

You will now use the rest of your candle and fill that hollow body with wax. Maybe you need to take some time for that, cause the whole thign shouldn't get too warm or it will lose its shape.
When you're done you can use your lighter to get a smooth texture of your own little dildo.

Now it's up to you if you just let the wax stand on your desk or actually use it as a dildo. I think it might be wise to use a condom over it though, don't know how safe wax would be.

If you feel creative you could also drill a small hole into the hollow body before you fill it up and stick a wick in it. Now you have your own candle, which should also be quite embarrassing.

Pet Phoenix · 07-07-2011, 08:50 AM

Also avoid coloured candles or shiny or scented candles, anything like that, they all have varying temperatures that are typically too high. Wax play can be very intense and often too much for some male submissives, start by dripping wax onto your thigh to get a feel for it.. then just be brave

ohne_id · 07-07-2011, 08:57 AM

Thanks for adding that information.

I normally use these candles:

carom · 07-07-2011, 09:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ohne_id

Thanks for adding that information.

I normally use these candles:

then you chose candels with the coldest wax i am aware of.
In general complete white cheap candels will have the lowest temperature.

In addition to what phoenix said; Newer use bee wax candels! Ever!

Pet Phoenix · 07-08-2011, 03:08 PM

hehe i use those ones too.. well, those and similar candlesticks, in my opinon they are pleanty warm enough carom ^^ haha

DarkAndEvil · 07-08-2011, 03:22 PM

Candle wax - the best advice is to start of dripping from a reasonable height, and get closer only once you're sure you can handle the heat, lower it slightly.

If you're using tea lights (as shown in the picture), be careful of the metal casing as it can get hot - remove it if you can. I recommend church-style candles, as they produce plenty of wax - as well as adding to the drama of the occassion (especially if you're having some priest-nun roleplay

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Counterfeit_Fantasy · 07-10-2011, 09:07 AM

It may be wise that you use the candle 3 feet or higher up. You should also test it on the skin of your Thigh>forearm>stomach before going for more sensitive skin. The wax you're looking for is paraffin wax.

mackers · 08-25-2012, 08:24 AM

Has anyone tried this and created their own cock-dildo?

Pet Phoenix · 09-08-2012, 04:27 AM

The wax is far too fragile for that I'm afraid mackers

You can get some sections of your cock quite nicley cast X3 but the wax is very brittle and crumbles easily once it's dried, even if you go quite thick with it, you'd be better off trying to warm a big solid candle evenly throughout so the wax becomes slightly malleable and moulding a dildo out of that :P

07-07-2011, 04:25 AM	#1
ohne_id Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Germany Posts: 196	Hot punishment For this you will need: - a large candle (only use artificial wax, no bee wax!) - a lighter First you need to get hard, then you light the candle and drop some wax onto your cock. Try to do this slow. It will hurt a bit at the beginning but will feel better soon. If you only have bee wax then you might burn your sensible skin, as this is melting on a too high temperature. Now you will cover your entire cock with hot wax. Don't let this layer be too thin and don't leave out any spots. When you're done with that just try to get your cock soft again (maybe use some ice cubes or whatever). Then you should be able to take off the wax and get an imprint of your own cock. You will now use the rest of your candle and fill that hollow body with wax. Maybe you need to take some time for that, cause the whole thign shouldn't get too warm or it will lose its shape. When you're done you can use your lighter to get a smooth texture of your own little dildo. Now it's up to you if you just let the wax stand on your desk or actually use it as a dildo. I think it might be wise to use a condom over it though, don't know how safe wax would be. If you feel creative you could also drill a small hole into the hollow body before you fill it up and stick a wick in it. Now you have your own candle, which should also be quite embarrassing. __________________ 30 male from Germany Limits: public, messy, crossdressing, pee/poo, cum eating, illegal

07-07-2011, 08:50 AM	#2
Pet Phoenix Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: London Posts: 712 Blog Entries: 5	Also avoid coloured candles or shiny or scented candles, anything like that, they all have varying temperatures that are typically too high. Wax play can be very intense and often too much for some male submissives, start by dripping wax onto your thigh to get a feel for it.. then just be brave __________________ 20/Male/London If you wish to make a man happy add not to his riches but take from his desires. My toys: http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/album.php?albumid=650 extreme anal, pain, bondage, toys, enemas, mild cbt, non-consensual, humiliation, denial, flagellation/spanking, crossdressing, nipple play, heavy cbt, milking, watersports, urethral, chores, daipers, friends, public, wax/fire, e-stim scat, worship, family

07-07-2011, 08:57 AM	#3
ohne_id Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Germany Posts: 196	Thanks for adding that information. I normally use these candles: __________________ 30 male from Germany Limits: public, messy, crossdressing, pee/poo, cum eating, illegal

07-08-2011, 03:08 PM	#5
Pet Phoenix Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: London Posts: 712 Blog Entries: 5	hehe i use those ones too.. well, those and similar candlesticks, in my opinon they are pleanty warm enough carom ^^ haha __________________ 20/Male/London If you wish to make a man happy add not to his riches but take from his desires. My toys: http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/album.php?albumid=650 extreme anal, pain, bondage, toys, enemas, mild cbt, non-consensual, humiliation, denial, flagellation/spanking, crossdressing, nipple play, heavy cbt, milking, watersports, urethral, chores, daipers, friends, public, wax/fire, e-stim scat, worship, family

07-08-2011, 03:22 PM	#6
DarkAndEvil getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: UK Posts: 289 Blog Entries: 2	Candle wax - the best advice is to start of dripping from a reasonable height, and get closer only once you're sure you can handle the heat, lower it slightly. If you're using tea lights (as shown in the picture), be careful of the metal casing as it can get hot - remove it if you can. I recommend church-style candles, as they produce plenty of wax - as well as adding to the drama of the occassion (especially if you're having some priest-nun roleplay ) __________________ I am me. Not much more to say, really

07-10-2011, 09:07 AM	#7
Counterfeit_Fantasy Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Narnia Posts: 188 Blog Entries: 9	It may be wise that you use the candle 3 feet or higher up. You should also test it on the skin of your Thigh>forearm>stomach before going for more sensitive skin. The wax you're looking for is paraffin wax. __________________ Passive Aggressive, Sarcastic, and Squishy, oh so Squishy Message - Comment - FetLife

08-25-2012, 08:24 AM	#8
mackers Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: Northern Ireland Posts: 15	Has anyone tried this and created their own cock-dildo? __________________ - Anal, Nipple play, bondage, body writing, underwear, rubber, leather, chastity play (short periods), edging, light pain - cum, spanking, heavy pain, long dares, enema - piss, blood, scat, public, friends, family, crossdressing, nappies, food involvement Anything else just suggest and I'll try it! Only looking for masters under 30! I'd also consider taking on an online male slave too.

09-08-2012, 04:27 AM	#9
Pet Phoenix Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: London Posts: 712 Blog Entries: 5	The wax is far too fragile for that I'm afraid mackers You can get some sections of your cock quite nicley cast X3 but the wax is very brittle and crumbles easily once it's dried, even if you go quite thick with it, you'd be better off trying to warm a big solid candle evenly throughout so the wax becomes slightly malleable and moulding a dildo out of that :P __________________ 20/Male/London If you wish to make a man happy add not to his riches but take from his desires. My toys: http://www.kinktalk.com/talk/album.php?albumid=650 extreme anal, pain, bondage, toys, enemas, mild cbt, non-consensual, humiliation, denial, flagellation/spanking, crossdressing, nipple play, heavy cbt, milking, watersports, urethral, chores, daipers, friends, public, wax/fire, e-stim scat, worship, family