Can someone post some helpful tips for a new mistress?

switchboy37 · 03-21-2011, 07:18 PM

my mistress needs some helpful tips any thing will help.. Ideas, punishments anything.

Thanks

Sorry for the bad post, in a hurry

Vehk · 03-21-2011, 08:00 PM

When I am a top I try to understand what my submissives like, I tend to find that a lot of my ideas tend to come when I am thinking about something completely unrelated to the D/s lifestyle at all but when I do come up with an idea I make note of it and look back at it later to see if it is good or not. Also if she is having a really hard time trying to figure out something to do as a bottom speak up. Sometimes it is ok to top from the bottom, especially when the Dom is having a hard time.

Read some of the suggestions in the Punishment forums, don't be afraid to use these/adapt these, that's what they are there for. If you're really stuck watch some porn, read some stories, who knows what you'll find?

If that all fails just go back to the basics, CBT, Begging, Forced Fem, whatever the sub interests/limits reflect.

If she,or you have any questions feel free to contact me, I'm always willing to help out those who are new to this lifestyle.

03-21-2011, 07:18 PM	#1
switchboy37 Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13	Can someone post some helpful tips for a new mistress? my mistress needs some helpful tips any thing will help.. Ideas, punishments anything. Thanks Sorry for the bad post, in a hurry

03-21-2011, 08:00 PM	#2
Vehk Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: The Wasteland of South Dakota Posts: 12	When I am a top I try to understand what my submissives like, I tend to find that a lot of my ideas tend to come when I am thinking about something completely unrelated to the D/s lifestyle at all but when I do come up with an idea I make note of it and look back at it later to see if it is good or not. Also if she is having a really hard time trying to figure out something to do as a bottom speak up. Sometimes it is ok to top from the bottom, especially when the Dom is having a hard time. Read some of the suggestions in the Punishment forums, don't be afraid to use these/adapt these, that's what they are there for. If you're really stuck watch some porn, read some stories, who knows what you'll find? If that all fails just go back to the basics, CBT, Begging, Forced Fem, whatever the sub interests/limits reflect. If she,or you have any questions feel free to contact me, I'm always willing to help out those who are new to this lifestyle.