Girls and Boys - masturbation abstinence

HarryPotter · 01-22-2022, 02:44 AM

I generally masturbate 2 or 3 times a week - normally towards the weekend - mainly as this is when I have the house to myself. Therefore, I know the difference in orgasm intensity having waited for around 5 days between sessions.

I know that some of you run dares that require you to abstain from orgasm for lengthy periods of time. Can I ask - does abstinence intensify the orgasm that much? Is it worth it? I'd be interested to hear about your experiences

forever87 · 01-23-2022, 06:00 AM

Personally the intensity varies and length of denial not always consistent with a strong post denial orgasm, BUT I do tend to produce a lot more cum

JamieDarkheart · 01-30-2022, 11:17 PM

Mmm I rarely go 24 hours without orgasming!! I'm into chastity, but due to my poor self control I've never managed over a week and a half. I do believe that intensity will increase, some of the best orgasms I have had have been after a few days in chastity - but in your case it might not make as big of a difference! It helps not to look at porn while you abstain and keep your mind off of sexy things, otherwise it's torture.

NervousOne · 02-02-2022, 04:15 PM

for me it is really variable. sometimes i will go weeks where it is constantly on my mind and all i think about and im doing it daily. sometimes its not that important and i dont think about it or do it for a week or two at a time. might have something to do with hormones.

all my orgasms are great when im turned on, and if im told to orgasm when im not in a turned on mood, they are okay, but not nearly as good.

if im tasked with not orgasming by my play partner during one of the times im really turned on, its like crazy fun torture. especially if he is dangling the idea of orgasming over me like a carrot. that kind of teasing and playing can be really fun, as long as there's a chance that i might actually get that carrot. the buildup of playing like that and being forced to abstain for a while while playing can make for an AMAZING orgasm once im finally able to.

having said that, there's definitely a tipping point. sometimes he just gets in a mood and tells me that im not allowed to orgasm for a month, or that im not allowed to orgasm unless he tells me i can and im not allowed to talk about it or hint about it or ask for it. in those cases, he doesn't talk about it either and it can be weeks or over a month. in those cases, the fun wears off. its not exciting or hot. theres no anticipation for whats to come, so its just boring and just kinda makes me feel irritated with my situation. even after all that time, when i am allowed to orgasm, its not usually that great, its more of a feeling of relief, but not a feeling of increased intensity.

01-22-2022, 02:44 AM	#1
HarryPotter getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: Usually naked in NW England Posts: 328 Blog Entries: 49	Girls and Boys - masturbation abstinence I generally masturbate 2 or 3 times a week - normally towards the weekend - mainly as this is when I have the house to myself. Therefore, I know the difference in orgasm intensity having waited for around 5 days between sessions. I know that some of you run dares that require you to abstain from orgasm for lengthy periods of time. Can I ask - does abstinence intensify the orgasm that much? Is it worth it? I'd be interested to hear about your experiences __________________ Likes: nudity, nakedness, no clothes, hidden public, messy, WAM Dislikes: Limits: Poop/Scat, diapers, wedgies, pics of face, family/friends, pain/blood, social suicide I'm looking for suitable nude challenges to add to my list of dares - if anyone has a challenge that I could add to my list, PM me with details My Current Nude Challenge List My Simple Fantasies List AMA thread Commando since 15/03/17 - 2543 days to 01/03/24 (6.97 years now) BDSM Test - 69% Exhibitionist

01-23-2022, 06:00 AM	#2
forever87 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: NZ Posts: 194 Blog Entries: 3	Personally the intensity varies and length of denial not always consistent with a strong post denial orgasm, BUT I do tend to produce a lot more cum __________________ Likes: edging, denial, humiliation, exhibitionism, hidden public, forced and ruined orgasms, mild pain Maybe...cum eating, cbt, ass play Dislikes: messy, pee, corner time/lines, face, strong pain Limits: full public, illegal, scat, blood, family Kik: Forever8778123 7/22 orgasms used for 2024 Last orgasm May 3rd

02-02-2022, 04:15 PM	#4
NervousOne Member Join Date: Mar 2019 Posts: 39	for me it is really variable. sometimes i will go weeks where it is constantly on my mind and all i think about and im doing it daily. sometimes its not that important and i dont think about it or do it for a week or two at a time. might have something to do with hormones. all my orgasms are great when im turned on, and if im told to orgasm when im not in a turned on mood, they are okay, but not nearly as good. if im tasked with not orgasming by my play partner during one of the times im really turned on, its like crazy fun torture. especially if he is dangling the idea of orgasming over me like a carrot. that kind of teasing and playing can be really fun, as long as there's a chance that i might actually get that carrot. the buildup of playing like that and being forced to abstain for a while while playing can make for an AMAZING orgasm once im finally able to. having said that, there's definitely a tipping point. sometimes he just gets in a mood and tells me that im not allowed to orgasm for a month, or that im not allowed to orgasm unless he tells me i can and im not allowed to talk about it or hint about it or ask for it. in those cases, he doesn't talk about it either and it can be weeks or over a month. in those cases, the fun wears off. its not exciting or hot. theres no anticipation for whats to come, so its just boring and just kinda makes me feel irritated with my situation. even after all that time, when i am allowed to orgasm, its not usually that great, its more of a feeling of relief, but not a feeling of increased intensity. __________________ no longer active

01-30-2022, 11:17 PM	#3
JamieDarkheart Member Join Date: Jan 2022 Posts: 35	Mmm I rarely go 24 hours without orgasming!! I'm into chastity, but due to my poor self control I've never managed over a week and a half. I do believe that intensity will increase, some of the best orgasms I have had have been after a few days in chastity - but in your case it might not make as big of a difference! It helps not to look at porn while you abstain and keep your mind off of sexy things, otherwise it's torture.