Slave Question re a master

gingerneo · 10-26-2009, 12:58 AM

I have been playing with a master for a few weeks now and all was fine.

When we started a set 1 of my limits as no family. However all my master seems to want is details and pictures of my wife and her family. I have asked him to respect my limits and he said he would but then continues to ask anyway.

Has anybody any advice please.

Looking for a master/Mistress to play with.

urlilslave080 · 10-26-2009, 01:18 AM

Well i would ditch him, if your wife knows bout him then ask her if not then as i said i would tell him that he is crossing a limit and if he don't stop then it is over.

Leopard · 10-26-2009, 02:07 AM

If you've explained that's a limit and he keeps doing it, ditch him and warn everyone else. That sort of behaviour is not acceptable at all.

John Masters · 10-26-2009, 03:41 AM

I've come across on-line master before whose real interest in not you but your wife or other female relatives. They think that by getting you turned on you're more likely to give up the personal information they're really after. Unless this is something you are interested in drop him now.

Odiefrom · 10-26-2009, 03:56 AM

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Originally Posted by K687

ditch him and warn everyone else.

I agree to the ditching part, because he won't respect your limits, he might have no respect for you. But on the warning everyone, I'd be careful if I were you. That could seem like you are being destructive and just trying to flame him. Hope this works out for you in the end

Domsub · 10-26-2009, 05:27 AM

i am afraid he is not worth bothering with! being a master is not easy! there are very few who have really mastered it!

Leopard · 10-26-2009, 06:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Odiefrom

I agree to the ditching part, because he won't respect your limits, he might have no respect for you. But on the warning everyone, I'd be careful if I were you. That could seem like you are being destructive and just trying to flame him. Hope this works out for you in the end

Hrm, that's true. But if it's proven by several individuals that this person has been doing the same to them, I would think it better to not let others fall into the trap. Then again, they could simply change usernames, so I guess there's not much point. Either way, if they refuse to respect hard limits, especially if they want photos of your wife/family/etc. do not bother with him.

10-26-2009, 12:58 AM	#1
gingerneo Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: UK Posts: 75	Slave Question re a master I have been playing with a master for a few weeks now and all was fine. When we started a set 1 of my limits as no family. However all my master seems to want is details and pictures of my wife and her family. I have asked him to respect my limits and he said he would but then continues to ask anyway. Has anybody any advice please. Looking for a master/Mistress to play with.

10-26-2009, 01:18 AM	#2
urlilslave080 Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: australia Posts: 587 Blog Entries: 1	Well i would ditch him, if your wife knows bout him then ask her if not then as i said i would tell him that he is crossing a limit and if he don't stop then it is over. __________________ IF YOU WANT TO PLAY A DARE GAME AND HAVE A DECK OF CARDS BE SURE TO CHECK OUT MY THREAD TEXAS DARE EM http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=23559 OR IF YOU HAVE DICE CHECK OUt MY NEW DICE DARE GAME http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=27595 Happy Daring

10-26-2009, 05:27 AM	#6
Domsub getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: uk Posts: 283	if he can't respectyour limits i am afraid he is not worth bothering with! being a master is not easy! there are very few who have really mastered it!

10-26-2009, 02:07 AM	#3
Leopard Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 2,522	If you've explained that's a limit and he keeps doing it, ditch him and warn everyone else. That sort of behaviour is not acceptable at all.

10-26-2009, 03:41 AM	#4
John Masters Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cumbria Posts: 194	I've come across on-line master before whose real interest in not you but your wife or other female relatives. They think that by getting you turned on you're more likely to give up the personal information they're really after. Unless this is something you are interested in drop him now.