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Old 04-06-2018, 08:02 AM   #1
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Default Tips for anal newbie?

I'm playing with the idea of anal sex, why I think I should invest in either a dildo or a butt plug. However the market is gigantic, and stupid little me cant fingure it out. Do you guys have any tips or recommendation?
I'm looking both for recommendation in good (beginner) toys, but also knowledge and tips in general.

Thanks in advance

P.s. Hope I posted this in the right forum, I wasn't entirely sure
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Old 04-06-2018, 08:05 AM   #2
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I am not that sure, but I think an inflatable buttplug will be good for beginner's play
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Old 04-06-2018, 08:06 AM   #3
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I'm not very experienced with anal toys, but I just got my first ones and I would recommend getting a plug set with different sizes so you can try out and explore what you like and can handle.

And remember to get some good lube and toy cleaner!
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Old 04-06-2018, 08:56 AM   #4
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Take it slow, don't be to eager
Please your outside first, don't go straigt to penetration
Use plenty of lube
Relax
Maybe you will feel like you need to go to the toilet - you won't.
Stretch out sowly, better start small
Have fun
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Old 04-06-2018, 09:19 AM   #5
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Remember smaller is better when learning. Lots of foreplay is required, even if you are horny and want to go in deep. Don't be afraid of lube, it will be your friend. Later when you are more experienced you can experiment with less lube, no lube, or other substances. Use water based lubes with silicone toys, and silicone lubes with non-silicone toys, or it can degrade the toy.

I personally started with a set of 3 sized plugs made of metal.

The best way to start though is just with your fingers.
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This is a blog that I wrote a little while ago with some tips for beginners. I would be happy to answer any other questions that you might have as well.

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=74567

I also wrote a toy review on my favorite beginner plug. I think this would be a great start!

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=77259

I will say that I don't recommend an inflatable plug to begin with. I find that they plug itself can be rather large for a beginner, and although it is a fun feeling to have the pressure increase inside you, I think it is better to get a smaller plug to start with.

If you are going to get a dildo to try fucking, I would recommend sticking to something smaller to start, and pay attention to texture. I find that anything that is textured causes more friction and I am not a fan of the feeling, but to each their own.

If you other questions let me know.

Also I am moving this thread to the advice section.
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Old 04-06-2018, 09:30 AM   #7
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Thank you all for some great advice. I think I'll go shopping
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Old 04-06-2018, 10:58 AM   #8
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Pet Ra View Post
Take it slow, don't be to eager
Please your outside first, don't go straigt to penetration
Use plenty of lube
Relax
Maybe you will feel like you need to go to the toilet - you won't.
Stretch out sowly, better start small
Have fun
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This is a blog that I wrote a little while ago with some tips for beginners. I would be happy to answer any other questions that you might have as well.

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=74567

I also wrote a toy review on my favorite beginner plug. I think this would be a great start!

http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=77259

I will say that I don't recommend an inflatable plug to begin with. I find that they plug itself can be rather large for a beginner, and although it is a fun feeling to have the pressure increase inside you, I think it is better to get a smaller plug to start with.

If you are going to get a dildo to try fucking, I would recommend sticking to something smaller to start, and pay attention to texture. I find that anything that is textured causes more friction and I am not a fan of the feeling, but to each their own.

If you other questions let me know.

Also I am moving this thread to the advice section.
Can not improve on the perfect advice of these two goddeses

But echo everything they say including have fun!
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