30/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (chat slave)

[Asteroth]

30/male/switch seeks any age/female/switch in (see post) (chat slave)

I'll try to structure this post in a way that makes it easy to decide if it's something you like to try, starting with most critical (in my opinion) information first, details later, thus some information will be repeated, hopefully in more detail.

To whom is this ad addressed:
Any female, though obviously you must be at least 18 years old (doubt I'd enjoy prison with all the shower love and lack of fast internet connection there). Experience isn't a must, we'll get there, but if you're very new to this, you must understand that you won't be only a sub or only a domme.
This will be a chat relation, initially on getdare, later we can discuss using different means of communication.

Why?
I believe that many people have both dominant and submissive side which are both worth exploring - ever wondered why many submissives after some time seek their own subs (with permission from their dominants)?

Technicalities:
I am looking for a female play partner with whom I can take turns dominating each other. Instead of typical fixed dom-sub relationship, I want a switching relationship where we can gradually push each other developing both our dominant and submissive sides.
We can negotiate the Duration of such power exchanges, but I think they should start at 1 week for each turn as a trial period. Later on I believe at least 2 weeks cycles, but as I said - I'm open to discuss it. The one dominating is perfectly free to do whatever, while the submissive is controlled by the dominant, with respect to kinks and limits. The dominant can obviously punish the submissive for a reason... or without it , but overall we're supposed to be enjoying it, hence the mention of respect for kinks aka. likes.

Over time I want to build a relation where we can "learn" each other and find best ways to tease and punish the submissive.
Ideally, we'll gradually drive each other into higher levels of play simply by combining concept of "payback" with increase of knowledge of what works best. I don't want it to be just sexual relation, ideally I'd love it if we could talk about everything and nothing.
Since I value and respect privacy I expect us not to trade any pictures until strong trust has been formed and I definitely don't expect them.


About me:
I am 30 year old switch, located in Europe currently looking for a switchy play partner.
I am available online most evenings (from GMT 0 perspective) and occasionally during the day.

* My kinks include:
Orgasm control/denial
chastity
humiliation
light pain
teasing

* Things I'd like to experiment with:
cum eating
anal
self bondage
probably anything not in my limits

Limits are in my signature, if something is not mentioned, feel free to ask. I'm willing to try almost anything not already in my limits at least twice.

Me as Dom:
I enjoy giving orgasm denial, light pain, humiliation, controlled masturbation, basically anything I enjoy receiving, but I can accommodate almost any kink you can think of including more extreme ones.
I avoid giving long tasks as they are often boring, but I do like to give daily tasks or simple rules that won't get in your daily life(unless you want it!), but will definitely make you feel submissive and used. I expect communication, so I want you to be honest with me, especially when you can't do the task. I'm very understanding when it comes to random events getting in the way, but don't tolerate lying.



About you:
Your age and experience is irrelevant, but please keep your mind open. Being from Europe is a strong plus due to time differences, but if your life allows you to be online in the GMT 0 evenings, it'll work just fine.

you as a Domme:
You should (obviously) be interested in at least some of my kinks sufficiently to use them when you're on top and I absolutely want my orgasms controlled. Ideally you should enjoy general banter and some dirty talk during sessions. Creativity and ability to push me a bit is an extra plus. You can go with the flow, be chaotic, under no circumstances are you obliged to let me cum in any particular time when you're on top. Finally, I love to beg - you must be resistant to puppy eyes and desperate pleas.
Your age is irrelevant, neither is your look.
Preferably a playful and mischievous attitude.
Ability to communicate in understandable English is a must. I'm too old for the "hi hru bb?" stuff


Interested?
Contact me via PM to discuss details!

Spoiler:

Yes, I suck at colors so the add is so black and white ;)

Male, switch, prefers sensual domination
Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation
Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss
Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, long term denial, crossdressing, gross
Toys

[saislave]

There is actually no signature in there

[Asteroth]

Originally Posted by saislave

There is actually no signature in there

Thanks for mentioning - don't know why it was stripped, but I added it as it by hand.

[LitDarkness]

He's a nice guy. I'll vouch for him, best of luck.