Extend My Denial - I Need to Learn

iNeedThis · 02-10-2016, 02:30 PM

This is a follow up to another thread, so I'll skip some of the details here (link at bottom). After a few awkward emails with my female friend that I sent control of my emlalock session to (supposedly on accident), she didn't believe it was an accident. I confessed and eventually she wanted to see the poll that lead to my decision. After perusing my activity on this site, including some votes by me to add to other people's denial, she told me she does not want to make these decisions about my chastity herself, but told me to post the following:

I need to learn a lesson about giving over control of my chastity, and about letting other people's votes determine what I do. The 64 days remaining on my session is not enough. Please help my beautiful friend decide how much to add.

Females can add from 1 to 14 days per post.

Others can add 1 day per post.

Consecutive posts by the same person do not count.

This applies for the rest of February, at least. Once she stops adding time, her involvement is done and I just have to wait things out. I am thankful for her help.

(Original thread: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=248943 )

Sam~ · 02-10-2016, 02:39 PM

females can add 14 days? and no limit of how may posts a day? (other than not consecutive) this could be extreme lol

Have 14 days form me

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 03:03 PM

You know that by the end of the month it will be years, right?

Have one day from me.

Sam~ · 02-10-2016, 03:04 PM

another 14 form me lol

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 03:05 PM

Hi Sami! I like your avatar

Add a day

Sam~ · 02-10-2016, 03:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Asteroth

Hi Sami! I like your avatar

Add a day

thanks

add another 14

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 03:07 PM

How is life?

Add one day

Sam~ · 02-10-2016, 03:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Asteroth

How is life?

Add one day

not bad lol

add another 14

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 03:10 PM

Great to hear that!

+1 day

Sam~ · 02-10-2016, 03:12 PM

14 more days

not sure how long I'll keep this up lol

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 03:17 PM

However long you want - in the end it will turn abstract anyway. Perhaps the girl he was trying to manipulate into keyholding will take pity on him?

+1 day

iNeedThis · 02-10-2016, 05:53 PM

I had concerns about the only limit being no consecutive posts, but she said she wanted to try it this way, and I wasn't supposed to express concerns or ask for mercy in the first post, or post again until I'd seen my time updated.

I just checked (again and again and again) and finally saw a change. She went through with adding the days, more than doubling what I thought was a long start time. And WOW, I expected some days to be added, but I did not expect so many so quick, and mostly from one person. Samisphere, you alone more than doubled my time. WOW.

I asked if she would be willing to make a limit on posts per day (per person) that would count, but she said that is too complicated for now and that she will consider it if things get out of hand. I said the time is already so long but she says this is what I wanted, and she said she found other posts where people are waiting much longer so it shouldn't be a big deal.

Part of me is so happy to be locked in with her being the one ultimately in control, but I am worried about the time being so long already (over 19 weeks). And the happy part of me is getting so turned on, which makes wearing the cock cage tough. I truly want to come right now, but can't soon.

Asteroth · 02-10-2016, 05:58 PM

As they say - be careful what you wish for...

Add one day.

silver rel · 02-10-2016, 06:10 PM

Sorry ineedthis, but I have to get in on this. Add a day.

stbke · 02-10-2016, 06:26 PM

Yeah, this seems like a fitting turn.

Did she say she wants no involvement at all, or just no involvement in your chastity?

What do you think you'll do when your time is up?

Add 1 day for me.

02-10-2016, 02:30 PM	#1
iNeedThis Member Join Date: Jan 2016 Posts: 41	Extend My Denial - I Need to Learn This is a follow up to another thread, so I'll skip some of the details here (link at bottom). After a few awkward emails with my female friend that I sent control of my emlalock session to (supposedly on accident), she didn't believe it was an accident. I confessed and eventually she wanted to see the poll that lead to my decision. After perusing my activity on this site, including some votes by me to add to other people's denial, she told me she does not want to make these decisions about my chastity herself, but told me to post the following: I need to learn a lesson about giving over control of my chastity, and about letting other people's votes determine what I do. The 64 days remaining on my session is not enough. Please help my beautiful friend decide how much to add. Females can add from 1 to 14 days per post. Others can add 1 day per post. Consecutive posts by the same person do not count. This applies for the rest of February, at least. Once she stops adding time, her involvement is done and I just have to wait things out. I am thankful for her help. (Original thread: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=248943 )

02-10-2016, 02:39 PM	#2
Sam~ Truth Freak Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 7,065 Blog Entries: 24	females can add 14 days? and no limit of how may posts a day? (other than not consecutive) this could be extreme lol Have 14 days form me __________________ . Likes and Limits Matt is my horny fucktoy <3 MY PM DARES Send Matt some PM dares My AMA My Blog A session with Matt Report

02-10-2016, 03:03 PM	#3
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	You know that by the end of the month it will be years, right? Have one day from me. __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 03:04 PM	#4
Sam~ Truth Freak Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 7,065 Blog Entries: 24	another 14 form me lol __________________ . Likes and Limits Matt is my horny fucktoy <3 MY PM DARES Send Matt some PM dares My AMA My Blog A session with Matt Report

02-10-2016, 03:05 PM	#5
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Hi Sami! I like your avatar Add a day __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 03:07 PM	#7
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	How is life? Add one day __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 03:10 PM	#9
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	Great to hear that! +1 day __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 03:12 PM	#10
Sam~ Truth Freak Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 7,065 Blog Entries: 24	14 more days not sure how long I'll keep this up lol __________________ . Likes and Limits Matt is my horny fucktoy <3 MY PM DARES Send Matt some PM dares My AMA My Blog A session with Matt Report

02-10-2016, 03:17 PM	#11
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	However long you want - in the end it will turn abstract anyway. Perhaps the girl he was trying to manipulate into keyholding will take pity on him? +1 day __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 05:53 PM	#12
iNeedThis Member Join Date: Jan 2016 Posts: 41	I had concerns about the only limit being no consecutive posts, but she said she wanted to try it this way, and I wasn't supposed to express concerns or ask for mercy in the first post, or post again until I'd seen my time updated. I just checked (again and again and again) and finally saw a change. She went through with adding the days, more than doubling what I thought was a long start time. And WOW, I expected some days to be added, but I did not expect so many so quick, and mostly from one person. Samisphere, you alone more than doubled my time. WOW. I asked if she would be willing to make a limit on posts per day (per person) that would count, but she said that is too complicated for now and that she will consider it if things get out of hand. I said the time is already so long but she says this is what I wanted, and she said she found other posts where people are waiting much longer so it shouldn't be a big deal. Part of me is so happy to be locked in with her being the one ultimately in control, but I am worried about the time being so long already (over 19 weeks). And the happy part of me is getting so turned on, which makes wearing the cock cage tough. I truly want to come right now, but can't soon.

02-10-2016, 05:58 PM	#13
Asteroth Truth or Dare Enthusiast Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: Europe Posts: 2,579 Blog Entries: 9	As they say - be careful what you wish for... Add one day. __________________ Male, switch, prefers sensual domination Like: Denial, light pain, forced orgasms, teasing, cbt, humiliation Might do: Cum eating, mild pain, anal, mild selfbondage, piss Limits: Public, Family, Illegal, Friends, Permanent, scat, absurd long term denial, crossdressing, gross Last orgasm: 2020/03/05 [full orgasm] Toys

02-10-2016, 06:10 PM	#14
silver rel Member Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: US Posts: 35	Apologies Sorry ineedthis, but I have to get in on this. Add a day. __________________ Male, 30. I like selfbondage, gags, feminization, cock and ball bondage, teasing, edging, and orgasm denial. I won't do anal, watersports/pee, scat. Toys: Rope, duct tape, electrical tape, pairs of panties, ace bandage, rubberbands, shoelaces, ballgag, and blindfold.

02-10-2016, 06:26 PM	#15
stbke getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2015 Posts: 264	Yeah, this seems like a fitting turn. Did she say she wants no involvement at all, or just no involvement in your chastity? What do you think you'll do when your time is up? Add 1 day for me. __________________ 27 male straight switch likes: obedience, denial, ruined orgasms, edging, frustration, chance, panties not interested: wedgies, messy, soap, diapers, scat/piss limits: anything I determine to be illegal or harmful Toys: 6" silicone strap-on