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Shibari · 05-08-2014, 04:35 AM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it?

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why

kyjd · 05-08-2014, 12:23 PM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it?
I was looking for sexual dares to do

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?
Handcuffs really turn me on so I looked up tied up sex

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
I am on it feel free to friend me ky2k3911. I was looking for bdsm dating sites

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?
I was 16 or 17 and I always loved the idea of being tied up and having a woman or women have their way with me

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why
bdsm.com ky2k91, kinktalk.com ky2k39, milovana.com jd2k91, orgasmdenial.com kyjd3
I was just looking for a way to meet kinky people

littleraisin · 05-08-2014, 01:07 PM

Get Dare? How did you come across it?

I can't actually remember as it was years ago, before the rule change and I was only 14 so quite a long time ago(to put into perspective im 18 now and 19 in August) so forgive me if my memory fails to go back that far.

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?

I actually found out about through dares on here me being me I didn't cop the Slave and Master section for a while despite the amount of BDSM stuff posted on the dares section of this website.

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
I don't use FetLife but I heard of it through KinkTalk which I heard of from here.

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became interested?
I was 14 when I found about kinky stuff and the idea of handing over power to somebody else or being in control of somebody else(either one) really got me intrigued. At the time, i was interested however mostly in self-spanking or bondage but kept it mostly to spanking myself whenever I could, hidden public or doing things that you have only a chance of getting caught on but my interests have since expanded immensely.

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why? I have had accounts on other sites to meet other people interested in BDSM but I don't use them anymore as those sites don't appear to me as active or have fees now which I am not interested in paying. I honestly couldn't remember them all.

iSpuds · 05-08-2014, 05:18 PM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it?
I was checking out information on a virtual domination program called virmst, just wondering if anyone else had script ideas for it. There was a post on it here and I checked out the site a little bit to see if there was any more. But I get sidetracked easily so I mostly ended up looking at truths and dares.

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?
My first exposure to BDSM was through accidentally clicking a link sending me to a Wired Pussy video. I don't remember what was going on in the video, but I was pretty afraid of it when I first saw it. It wasn't until I started reading some light BDSM erotica that I became more interested in it.

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
After I came to terms with my being a kinkster, I realized I didn't know anybody whom I could talk to about it. I just ended up searching "bdsm community" or some shit like that and bam, FetLife showed up. Also, FL is referenced in a lot of articles I was reading at the time.

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?
Kinky stuff...I believe my first time reading anything remotely kinky was when I was twelve. I frequented a site geared towards educating women about sexual health and the importance of masturbation. It had a page where people could upload erotica and I remember one story about two women who were caught tanning their breasts on a non-nudist beach. They get tied up and the guard, who turns out to be a hermaphrodite, has sex with the both of them. That was probably my first kinky interest, ever. I became very fascinated with bondage and it was the first time I ever heard about terms related to transgender, intersex, and hermaphrodites.

Edit: Actually, I lied. I remember having fantasies regarding watersports, humiliation, and having sex in a jail setting even before I began watching porn. I was probably between 8 ad 10 back then.

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why
I used to create a few teases on Milovana, but grew bored and don't frequent it anymore. Lately I've been considering it again, though. Tantilism is another site that I have an account on, but I don't really do anything with it.

mysxyscrt · 05-08-2014, 11:12 PM

Get Dare? How did you come across it?
A few years ago I had some friends over for dinner, it turned into drinking and a game of truth or dare. One of the girls needed help thinking of truths so we googled "truth or dare" and this site came up. I forgot about the site until a few days later when I saw it pop up on my browser history, I clicked on it and the rest is history...

BDSM, What's the story of you finding out about it?
Well I knew about bdsm for a while, at least aspects of it and I knew something about it interested me; but it wasn't until I was a freshman in college that an ex really turned me onto it. Long story short, we were talking one day and made a bet with the loser promising to be the winners slave for a weekend. The slave would do anything the winner wanted from washing windows, to cooking, to anything sexual. I was confident in my bet (I don't remember what we bet on exactly) and I knew I was dominant naturally, while my gf at the time was more submissive naturally.
Obviously I won the bet, she was my "slave" that weekend, however we both enjoyed it so much that we continued with that for nearly 18 months! During that time we experimented and experienced many different aspects of the sub/dom relationship as well as many sexual fetishes.

Fetlife (if you're on it), how'd you come across it?
I am on fetlife and I enjoy it for different reasons. I found it during another game of truth or dare with only a couple of friends. One of the dares was to find the most embarrassing site on another's browser history, my gf at the time pulled that site up off her roommates computer (she was playing with us too so it wasn't an invasion of privacy). Both my gf at the time and I were intrigued so we signed up together. After breaking up I took a hiatus from it but eventually signed up on my own.

How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?
Honestly I don't know when I found out about kinky stuff, probably in high school. I had the same gf throughout high school, and we were both adventurous, so we experimented some. Mainly doing stuff in public (exhibitionism) and anal. Not to mention my friends and I were very open with discussing things like that, so they'd tell me stories of what they did and vice versa.

Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why
Besides this one, fetlife and kinktalk I'm not on any other "kinky" sites. I guess I don't have the time for others right now and I'm relatively happy with what I find on the sites I do visit.

sparklystar · 05-09-2014, 10:14 AM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was looking for dares for a list for my 18th birthday party for truth or dare and stumbled across it

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? There were some strange things on here and I read the term BDSM in a truth. had to google to find out

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? N/A

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? 18, and same as the reason I found this site. It just intrigued me as to why people would use it.

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why No

rhode64 · 05-10-2014, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Shibari

*Get Dare? How did you come across it?
I googled truth or dare and it came up

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?
I found out about bdsm from watching porn

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
N/a

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?
I was 11 loved being nude with friends and often dared each other to do crazy dares

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why

Yes many naked pic posting sites and kinky stories

Queen_kassy · 05-10-2014, 06:12 PM

Get Dare? How did you come across it?
I was trying to find some dares I could do when I'm bored and found this site.

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?

I was introduced above a year ago from a friend, she asked if I could help her with some bondage and I was confused, but said yes. I then learned more by her like knots and some positions and stuff. And soon she was tying me and bondage has been fun ever since. We moved away so hopefully getdare could be a great replacement.

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
I don't use FetLife but I heard of it from here.

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became interested?

I was 17, and I'm still trying new things and finding what I like and dislike.

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why?

Nope,just this one for now.

*Jess* · 05-12-2014, 02:01 AM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it?
I actually first heard about it from a friend...but didnt really know what it was about. Then when I was googling around for some dare ideas...getdare popped up...and after looking around the forums...I decided to join

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it?
Well, I had heard of BDSM before joining here, but never really was interested in it. However, being on getdare has exposed me to quite a few people who are into bdsm...and I have done some of my own googling to find out more

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it?
I dont use fetlife...this is the first time I have heard it...

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested?
I was about 16 when I came across some of this stuff...although I am still trying out new things to see what I like

*Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why
No....just getdare...

Slenderman - Doctor · 05-24-2014, 11:53 AM

*Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was googling 'truth or dare' one day, back when getDare was in its infancy.

*BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? I think I just slowly found out about it due to getDare, then I started watching BDSM porn.

*FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? Via getDare. Sorry for the boring answer.

*How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? I think I was 14, or 15. Quite young. I just crept around here for a while and watched an awful lot of porn.

*Are you on any other kinky sites? Nope.

05-08-2014, 04:35 AM	#1
Shibari getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: England Posts: 399 Blog Entries: 10	How did you find out about.. *Get Dare? How did you come across it? *BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? *FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? *How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why __________________ Submissive freak . Rope, Shibari/kinbaku. I kiss my enemies lips, while I dance in the flames of the devil, worship the Dominant that guides while I suffer at His feet.

05-08-2014, 12:23 PM	#2
kyjd Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Louisville KY Posts: 45	Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was looking for sexual dares to do BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? Handcuffs really turn me on so I looked up tied up sex FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? I am on it feel free to friend me ky2k3911. I was looking for bdsm dating sites How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? I was 16 or 17 and I always loved the idea of being tied up and having a woman or women have their way with me *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why bdsm.com ky2k91, kinktalk.com ky2k39, milovana.com jd2k91, orgasmdenial.com kyjd3 I was just looking for a way to meet kinky people __________________ 24/m/straight likes: teasing, orgasm denial, masturbation instructions, panties, light bondage dislikes: pain, humiliation, scat, anything to do with family dares

05-08-2014, 01:07 PM	#3
littleraisin getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: European Union Posts: 278 Blog Entries: 3	Get Dare? How did you come across it? I can't actually remember as it was years ago, before the rule change and I was only 14 so quite a long time ago(to put into perspective im 18 now and 19 in August) so forgive me if my memory fails to go back that far. *BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? I actually found out about through dares on here me being me I didn't cop the Slave and Master section for a while despite the amount of BDSM stuff posted on the dares section of this website. *FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? I don't use FetLife but I heard of it through KinkTalk which I heard of from here. *How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became interested? I was 14 when I found about kinky stuff and the idea of handing over power to somebody else or being in control of somebody else(either one) really got me intrigued. At the time, i was interested however mostly in self-spanking or bondage but kept it mostly to spanking myself whenever I could, hidden public or doing things that you have only a chance of getting caught on but my interests have since expanded immensely. *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why? I have had accounts on other sites to meet other people interested in BDSM but I don't use them anymore as those sites don't appear to me as active or have fees now which I am not interested in paying. I honestly couldn't remember them all. __________________ 27 Years old, EU. Likes: Bladder control, Nudity(hidden), CBT, Pet Play, Cum(as in eating/drinking), spanking, extreme pain Will do(don’t like nor dislike): Semi-Public, lines Dislikes: Anal, Messy Limits: Needles, Involving Family/Friends, Wetting, Permanent, food and blood. Don't be nice, treat it like an object. That's what it is.

05-08-2014, 05:18 PM	#4
iSpuds Starchy Sadist Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 921 Blog Entries: 43	*Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was checking out information on a virtual domination program called virmst, just wondering if anyone else had script ideas for it. There was a post on it here and I checked out the site a little bit to see if there was any more. But I get sidetracked easily so I mostly ended up looking at truths and dares. *BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? My first exposure to BDSM was through accidentally clicking a link sending me to a Wired Pussy video. I don't remember what was going on in the video, but I was pretty afraid of it when I first saw it. It wasn't until I started reading some light BDSM erotica that I became more interested in it. *FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? After I came to terms with my being a kinkster, I realized I didn't know anybody whom I could talk to about it. I just ended up searching "bdsm community" or some shit like that and bam, FetLife showed up. Also, FL is referenced in a lot of articles I was reading at the time. *How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? Kinky stuff...I believe my first time reading anything remotely kinky was when I was twelve. I frequented a site geared towards educating women about sexual health and the importance of masturbation. It had a page where people could upload erotica and I remember one story about two women who were caught tanning their breasts on a non-nudist beach. They get tied up and the guard, who turns out to be a hermaphrodite, has sex with the both of them. That was probably my first kinky interest, ever. I became very fascinated with bondage and it was the first time I ever heard about terms related to transgender, intersex, and hermaphrodites. Edit: Actually, I lied. I remember having fantasies regarding watersports, humiliation, and having sex in a jail setting even before I began watching porn. I was probably between 8 ad 10 back then. *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why I used to create a few teases on Milovana, but grew bored and don't frequent it anymore. Lately I've been considering it again, though. Tantilism is another site that I have an account on, but I don't really do anything with it. __________________ No, I do not want to be your Mistress. No, I do not want to be your slave. So don't PM me about it! Likes, Limits, and Fantasies (click) A Domme with a Monkey. The Monkey, the Potato, and the Book of Truth (AMA) My PM Dares are Offline. I don't participate in unsolicited PM dares, so don't ask. "iSpuds used to be an onion before she realized that she wanted a simpler, layer free life. Gordon Ramsey himself agreed to perform the surgery, but when Nigella Lawson walked in during the middle of the procedure with a bottle of scotch, things went awry. Waking up as an iOS kernel trapped in a potato's body, iSpuds successfully sued the Food Channel for 13 quintillion Zimbabwe Shillings, and now lives in an exclusive, nano-sliver coated vegetable crisper." *-Runesmith* "On a scale of 1-10, what's your favorite color of the Alphabet?" "Prismarine!"

05-09-2014, 10:14 AM	#6
sparklystar Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: UK Posts: 229 Blog Entries: 108	Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was looking for dares for a list for my 18th birthday party for truth or dare and stumbled across it* BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? There were some strange things on here and I read the term BDSM in a truth. had to google to find out* FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? N/A* How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? 18, and same as the reason I found this site. It just intrigued me as to why people would use it.* *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why No __________________ 24/F/bisexual Likes: body writing, humiliation, role/petplay, bondage, spankings, submission, vibrators, hidden public, pee holding Dislikes: ice, ageplay, messy, line writing, semi-public Limits: piss play, scat, pics/cam, needles, blood, illegal, family/friends, public, cum eating/play, icy hot, wax, permanent, enemas Toys

05-08-2014, 11:12 PM	#5
mysxyscrt Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: California Posts: 4	Get Dare? How did you come across it? A few years ago I had some friends over for dinner, it turned into drinking and a game of truth or dare. One of the girls needed help thinking of truths so we googled "truth or dare" and this site came up. I forgot about the site until a few days later when I saw it pop up on my browser history, I clicked on it and the rest is history... BDSM, What's the story of you finding out about it? Well I knew about bdsm for a while, at least aspects of it and I knew something about it interested me; but it wasn't until I was a freshman in college that an ex really turned me onto it. Long story short, we were talking one day and made a bet with the loser promising to be the winners slave for a weekend. The slave would do anything the winner wanted from washing windows, to cooking, to anything sexual. I was confident in my bet (I don't remember what we bet on exactly) and I knew I was dominant naturally, while my gf at the time was more submissive naturally. Obviously I won the bet, she was my "slave" that weekend, however we both enjoyed it so much that we continued with that for nearly 18 months! During that time we experimented and experienced many different aspects of the sub/dom relationship as well as many sexual fetishes. Fetlife (if you're on it), how'd you come across it? I am on fetlife and I enjoy it for different reasons. I found it during another game of truth or dare with only a couple of friends. One of the dares was to find the most embarrassing site on another's browser history, my gf at the time pulled that site up off her roommates computer (she was playing with us too so it wasn't an invasion of privacy). Both my gf at the time and I were intrigued so we signed up together. After breaking up I took a hiatus from it but eventually signed up on my own. How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? Honestly I don't know when I found out about kinky stuff, probably in high school. I had the same gf throughout high school, and we were both adventurous, so we experimented some. Mainly doing stuff in public (exhibitionism) and anal. Not to mention my friends and I were very open with discussing things like that, so they'd tell me stories of what they did and vice versa. Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why Besides this one, fetlife and kinktalk I'm not on any other "kinky" sites. I guess I don't have the time for others right now and I'm relatively happy with what I find on the sites I do visit.

05-10-2014, 06:12 PM	#8
Queen_kassy Junior Member Join Date: May 2014 Location: florida Posts: 22 Blog Entries: 5	Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was trying to find some dares I could do when I'm bored and found this site. BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? I was introduced above a year ago from a friend, she asked if I could help her with some bondage and I was confused, but said yes. I then learned more by her like knots and some positions and stuff. And soon she was tying me and bondage has been fun ever since. We moved away so hopefully getdare could be a great replacement. FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? I don't use FetLife but I heard of it from here. How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became interested? I was 17, and I'm still trying new things and finding what I like and dislike. Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why? Nope,just this one for now. __________________ "Owned by Mordeth" F\|Lesbian\|73 My Limits PM DARES I'm not looking for a slave. I'm not looking for a master. if you havent chatted with me, please do not add me. My rules

05-12-2014, 02:01 AM	#9
Jess Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Posts: 49	*Get Dare? How did you come across it? I actually first heard about it from a friend...but didnt really know what it was about. Then when I was googling around for some dare ideas...getdare popped up...and after looking around the forums...I decided to join *BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? Well, I had heard of BDSM before joining here, but never really was interested in it. However, being on getdare has exposed me to quite a few people who are into bdsm...and I have done some of my own googling to find out more *FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? I dont use fetlife...this is the first time I have heard it... *How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? I was about 16 when I came across some of this stuff...although I am still trying out new things to see what I like *Are you on any other kinky sites? If so what? And if you can answer... Why No....just getdare... __________________ I'm new here, so I am still learning what my likes/limits are I will update my sig as I go along! Likes: masturbation, orgasms, roleplay, some pain Dislikes: long-term orgasm denial Limits: illegal, blood, poo/scat, permanent, dangerous, pics/vids, family Don't ask me for pics/vids/skype/etc...I am not interested!

05-24-2014, 11:53 AM	#10
Slenderman - Doctor Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 6,760	Get Dare? How did you come across it? I was googling 'truth or dare' one day, back when getDare was in its infancy.* BDSM, Whats the story of you finding out about it? I think I just slowly found out about it due to getDare, then I started watching BDSM porn.* FetLife (If youre on it) how did you come across it? Via getDare. Sorry for the boring answer.* How old was you when you found about kinky stuff? And whats your story how you became intrested? I think I was 14, or 15. Quite young. I just crept around here for a while and watched an awful lot of porn.* Are you on any other kinky sites? Nope.*