Teach me to talk like a slave

[diotb77]

Hi!
I'm totally new to this but I'm very willing to learn. I don't have a master and I don't think that I'm ready for one.

So I though I would start with the basics. Would you please teach me to talk dirty. How to beg for sexual pleasure. How to act as a sub/slave and how to think like one.

Please give me phrases and good words to use. Good submissive or humiliating poses and ideas of places where I could use them.

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m/20s/sub(I think I'm a sub/slave. Although I do have some kinky dare ideas too.)

Like: Anal play (deep), oral play, deep-throat, dildos, spanking (Not too much), solo play, talking dirt, begging, psychological submission, self-bondage, low risk outdoor exposure, being teased, playing with nipples, female swimsuits (a longtime fetish for some reason)

Limits: Scat, vomit, blood, pain, burning, incest, involving others, permanent damage, animals, pics/cam

[Raenef]

first start to refer to everyone as sir or mistress if they could be domminant

if you know what they want to be called cal them that (for example "Lord")

and be respectful when talking with them like with a teacher or police, use a polite and formal language (if not wanted otherwise)

[diotb77]

Originally Posted by Raenef

first start to refer to everyone as sir or mistress if they could be domminant

if you know what they want to be called cal them that (for example "Lord")

and be respectful when talking with them like with a teacher or police, use a polite and formal language (if not wanted otherwise)

Thank you, sir. I will do my best.

[fetfun]

Exactly what I'd say, be very polite, always refer to a Dom as Sir or Mistress, always follow there rules, if not, expect to be punished.

[PissLover]

It depends what type of slage you are. You might wan to refer to yourself in the third person.

[Slutlyn]

In addition to calling everyone Sir or Mistress, you can also play with capitalization when texting or talking online to someone. Always capitalize when talking to a Dom(me) [i.e. Sir, Mistress, Him, Her, You] and always use lowercase when referring to yourself (i, etc.). Not everyone does it, but as a sub, i like doing it bc it reminds me of the power difference, especially since many typing programs autocorrect i to I so you have to go back and change it a lot, which means a lot of reminders

Also, if you prefer playing in scenes with people, it's a good way to differentiate when you're in scene and out of scene.

[redhusky17]

There isn’t a set rule how a slave talks. Even those who try to live the lifestyle.
As a slave you need to talk with respect to doms, owners ,mistress ,masters. (depends to who you talk to ) .
In the same time it will depend from your owner to. Ex: Your owner dosent want you to call nobody master but allows you to call them sirs or madam.
Or it depends the place your at, like a master/slave meeting place.
You might need to talk in third person , however not all slave do it, even those who live the lifestyle. There is a site where a slave in third person said he was searching a master .A sub said to him, he dosent need to talk in third person, that time has passed. And the sub was right, every sub/pet/slaves on the site talked sometimes as slaves but sometimes as a free person but they know when to talk as a slave or a free person.
Anyway, you need to learn when to talk as a slave or as a free person.

[diotb77]

Thank you everyone.
I'm not a slave/sub/pet. At least not yet. The closest I come to using these phrases now is when I'm playing solo, pretending that there is a master giving me orders to do things, or myself begging for more.

I naturally speak with respect, but I also love phrases that sound degrading to myself. Phrases that you may hear in pornographic movies such as: "Please fuck my slutty little ass." or "Please master. May I please cum?"

Could everyone please give me more words and phrases like these. Anything that sounds pleading or begging. Or even apologetic.