What annoys you most about online M/s

phanmail · 09-22-2011, 08:36 PM

Online M/s is definitely a unique environment so I thought it would be cathartic for people vent their frustrations with this medium here. I'll start

One of the number one things that annoy me are the "first come, first served posts" these are the posters (almost always female) that post an add and after one person responds to them they post saying they've found a master. This makes no sense to me, as a female slave you have pretty much free reign to pick whoever you want, why settle for the person who just happened to message you first?

Another thing that annoys me is the "Broken cam" phenomena, it states that within thirty minutes of purchase a female owned webcam will either break, get lost or be stolen by the Underpants Gnomes. I understand the reluctance to go on cam but why lie about the state of your cam? Why not just be honest and say you don't want to go on cam.

Thanks for listening to my rants and feel free to post your own, but make sure they remain clean and within the rules.

yours_slave · 09-23-2011, 02:38 AM

Ha ha. A good poll. I voted for all, except last option. And another thing which annoys me most is fake females.

-Mistress- · 09-23-2011, 04:58 AM

Broken cameras & short posts !

sir_snake1134 · 09-24-2011, 03:57 PM

I think flesh is best, and cant be replaced by any online interaction. and plus, you never can truly know someone when you're online. that's just my opinion.

phanmail · 09-27-2011, 12:59 AM

Another thing that annoys me is Female seeking Female. I've got nothing against someone liking girls but it is a bit trying when every single quality ad is a female looking for a female...

Ribbit101 · 10-11-2011, 04:22 AM

All of the above.

Komodo Jones · 10-11-2011, 09:28 AM

Even though I'm still actively involved in that section there are so many things going on there that just ticks me off. Too many to list in a individual poll that's for sure. One thing that was not listed was long detailed ads that are really great that don't get any responses. Another thing not listed was stupid guys that are so horny that won't read the ad when it says reply only by a pm or an e-mail, and posts on the thread itself. I've gone on a rant on some other things listed here in my blog so I won't post the rest of it here.

minimarshmellow · 10-11-2011, 01:18 PM

I voted: First come first served, Anoyingly Short Posts, Desperate People. I also think that it is annoying that the people who put alot of details and info into their ads get no replys, yet some fake can get lots of replies. The really short ads shouldnt even exist. There should be a word minimum on the ads.

awkward_ant · 10-12-2011, 08:03 AM

I'm new to this forum, but I have noticed a couple things that are annoying.

First - The contradicting post. This is where someone advertises in their ad and the title that they are a 21 year old Mistress looking for a slave, then clicking her recent post shows threads where she advertises to be an 18 year old slave.

Second - Lack of thought or effort put into ads, and when people use the words "no limit", because everyone has limits. Perhaps in a fantasy land they do not.

I'm not realistically expecting to find a significant other here, but I still like hanging out around these forums in the short time I've been here.

SubMissChievous · 10-22-2011, 03:48 PM

I agree that the things listed in the poll can be quite annoying. Although in many cases it seems to be due to inexperience and /or lack of communication skills... particularly the short ads and "first come first served" issues. Again the "broken cam" is also a communication issue...

There are quite a few things that I could list as annoying concerning online M/s although for the most part they exist in real-time too, perhaps to slightly lesser degree...

My biggest pet peeve about online M/s and that reaaaallyyyy gets on my nerves is people not realizing that establishing contact, relationships and etiquette in general works the same damn way online as it would in person. I mean... let's take for ex. how some people respond to an ad with something clever like "ill b ur master"...

Really? Do you also approach girls in person saying "I'll be your boyfriend"? >.<

Aside from that the things that annoy me pretty much exists all-around: lack of honesty and transparency, desperate people, lack of communication and general immaturity unfortunately can be found in real time too.

View Poll Results: What is the most annoying thing about online M/s
First come first served	18	35.29%
Broken Cameras	17	33.33%
Anoyingly Short Posts	27	52.94%
Desperate People	23	45.10%
Other (explain in post)	9	17.65%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 51. You may not vote on this poll

09-22-2011, 08:36 PM	#1
phanmail Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the depths of a bunker deep beneath the artic ice caps Posts: 819	What annoys you most about online M/s Online M/s is definitely a unique environment so I thought it would be cathartic for people vent their frustrations with this medium here. I'll start One of the number one things that annoy me are the "first come, first served posts" these are the posters (almost always female) that post an add and after one person responds to them they post saying they've found a master. This makes no sense to me, as a female slave you have pretty much free reign to pick whoever you want, why settle for the person who just happened to message you first? Another thing that annoys me is the "Broken cam" phenomena, it states that within thirty minutes of purchase a female owned webcam will either break, get lost or be stolen by the Underpants Gnomes. I understand the reluctance to go on cam but why lie about the state of your cam? Why not just be honest and say you don't want to go on cam. Thanks for listening to my rants and feel free to post your own, but make sure they remain clean and within the rules.

10-11-2011, 04:22 AM	#6
Ribbit101 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: UK Posts: 468 Blog Entries: 3	All of the above. __________________ 22/M/UK Kinkster Seeking Submissives Old advert

10-11-2011, 09:28 AM	#7
Komodo Jones getDare Succubus Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: in your fantasies...it's ok you can admit it Posts: 1,755 Blog Entries: 97	Even though I'm still actively involved in that section there are so many things going on there that just ticks me off. Too many to list in a individual poll that's for sure. One thing that was not listed was long detailed ads that are really great that don't get any responses. Another thing not listed was stupid guys that are so horny that won't read the ad when it says reply only by a pm or an e-mail, and posts on the thread itself. I've gone on a rant on some other things listed here in my blog so I won't post the rest of it here. __________________ KJ 38/male/partially bi/switch D/s Status: Protector, Dom and Daddy of pixie.dust I love meeting new, nice, smart people. I communicate through Discord mainly. What are my limits/likes/supplies? Click here! Check Out my Literary Works Targeting the Ignored [Fiction] Some Stuff I've Done (Non-Fiction)

10-11-2011, 01:18 PM	#8
minimarshmellow Distinguished Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: USA Posts: 773 Blog Entries: 26	I voted: First come first served, Anoyingly Short Posts, Desperate People. I also think that it is annoying that the people who put alot of details and info into their ads get no replys, yet some fake can get lots of replies. The really short ads shouldnt even exist. There should be a word minimum on the ads. __________________ [COLOR="Blue"] Mini. 30. She/Her. Married. Asexual. Certified Professional Hypnotist. Wholesomely Evil. Neurodivergent. Official Snack Professional. Ask me all of your hypnosis questions HERE!

09-23-2011, 02:38 AM	#2
yours_slave Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2011 Location: In your dreams Posts: 934	Ha ha. A good poll. I voted for all, except last option. And another thing which annoys me most is fake females.

09-23-2011, 04:58 AM	#3
-Mistress- Account Banned Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Far away from you. Posts: 6	Broken cameras & short posts !

09-27-2011, 12:59 AM	#5
phanmail Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the depths of a bunker deep beneath the artic ice caps Posts: 819	Another thing that annoys me is Female seeking Female. I've got nothing against someone liking girls but it is a bit trying when every single quality ad is a female looking for a female...

10-12-2011, 08:03 AM	#9
awkward_ant Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: United States Posts: 18	I'm new to this forum, but I have noticed a couple things that are annoying. First - The contradicting post. This is where someone advertises in their ad and the title that they are a 21 year old Mistress looking for a slave, then clicking her recent post shows threads where she advertises to be an 18 year old slave. Second - Lack of thought or effort put into ads, and when people use the words "no limit", because everyone has limits. Perhaps in a fantasy land they do not. I'm not realistically expecting to find a significant other here, but I still like hanging out around these forums in the short time I've been here. __________________ 20 Male Sub "No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable" - Socrates 400BC

10-22-2011, 03:48 PM	#10
SubMissChievous Prodigy Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Canada Posts: 4,466	I agree that the things listed in the poll can be quite annoying. Although in many cases it seems to be due to inexperience and /or lack of communication skills... particularly the short ads and "first come first served" issues. Again the "broken cam" is also a communication issue... There are quite a few things that I could list as annoying concerning online M/s although for the most part they exist in real-time too, perhaps to slightly lesser degree... My biggest pet peeve about online M/s and that reaaaallyyyy gets on my nerves is people not realizing that establishing contact, relationships and etiquette in general works the same damn way online as it would in person. I mean... let's take for ex. how some people respond to an ad with something clever like "ill b ur master"... Really? Do you also approach girls in person saying "I'll be your boyfriend"? >.< Aside from that the things that annoy me pretty much exists all-around: lack of honesty and transparency, desperate people, lack of communication and general immaturity unfortunately can be found in real time too.