Dominant or Dominated? - Page 3

12356416514a · 07-01-2010, 10:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sweetsong

IMO, a good dom does not make the sub do things they "don't like." Rather, they get to know the sub and find out what they like and "make" them do that. A sub likes the control aspect and a good dom (erm, make that human being) should not find pleasure in forcing someone to do something they hate.

That's why I like both... I think it can enhance the trust and closeness in an already established relationship. But just the dom/sub aspect alone I don't believe will hold anything together long term, at least not for me. (:

thanks for you're statement, it was helpful. You're right, both are nice

Avis · 07-01-2010, 10:22 PM

Dominated. Just because I'm not creative enough to think up my own dares :P

Boredomino · 07-05-2010, 09:54 AM

Submissive

Being forced to do kinky, dirty things :P

j2o_orange2 · 07-05-2010, 10:18 AM

I am so both, but it depends on the day.

bradsmallory · 07-05-2010, 10:43 AM

i love to be dominated because im a sissy little pet i deserve to eat food like a dog outa my sirs underwear and if im naught he is still warring them

Perfectionist · 07-05-2010, 12:54 PM

Hmm.. I'm very dominant in relationships, but submissive in sexual relationships.

Masterevildom · 07-05-2010, 02:22 PM

100 % Dominant

Autumn · 07-05-2010, 03:41 PM

being dominated in the bedroom... giving up total control and trust to my master. knowing my body is for his pleasure ... drives me wild...

into: light bondage, spanking ass and pussy, nipple play, dirty talk,begging to cum, being dominated...

hate: scat, pee/poo, family and friends involvement. blood, cutting, permanent damage.

personalinsanity · 07-06-2010, 06:45 AM

I am submissive by nature and therefore like to be dominated. Sadistically dominated.

End00 · 07-06-2010, 10:38 AM

I'm very "dominant" in my normal life, always thinking about having control and such. But the thought of being submissive intrigues me. I haven't tried it, but I think it would feel good to let go of the everyday shackles.

XBOX360 · 07-06-2010, 10:44 AM

Normally, for doing normal things, in a normal way, I like being in control, like if I wanted to make a YouTube video or something, I wouldn't let anyone do anything, but me.

But in a sexual way, I think I am very submisive, and have very submisive fantasies, and just want to be played with, and tied up, and sexually tortured.

strippednakedmale · 07-06-2010, 02:25 PM

I'm submissive for sure but I have tired being dominant as well. I believe you need to try both to fully understand what each one really is. During my every day life though I'm dominant so when it comes to sex and online stuff I find it boring to be dominant.

07-05-2010, 09:54 AM	#33
Boredomino Account Banned Join Date: May 2010 Location: Scotland UK Posts: 121	Submissive Being forced to do kinky, dirty things :P __________________ On a "Masturbate every three hours" dare marathon : ! Likes/Greats: Showers; crossdressing; anal; oral; eating cum; forced gay/bi; mild pain; humiliating; piss; feet; open to trying everything else! Maybe's: Poop; moderate pain No-no's: Extreme pain, family directly involved, public

07-05-2010, 10:18 AM	#34
j2o_orange2 Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Kent, UK Posts: 707 Blog Entries: 3	I am so both, but it depends on the day. __________________ 23/m/uk - Im on Fetlife - J2o Im very open to questions and random messages so feel free to PM me. "We choose to go to the moon. We choose to go to the moon in this decade and do the other things, not because they are easy, but because they are hard" JFK 1962

07-05-2010, 12:54 PM	#36
Perfectionist Senior Member Join Date: May 2010 Posts: 100 Blog Entries: 2	Hmm.. I'm very dominant in relationships, but submissive in sexual relationships. __________________ I can tell from your eyes, you've never been by the riverside.

07-05-2010, 02:22 PM	#37
Masterevildom Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2010 Posts: 8	100 % Dominant __________________ Likes: Seeing bondage and self bondage, gags and self gagging, causing pain, hulmiliating dare performers

07-05-2010, 03:41 PM	#38
Autumn Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 136 Blog Entries: 1	What gets me wet... being dominated in the bedroom... giving up total control and trust to my master. knowing my body is for his pleasure ... drives me wild... into: light bondage, spanking ass and pussy, nipple play, dirty talk,begging to cum, being dominated... hate: scat, pee/poo, family and friends involvement. blood, cutting, permanent damage.

07-01-2010, 10:22 PM	#32
Avis Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Narnia Posts: 34	Dominated. Just because I'm not creative enough to think up my own dares :P

07-05-2010, 10:43 AM	#35
bradsmallory Member Join Date: Feb 2010 Location: susanville california northern california Posts: 84	i love to be dominated because im a sissy little pet i deserve to eat food like a dog outa my sirs underwear and if im naught he is still warring them

07-06-2010, 06:45 AM	#39
personalinsanity Junior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Midwest USA Posts: 2	I am submissive by nature and therefore like to be dominated. Sadistically dominated.

07-06-2010, 10:38 AM	#40
End00 Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Scandinavia Posts: 42	I'm very "dominant" in my normal life, always thinking about having control and such. But the thought of being submissive intrigues me. I haven't tried it, but I think it would feel good to let go of the everyday shackles. __________________ -Not very active here...-

07-06-2010, 10:44 AM	#41
XBOX360 Member Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 69	Normally, for doing normal things, in a normal way, I like being in control, like if I wanted to make a YouTube video or something, I wouldn't let anyone do anything, but me. But in a sexual way, I think I am very submisive, and have very submisive fantasies, and just want to be played with, and tied up, and sexually tortured.

07-06-2010, 02:25 PM	#42
strippednakedmale Senior Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: Ontario,Canada Posts: 105	both I'm submissive for sure but I have tired being dominant as well. I believe you need to try both to fully understand what each one really is. During my every day life though I'm dominant so when it comes to sex and online stuff I find it boring to be dominant. __________________ Exhibitionist, voyeur, seeking dares. Loves public and private. Will try anything.