Are you submissive or dominant in real life?

pirahnna · 08-30-2017, 09:19 AM

Hey GD, we all are kinky here either submissive or dominant, but how about real life?

I'm neither sub or Dom but I know I'm a proud person, not arrogant but proud. So if I have to choose between sub and Dom in real life I choose Dom.

What about you? Are you natural dominant or natural submissive ?

Jaro · 08-30-2017, 09:45 AM

I can be a bit arrogant sometimes and I kind of a go-my-own-way kind of person.

Still, ironic as it may seem, I think in real life I would be just as much submissive as online. Possibly even more so.

rhode64 · 08-30-2017, 10:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by pirahnna

Hey GD, we all are kinky here either submissive or dominant, but how about real life?

I'm neither sub or Dom but I know I'm a proud person, not arrogant but proud. So if I have to choose between sub and Dom in real life I choose Dom.

What about you? Are you natural dominant or natural submissive ?

I don't think I am either but a bit of both . I like dominating another person but also I like being dominated so 50/50

foxknot69 · 08-30-2017, 10:46 AM

I'm definitely more submissive. Ever since I was a child, my "primary directive" has always been to make other people happy. It's a fault, really.

Nelson · 08-30-2017, 10:48 AM

Very submissive. My wife Doms me often. I do anything for others.

lola.fox · 08-30-2017, 10:51 AM

submissive both online and off!

bobolala · 08-30-2017, 11:01 AM

In day to day life, I'm fairly passive. In the bedroom, I switch back and forth depending on my mood and my partner.

Allykat · 08-30-2017, 03:41 PM

I'm submissive but with a bratty side.

Gonzalez · 08-30-2017, 04:17 PM

I am submissive most of the time in real life. It is very rare I find myself dominant but usually when I do nobody is around who I can dominate so I slide back to being a submissive again.

Arawen · 08-30-2017, 04:24 PM

Mostly submissive, but have rare moments where its fun to tease. just dont expect me to roll over for you though, im also kinda bitchy when it comes to people telling me to do shit xx

rrichmon · 08-30-2017, 05:18 PM

Im mostly a submissive offline, I can play the switch, but its more difficult than being a sub.

Daddydamo · 08-30-2017, 05:34 PM

Dominant both online and offline

Nelioka · 08-30-2017, 09:37 PM

Naturally submissive for sure. For me it's really my entire personality.

Kisune Karnon · 09-01-2017, 01:02 AM

I'm a natural switch. Just like in a kinky session. It's just how I am.

eevee.velvet · 09-01-2017, 03:03 AM

Wow …
Wunnolf has 2 answers - she has to be dominant at work. At first this was really hard but it's the way the world is.

But Natually she is submissive say 95% of the time when it's allowed.

08-30-2017, 09:19 AM	#1
pirahnna getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2016 Location: Roshar Posts: 375 Blog Entries: 9	Are you submissive or dominant in real life? Hey GD, we all are kinky here either submissive or dominant, but how about real life? I'm neither sub or Dom but I know I'm a proud person, not arrogant but proud. So if I have to choose between sub and Dom in real life I choose Dom. What about you? Are you natural dominant or natural submissive ?

08-30-2017, 09:45 AM	#2
Jaro A filthy maggot anal whore Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,462 Blog Entries: 299	I can be a bit arrogant sometimes and I kind of a go-my-own-way kind of person. Still, ironic as it may seem, I think in real life I would be just as much submissive as online. Possibly even more so. __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys ♦ AMA ♦ Check out my truths and dares here

08-30-2017, 10:46 AM	#4
foxknot69 getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: In the (furry) trash Posts: 1,184 Blog Entries: 3	I'm definitely more submissive. Ever since I was a child, my "primary directive" has always been to make other people happy. It's a fault, really. __________________ 28 / Male Non-Binary / Pan / Pet / Furry / Nerd Likes/Dislikes/Limits PM Dares Remaining PM Tasks Edges Before Orgasm: 0 Wedgie Time: 0 minutes Ball Slaps: 0 Spanks: 0 Days of Denial: 0 "I'm a silhouette asking every now and then: Is it over yet? Will I ever feel again?"

08-30-2017, 10:51 AM	#6
lola.fox ♡ limited edition - cock tease barbie ♡ Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 1,803 Blog Entries: 53	submissive both online and off! __________________ likes + limits + inbetween i’m a pint-sized lady with not so tiny curves who despises mindless small talk, men who ask for things they don't deserve, and women who have a penchant for gossip.

08-30-2017, 11:01 AM	#7
bobolala Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Canada Posts: 140	In day to day life, I'm fairly passive. In the bedroom, I switch back and forth depending on my mood and my partner. __________________ Male hetero, but open minded Switch Likes: Roleplay, sharing fantasies, Anal, light watersports, pain (giving and receiving), CBT, masturbation, bondage, oral, voyeurism. Limits: scat, blood, permeant damage, illegal, social suicide. When it comes to fantasy and roleplay - I have no limits.

08-30-2017, 10:48 AM	#5
Nelson Member Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 77	Very submissive. My wife Doms me often. I do anything for others.

08-30-2017, 03:41 PM	#8
Allykat Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2016 Location: Europe Posts: 233 Blog Entries: 1	I'm submissive but with a bratty side. __________________ F - Bi - 25 - sub Likes, dislikes and limits

08-30-2017, 04:17 PM	#9
Gonzalez getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2013 Posts: 481 Blog Entries: 10	I am submissive most of the time in real life. It is very rare I find myself dominant but usually when I do nobody is around who I can dominate so I slide back to being a submissive again. __________________ Who needs a signature anyway?

08-30-2017, 04:24 PM	#10
Arawen getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Oct 2016 Location: Either looking at shit memes or where you left me. Or both! Posts: 296 Blog Entries: 7	Mostly submissive, but have rare moments where its fun to tease. just dont expect me to roll over for you though, im also kinda bitchy when it comes to people telling me to do shit xx __________________ Rammy or Lauren 24/ T-Girl/ 32b DEMI SKATER , SLUT, DEGRADE ME links if you want ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Likes and limits: Because 500 char isnt enough Pm me here x : PM Dares Gimee a rule? : Your rules know what i do in the dark <- A fresh start cause work Blooooog : blogs n stuff

08-30-2017, 05:18 PM	#11
rrichmon Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2016 Location: USA Posts: 135 Blog Entries: 1	Im mostly a submissive offline, I can play the switch, but its more difficult than being a sub. __________________ 29 M straight. Likes: Spanking, Wedgie, minor cock control and minor anal play(ice, pens), private settings, role-playing limits: scat, gross, same-sex. public, face cam/pics, eating, anything job threatening, anything dealing with family PMDares Fun puzzle

08-30-2017, 05:34 PM	#12
Daddydamo Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2015 Location: Australia Posts: 122 Blog Entries: 1	Dominant both online and offline

08-30-2017, 09:37 PM	#13
Nelioka Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2017 Location: Canada BC Posts: 108	Naturally submissive for sure. For me it's really my entire personality. __________________ Hey! I'm Lena! My Daddy: Dominus! ＼(≧▽≦)／ Please Check out my links!!! \(^ヮ^)/ Sexmap: http://www.humansexmap.com/showmap.php?mapid=map5a45fa4103b786.43725345 Bdsm Test: https://bdsmtest.org/r/7266415

09-01-2017, 01:02 AM	#14
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,192 Blog Entries: 7	I'm a natural switch. Just like in a kinky session. It's just how I am. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

09-01-2017, 03:03 AM	#15
eevee.velvet getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Sep 2014 Location: Where the sun and moon meet Posts: 477 Blog Entries: 56	Wow … Wunnolf has 2 answers - she has to be dominant at work. At first this was really hard but it's the way the world is. But Natually she is submissive say 95% of the time when it's allowed. __________________ 30 - F - Submissive help eevee celebrate her orgasm free birthday!! not giving out dares to ANYONE! My first story F stands for Flogger TOYS!!!! PM Dares LOVES/LIKES/DISLIKES/LIMITS "I solemnly swear that I am up to no good!"