Controlling a slave

punishme1990 · 02-09-2011, 04:10 PM

So, I'm curious to know what you all think. I am interested in having a master eventually, online only. I am looking for someone who is willing to be controlling, and start me off right away with some controlling dares.

What are the best controlling dares you've heard of for someone who has only the limit of knife play and eating urine and feces and public? Oh, and female too.

Thanks,
Me

sweetsong · 02-13-2011, 12:48 PM

Trust.

You will be willing to hand over control the more you trust someone. So look for a master that you can develop a relationship with and trust. You can't just jump into things.

No good M/s relationship happens overnight.

Thoughtwrangler · 02-13-2011, 04:24 PM

Never a truer word spoken Sweetsong. Bravo.

Anjelen · 02-14-2011, 03:03 AM

Aside from trust - communication.

I, as a dominant - though i would just as much if I were a submissive - look for the ability to communicate in my partners. To be able to speak, concisely or at the least understandably and maturely, with rather than to me.

Concerning the good, the bad, the ugly - concerning anything that needs to be spoken about - one must communicate. A lack of communication can, eventually, cost a relationship.

And just as important it is to remember; it is, or at least should be, never too late to communicate. However daunting the prospect of talking to another about something that's been bothering you may feel, howevermuch you may imagine them to react negatively - you're never certain until you try.

And the other... Ideally should think before they react.

02-09-2011, 04:10 PM	#1
punishme1990 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: ohio Posts: 17	Controlling a slave So, I'm curious to know what you all think. I am interested in having a master eventually, online only. I am looking for someone who is willing to be controlling, and start me off right away with some controlling dares. What are the best controlling dares you've heard of for someone who has only the limit of knife play and eating urine and feces and public? Oh, and female too. Thanks, Me

02-13-2011, 12:48 PM	#2
sweetsong getDare Succubus Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: ♥ In your dreams ♥ Posts: 1,733 Blog Entries: 98	Trust. You will be willing to hand over control the more you trust someone. So look for a master that you can develop a relationship with and trust. You can't just jump into things. No good M/s relationship happens overnight. __________________ . siggy made by stellz [03:54:06 PM] jamness: ‹@G.J.› She... kisses and stuff... shes weird. [03:54:39 PM] G.J.: ‹@jamness› That seems like normal Sweets to me XD

02-13-2011, 04:24 PM	#3
Thoughtwrangler Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Australia Posts: 181 Blog Entries: 1	Never a truer word spoken Sweetsong. Bravo. __________________ "There are three paths to wisdom: first, by reflection, which is noblest; second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third, by experience, which is the bitterest." - Confucious A bit about me. A bit more about me Discord: thoughtwrangler Proud to own this cunt

02-14-2011, 03:03 AM	#4
Anjelen Account Banned Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Rotterdam Posts: 1,286 Blog Entries: 1	Aside from trust - communication. I, as a dominant - though i would just as much if I were a submissive - look for the ability to communicate in my partners. To be able to speak, concisely or at the least understandably and maturely, with rather than to me. Concerning the good, the bad, the ugly - concerning anything that needs to be spoken about - one must communicate. A lack of communication can, eventually, cost a relationship. And just as important it is to remember; it is, or at least should be, never too late to communicate. However daunting the prospect of talking to another about something that's been bothering you may feel, howevermuch you may imagine them to react negatively - you're never certain until you try. And the other... Ideally should think before they react. __________________ Music by me: 'Suspense'(Reason v4.0) 'Keep your head up v0.1' (Fasttracker v2.09) * How to not be a Dumbinant * * Here's your chance to ask me anything! * "It's better to try and fail than to fail to try." [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] -- Nunc Intellego --