How shy are you about your sexuality or kink?

[kristiethegemini]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
When it comes to partners and general preferences I'm pretty open to telling friends. But I keep details to myself and my partner. Family is left in the dark, they don't know anything.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
I'm only 100% open with my partner.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not so easily. I like being able to use my body to tease before getting fully naked.

4. How do you usually dress?
lazy days i'll be in a shirt and sweats. work and general outtings it would depend on what i feel, i like the casual skater-kid look for sure, but i also like wearing big boots and tights. and lastly just having a much more sassy look when i go out to parties; fur coat, make-up, something revealing, etc.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
i live with 9 other people in a big house, we have a whole lot of random things hanging on our walls. But most prominent are artwork by people in the house, a life-sized poster of chewbacca with a surfboard and sunglasses, a giant metal poster of just trees stolen from the side of a building, and a huge calendar.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
I keep them in a bag near my bed.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I have a folder called 'not porn' lol. I don't really care if people go through it.

8. Do you share your computer with others?
Only my partner. Sometimes I let people use it to change music if my computer is plugged into the speakers.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
'naughty' words? I mean me and my friends talk about a lot of dirty shit all the time, not that it's sexy. it's just discussion.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
ummmm.... no?

[Gyev]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?

I'm not, at least not with people whom I know in real life. I'm not that cautious with the people in the Internet, but even then I keep the details to myself.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?

I don't let them.

4. How do you usually dress?

Depends on the season. Currently it's usually a shirt or a t-shirt, trousers, socks and shoes, if a bit colder I add a jacket. At home I wear whatever is more comfy.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?

In my room there's only a pharaoh on my wall.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?

I don't have them.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?

The only stuff I have is in a folder.

8. Do you share your computer with others?

No.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?

I don't use any "naughty" words in daily speech, only curse words - most commonly used is most likely "kurwa".

[cumminglots12]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? Only with my wife and people on GD.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? Just with my wife and the people on GD.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked? Depends on what beer I'm on.
4. How do you usually dress? Normal.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home? Whatever my wife likes.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? In my closet.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? Buried
8. Do you share your computer with others? Just my wife.
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? None.
10. Anything else you'd like to share? I prefer to be pegged instead of fucking my wife.

[Damaris]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? Completely with partners, I'll share some things with friends, or people I know share my preferences.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? Same as above, I'm not ashamed to talk about it. But I generally only share with people I feel comfortable enough around, or whom I know are into similar things.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked? I'm fairly shy as it is, but I'll force myself to drop my pride if the circumstances allow it. As a rule, I don't cover up when nudity is optional.
4. How do you usually dress? Normal.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home? None at the moment.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? Night stand.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? Buried.
8. Do you share your computer with others? No.
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? None really.
10. Anything else you'd like to share? I love bets that involve total nudity and slight humiliation. Maybe it's somehow a counterpart for my being more dominant sexually (although I should admit that I enjoy some anal penetration when I masturbate...).

[Merry]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? I don't broadcast, if friends are discreet, I will answer just about most anything. Two of my friends are ex's to my husband, so we don't hold anything back.

My family has no clue, except for the teen who busted into our room without knocking. He knocks now.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? Same answer. I have a few close friends who know all, but they are as kinky as I am or more so. The rest of the world awesome as an innocent angel.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked? I don't prefer to let it all hang out. But I am not ashamed of my body either.
4. How do you usually dress? Fairly conservatively, I have that angel image to uphold. Occasionally husband likes me to dress more slutty for date nights. Both husband and Master like me in skirts/dresses. Heels are not an option due to an injury, so pretty flats.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
Paintings of florals and country scenes, my children, and a ton of quilts. Paper thin walls, quilts help muffle moans.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? Locked chest beside my bed. I have a special needs child I do not need him running around waving a blue penis around laughing like a maniac.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? Flash drive, locked in same box.
8. Do you share your computer with others? Absolutely not.
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? Out with friends or in public, only if you drop a brick on my foot. At home, mostly nice, don't need little ones talking like small sailors...alone with husband or Master, total potty mouth, but usually some variation of moaning along with cock/cum/ass slut/whore/cunt.
10. Anything else you'd like to share? [/QUOTE]

[NotStoner420]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
I don't like to kiss and tell, but I'll talk about my experiences openly if asked.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
It's not something that comes up often, but I'm a very open person if thats where the conversation is going.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not very often

4. How do you usually dress?
Casual. Pajamas whenever possible, which is quite often

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
Family pictures and random paintings. I don't usually decorate walls though...

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
Sometimes under my bed, other times outside or even in my car. Oh, and my closet too.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
Don't really have them ( at least on my computer!!)

8. Do you share your computer with others?
Absolutely not.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Hmmmmm.. WOW I don't think I have any! I mean I say "fuck" and "asshole" a lot, but nothing too cool

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Yeah, my download is finished; so I'm going to explore some Norse Mythology!! Cheers!

[KitySlapper]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? I'm open to discuss things either with a partner or potential partner (or strangers online apparently), but I don't openly discuss with say...coworkers or family.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? I'm slow to discuss it, usually feel it best to get someone used to me before telling them what gets me going.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked? Not easily but I enjoy it. Bee. Playing with exhibitionism a bit lately and it's such a turn on.

4. How do you usually dress? I work in an office, so skirt and blouse, nothing too crazy fun

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home? Family photos, video game posters and those sticker wall decal things.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? My underwear drawer and closet.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? I don't save any on my computer honestly.

8. Do you share your computer with others? Nope.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? Hmmm slut, cunt, tits...normalish words haha

10. Anything else you'd like to share? This question gets asked all the time so might as well state it, yes the picture is me.

[J.Riley]

Originally Posted by Jaroface

Please elaborate on these questions as much as you can. Please specify the types of people: friends, family, strangers are applicable.

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
4. How do you usually dress?
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
8. Do you share your computer with others?
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
10. Anything else you'd like to share?

Quite open, i dont talk about it unless someone brings it up

Some of what people would think weirder stuff i keep to myself and partners

Pretty easily, got no qualms about it

Most of the time comfortably, a hoodie and sweatpants, when im home alone sometimes just a big sweater

Hmm i actually have none

I have a box under my bed with all my stuff in

I dont, i just tend to use internet sites etc

Live alone so not at the moment

I tend to swear alot if thats what you mean, sexual orientated words i dont really use them

[darkblue]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?

Not very much. Would do it if people ask, but that's not often. Exception: My internet girlfriend, and all the people here at gd, if they ask.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?

See question 1.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?

That is not a problem for me if it is allowed to be naked, like on a beach or a lake. Here in Germany nudity is not a big deal.

4. How do you usually dress?

Jeans, t-shirt, polo, pullover/hoodie

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?

Photos of my hometown I took, paintings from an artist in my family, paintings from my daughter.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?

In a box in a drawer next to my bed.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?

In a folder named XXX, a lot of stuff I collected the last 25 years.

8. Do you share your computer with others?

No.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?

I use the word 'fuck' sometimes, but not at work.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?

Not now.

[shynessincarnate]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? I'm pretty reserved about my general sex life with others. I talk about it with my brother sometimes, and, well, with my husband (duh).
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? IRL, there are two people who know that I'm a submissive, my husband (oh boy, what a nervous wreck I was when I finally told him) and my brother. Other than that, well the people here know about my kinks
3. How easily do you let others see you naked? When I'm in my home, I don't have many qualms about being naked, especially while getting out of bed in the morning (or in the middle of the night) or getting in/out of the shower. Besides, my husband, my kids see me naked often. They are, however, the only ones that do. I'm generally fine going commando or forgoing my bra especially when I'm inside the house and we have guests though.
4. How do you usually dress? I dress pretty conservatively. I rather short sleeved T-shirts that don't show cleavage and knee-length flowy dresses or skirts with leggings underneath.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home? Um...pictures of my kids, pictures of my kids and pictures of my kids...yep, we're pretty unimaginative around here
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? In a pillowcase in a locked drawer containing my sewing supplies
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? I don't keep porn files on my computer
8. Do you share your computer with others? My computer isn't password protected. Sometimes my kids use it. My husband uses it on occasion as well.
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? Hum...none that I can think of *scratches head*
10. Anything else you'd like to share? I found out I was a submissive (ie:was actually able to put a term to what I'd been feeling ever since I could remember) about six months after I met my husband. It took me...hum...three years to spill the beans and I only did it because he found my box of toys and a journal with some line writing in it. Haha, I can still remember the look on his face. I explained it to him the best I could and decided to let him try to digest the information. I then spent the following five years trying to hide that part of me as best I could and almost convinced myself that it had just been my imagination. Then, a few months ago, he started showing interest in dominating me and all the comfort I had felt when I learned that I was a sub came back to me. I guess that what I'm trying to say here is be true to yourself and, as a very good friend of mine reminded me: don't ever be ashamed of who you are.

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by shynessincarnate

I guess that what I'm trying to say here is be true to yourself and, as a very good friend of mine reminded me: don't ever be ashamed of who you are.

That's a very good point!
And thank you for your most excellent answers!

[LittleAmyP]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Kinda open, I tell some things but not everything.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
The same, I tell about some of them but not about all of them
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not at all, only my boyfriend can see me naked
4. How do you usually dress?
Casual

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
Normal pictures, nothing sexual
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
In a bagpack in my drawer
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I don't have something like that
8. Do you share your computer with others?
Yes with my boyfriend
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
None I gues
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Not at the moment

[Scrap]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
my Lady knows pretty much everything (obviously). I don't advertise what goes on in Her bed, but I don't have a problem discussing it if the subject comes up.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
i am pretty open about it, if asked. since one of my kinks is humiliation, being "outed" is a turn on.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
all I need is permission/commanded from my Lady
4. How do you usually dress?
jeans and a t-shirt
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
art prints, family portraits, and the like.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
in a duffel bag in the closet.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
in a folder on an external hard drive.
8. Do you share your computer with others?
nope
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
I curse like an old sailor...
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
nothing comes to mind