Ask me. I have a few stories to tell.

[zephyrnem]

Ask away. I love kink and have experience as a sub and dom.

[Beard]

What's the biggest mindfuck you've given to a sub?

[zephyrnem]

Interesting...mostly I like to let them psych themselves out before the first meeting. One sub was nearly vibrating just having her strip slowly the first time for me. She was horny and scared and confused as I went real slow. Not knowing and lowering those defenses. Nice and slow. Raising the threat. Newbies are such fun. She got down to her underwear over a 45 minute period. Piece by piece. She stood there, and I just drank my wine. She tried to cover so slightly, and i yelled at her. She didnt know uf she should cum or cry. She blushed, but her wet spot grew, and she was shaking.

I had her sit next to me. I touched her, lightly and she shivered. I told her I would kick her out into the hotel hallway if she resisted. Then grabbed her Pussy through the panties. Again, a sob and nearly an orgasm. First time fear is the best. Hard to match that, but it is the fear that sets the relationship.

[faggotpet]

What was the most humiliting you have ever done to someone?

[Surfsop3]

What’s the longest you’ve ever denied someone an orgasm?

[Matt:]

How do you describe your sexuality?

How old were you when you first touched a pussy or cock (not your own) sexually?

Can you remember your 1st orgasm? How did you have it?

What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?

What are your favourite...

...books/authors?
...bands/musical artists?
...sports teams?

[zephyrnem]

The most humiliating thing Ive done to a sub...

Hard to say. It depends on the Sub. I took one Subs dress, leaving her naked and it petrified her and she was nervous, and totally felt humiliated.

Another sub was when I peed on her back. She was fine with showing off, having sex with whoever I demanded, but then I pushed into an area of discomfort. She didn't hate it, but felt it.

Another one I used my feet on her and she found that humiliating. It is fun exploring what subs find degrading.

[zephyrnem]

Originally Posted by Surfsop3

What’s the longest you’ve ever denied someone an orgasm?

Three weeks. Fairly common in my practice...as it were.

[zephyrnem]

Originally Posted by Matt:

How do you describe your sexuality?

Fully hi.


How old were you when you first touched a pussy or cock (not your own) sexually?

14 (cock) 16 (Pussy)

Can you remember your 1st orgasm? How did you have it?

I discovered I really enjoyed being naked around 10 or 11. I rolled around on my bed totally naked enjoying the feeling until the wave broke over me.

What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?

That's a tricky one. To me, if I was truly being humiliated, I would love it. And so, not really be embarrassed. I was led by my cock around a sex shop completely nude. Then I was made to suck my toes and out on a masturbation show as well as serving another cock while soft. Loved it. Embarrassing and not fun are some situations where a sub hadn't given me enough information and wasn't open enough leading me to not be effective. That is personally embarrassing and when I learned a lot about making subs be open to me.

What are your favourite...

...books/authors?

Blood Meridian (Cormac McCarthy) , Flannery O'Connor,
David Sedaris, George Saunders


...bands/musical artists?

Janis Ian, Sam Baker, Nick Drake, Laurie Anderson, Dar Williams, Frank Sinatra, Bob Dylan


...sports teams?

Cubs, Bears, Real Madrid

[ColdToes]

What parts of being a sub do you prefer to being a dom?


What parts of being a dom do you prefer to being a sub?


What is your favorite experience as a submissive?


What are your favorite traits in a submissive?


Leather, Rubber, Latex, or Nude?


What's something you haven't tried that you want to try with a submissive?


What's something you haven't tried that you want to try with a dominant?


Books or Video Games?


What season is your favorite?


What time of day is best for kinky fun?

[zephyrnem]

Originally Posted by ColdToes

What parts of being a sub do you prefer to being a dom?

Being out of control. Not knowing what may happen. Being used as a piece of meat, being degraded and humiliated. Forced to do things. It turns me on that I am scum to a master.

What parts of being a dom do you prefer to being a sub?

Being an artist. Making my sub tremble in fear and with excitement and the same time. Nothing better than a sub both whimpering in fear or crying and orgasming at the same time. Introducing them to the joys of degradation. Making them beg for something they would never have wanted to do, were it not for me.


What is your favorite experience as a submissive?

I talked about one above...being stripped naked in a sex shop. Bring paraded around, made to beg for people to use me. One guy grabbed me and jacked me off while my master watched. He made me suck my toes and jerk myself off for an audience of at least 10 guys. I sucked him in front of that audience too.

Another time a master had me meet him, completely nude on a bike trail. While I was pleasing him, a train came by, and he grabbed me, made me hard and made me face the engine.

Most masters, though, are too easy on me, or they just want a blow job out of me. Too few good sub experiences.


What are your favorite traits in a submissive?

Fear. Excitement from fear. They must be somewhat exhibitionistic. Those who are open to the joys of degradation.

Leather, Rubber, Latex, or Nude?

Nude!!!! I would love to try rubber with the right sub, or have it tried myself combined with peeing. I also like clothing control in general.


What's something you haven't tried that you want to try with a submissive?

Public food and mud play. Remote orgasm control with toy. Electro play. Waterboard, forced underwater play. Public wetlook.

What's something you haven't tried that you want to try with a dominant?

Being pissed on outside or public. Made to wet myself public. Food, mud play. Dunk tank humiliation. More forced nudity (done a little bit, but want it pushed further). Public humiliation ( again, a little bit, but want it pushed). Public tickling.

Most people talk a good game, but they just want a blow job. I want thorough humiliation.



Books or Video Games?

Hard one. If pushed...I will say books.


What season is your favorite?

Summer and early fall.


What time of day is best for kinky fun?

Wow...that's a hard one. I love sun on bare skin, but after 10 pm I feel it is easier to be naked.

[shiloh]

Describe your perfect sub?

Perfect dom?

[zephyrnem]

Originally Posted by shiloh

Describe your perfect sub?

A little overweight. Comfortable with their body. Open to orgasming fairly easily. Likes humiliation. Has glasses. Loves to serve. A little experience, but not too much. Wants to explore.

Perfect dom?

Thin. Wants to fill subs with fear and enjoys showing off his property. Respects limits, but knows how to push boundaries. Is creative and unpredictable. Sees sex as art and knows how to play their sub. Knows likes and boundaries as well as knows what new things to try and wants to humiliate and degrade me beyond just using me.