Ask worm Jaro anything (and spank him!)

[Butterfly]

1. What is your favorite cartoon?
2. Who is your favorite cartoon character?
3. Did you have a favorite toy growing up?
4. Did you have a comfort item growing up? Like a blanket or stuffies?
5. When was the last time you wet the bed?
6. Did you have a happy childhood?
7. What is your earliest memory?
8. What do you miss most about being a kid?
9. What did you want to be (career) when you were little?
10. What was your favorite grade in school?
11. Did you ever participate in sports or clubs in school?
12. What was your favorite school subject?
13. Are you still friends with anybody you grew up with?
14. If you could relive any age which would it be and why?
15. What is something you hated to eat as a kid but you now love?
16. What is something you loved to eat as a kid but now you hate?
17. Were you ever afraid of the dark?
18. Or other fears as a child?
19. Were you spanked as a child?
20. How old were you when you first started to masturbating?
21. When did you start puberty?
22. Tell us about the time you first made yourself cum? Did you know what you were doing?
23. Did you ever have wet dreams?
24. Do you still get wet dreams?
25. Were you popular in school?

I'll stop torturing you now.

[Jaro]

1. What is your favorite cartoon?
The Pink Panther

2. Who is your favorite cartoon character?
Donald Duck

3. Did you have a favorite toy growing up?
Yes, Legos.

4. Did you have a comfort item growing up? Like a blanket or stuffies?
No

5. When was the last time you wet the bed?
I don't think I ever wet the bed. I probably did as a toddler but even that I'm not sure about.

6. Did you have a happy childhood?
Most of the time.

7. What is your earliest memory?
My earliest memory was a dream actually. A very bizarre dream which I don't want to go into the details of. I must have been 1 when I had that dream.

8. What do you miss most about being a kid?
Innocence.

9. What did you want to be (career) when you were little?
I never really had such thoughts. When it finally came to choosing I had a hard time too.

10. What was your favorite grade in school?
I used to be very bad at math. I still am actually. But once I really put my mind to it and then I did score a very good grade for the first time since very long which made me very proud.

11. Did you ever participate in sports or clubs in school?
We had compulsory gym lessons so I kind of had to. But it was never something I enjoyed. We didn't have any sports clubs at school outside of those lessons. I think sports clubs at school is mostly an American thing.

12. What was your favorite school subject?
Not sure if it's called 'Geography' in English as a subject but the subject that deals with that. And history a bit also.

13. Are you still friends with anybody you grew up with?
No.

14. If you could relive any age which would it be and why?
7. Still an innocent child but old enough to be not quite THAT dependent.

15. What is something you hated to eat as a kid but you now love?
Probably beer. Lol. Although recently I've been drinking beer less and less.

16. What is something you loved to eat as a kid but now you hate?
Coconut. I once ate an entire coconut and then got so sick that I never want to eat it again (at least not pure coconut).

17. Were you ever afraid of the dark?
Yeah as a kid I was a little bit.

18. Or other fears as a child?
Spiders. Actually, I still am a bit.

19. Were you spanked as a child?
Not usually, although there have been 2 or 3 incidences where my parents got really mad and couldn't control their rage. But actually for me that is also true. But never like a domestic discipline ritual spanking.

20. How old were you when you first started to masturbating?
I think at about 12. At least that is when I recall.

21. When did you start puberty?
I don't know. Also 12 I think? I really have no idea, I have terrible memory when it comes to times and dates

22. Tell us about the time you first made yourself cum? Did you know what you were doing?
Yes I know this exactly. I actually tied my crotch and penis and stuff up in some very weird and inconvenient way. Why I did that? I don't know as it wasn't with the intention of cumming because I actually freaked out when the rubbing and the arousal made the sperm come out. Because I really loved that feeling I did the same awkward tying up stuff again a few times because I thought that was the way it works. Until I figured out I could just stroke to achieve the same effect.
Of course that was before the internet era so I had never seen nudity, porn or any of the kind.

23. Did you ever have wet dreams?
Yes I have.

24. Do you still get wet dreams?
No, I don't recall any. But I have ruined wake-ups now too often.

25. Were you popular in school?
No, people thought I was a nerd.

Thank you soooo much for the 50 new edges. I had just dropped down below 100 so I guess that was a short lived celebration.

[Jaro]

As some of you who are tracking my progress know: I often ruin my edges.
It has already happened 9 times now and I really must do something about that.
Even though I cannot help it, I figured there should be some kind of forfeit.
So, after discussing with Butterfly, we came up with the following, at least for this round:

Each time I ruin I am on no touch for 6 hours AND I have to add 10 more edges!

Hopefully this will make me more careful, but it will probably also make me go slower!

[CSasha]

You still did incredible endurant so far, Jaro. Cudos for that.

Yet, I think this action is marvelous, I envy that you do it, that Butterfly supports it, and that you both share it with us. I am confident it will help you grow and make even better than you already are.

That said, I think it also calls for an interrogation. Don't worry, I will also help you with more tasks in your reduction thread soon enough.

1. What kind of distraction did you have when trying to edge? List everything you had so far, from fap material, over music, videos, up to thoughts and feelings.

2. Was anything different when you ruined? Anything, even small details. What were the exact circumstances of your last ruined?

3. For how long can you press your PC muscle with full power?

4. What is the difference between an edge and a ruined for you?

5. How well are you educated about multiple male orgasms and Kegel exercises?

6. How willing are you to have less ruined orgasms when trying to edge? How much effort are you willing to put into?

7. How happy are you when you edged without having a ruined? How happy are you about ten edges without a ruined?

8. What is your record of edges without a ruined in a row?

9. What is the difference between a ruined and a full orgasm for you?

10. How willing are you to put physical or mental control on your orgasms into other persons hands or calls? What do you think if you needed someone else's permission to orgasm or else you coulnd't come, but you also couldn't ruin anymore at all?

11. What reward for not ruining more at all would make you happy and satisfied for a longer time?

12. How proud do you think would Butterfly be if you wouldn't ruin anymore? How proud would you be yourself? How much would future mistresses appreciate such a feature of yours?


Hope that helps us all to help you.

[pup.]

1. how many edges do you do a day?
2. what is one thing that you would like to improve on this week?
3. what is your opinion on bladder control? do you like it?
4. what makes you feel like you have the least power?
5. if you had to pick between the tin man, the scarecrow or the lion, which would you be?
6. hard metal or instrumental jazz? why?
7. how do you feel about feminization? what do you like about it and what do you dislike?
8. of all the emojis in the world, which is your favorite?
9. have you ever tried hypnosis? what do find is scary about it?
10. describe how the day that you meet your true mistress would go.

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by Cassandra

You still did incredible endurant so far, Jaro. Cudos for that.

Thank you!

Oh man, so many questions....

1. What kind of distraction did you have when trying to edge? List everything you had so far, from fap material, over music, videos, up to thoughts and feelings.
I usually have no distraction because any extra stimulation makes it harder for me to not ruin. Usually I just think of a girl sitting on my face or having her feet on my face while she strokes me but even that can get too much sometimes. Other times I look at pictures or a slideshow of feet. Sometimes a video of feet. Sometimes I look at a porn video but that often gets me way too horny. When I'm plugged (due to my pm dare) I also am more aroused when I edge which is tricky. I have also edged while smelling my own feet.

2. Was anything different when you ruined? Anything, even small details. What were the exact circumstances of your last ruined?
I often ruin when I get too horny like as explained above. Or after I have edged a few times and got worked up. Also, sometimes I stop too early and then I think it wasn't a proper edge and I immediately try it again which makes me ruin more easily. The last time there was nothing special except being very horny. I ruined while I wasn't even fully hard.

3. For how long can you press your PC muscle with full power?
You mean kegel? About 10 seconds.

4. What is the difference between an edge and a ruined for you?
Same as for everyone right? An edge means I am very close to cumming and a ruin means I go over the edge and cum. But then I stop all stimulation and think of something else, possibly do some kegels and it just comes out with a bad feeling.

5. How well are you educated about multiple male orgasms and Kegel exercises?
I would have to dig into that first article but my first impression is very skeptical. As for the kegels, yes I know what they are and I can do them. I can even stop ejaculating with them sometimes. However that does leave me just with a dry ruined orgasm, not an orgasm like the article assumes you can have.

6. How willing are you to have less ruined orgasms when trying to edge? How much effort are you willing to put into?
Oh I would want that more than anything. But I'm not sure how much effort I can still put into this. I have edged the past year so many times and I've done many experiments with Butterfly. By now I just think I need to accept the fact that I will never truly learn.

7. How happy are you when you edged without having a ruined? How happy are you about ten edges without a ruined?
Very happy! And very horny too!

8. What is your record of edges without a ruined in a row?
I don't know. I know I have done 25 in the past. I also know I have done more then that, but I doubt all of them were proper edges.

9. What is the difference between a ruined and a full orgasm for you?
Not pleasurable vs pleasurable

10. How willing are you to put physical or mental control on your orgasms into other persons hands or calls? What do you think if you needed someone else's permission to orgasm or else you coulnd't come, but you also couldn't ruin anymore at all?
I'd love that and with the proper Mistress who I trust I would be more then happy to give her full control and power!

11. What reward for not ruining more at all would make you happy and satisfied for a longer time?
Being brought to extreme mind blowing orgasm after all the hornyness build up.

12. How proud do you think would Butterfly be if you wouldn't ruin anymore? How proud would you be yourself? How much would future mistresses appreciate such a feature of yours?
We would all be very proud and happy I think. I think if a Mistress owns my pleasure she wants to fully own it. If she denies me I should be properly denied and never orgasm and that includes ruins. The fact that I still can't do that I fear might eventually put someone off so yeah, I would be prouder than anything if I could really master this.

Do I need to add 24 orgasms again!? Oh man....

FYI: I am extremely horny this morning, and I haven't even edged much yet.

[CSasha]

Originally Posted by Jaroface

Do I need to add 24 orgasms again!? Oh man....

FYI: I am extremely horny this morning, and I haven't even edged much yet.

Yes, please. It makes me horny to give you edges and I have needs, too.

[Matt:]

Originally Posted by Jaroface

Do I need to add 24 orgasms again!? Oh man....

.

Orgasms? Is it not meant to be edges??

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by Matt:

Orgasms? Is it not meant to be edges??

Oops!
Yes you're right of course. Although I sure could use 24 orgasms right now

[Captain Sparklez]

If you have a favourite pornstar who is it?

What is your favourite kink?

Who is your celebrity crush?

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by pup.

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1. how many edges do you do a day?
It varies greatly but maybe 5-7 on average?

2. what is one thing that you would like to improve on this week?
My total number of edges left to do. It should get considerably less.

3. what is your opinion on bladder control? do you like it?
I do like it. I especially like it if I have to ask permission to pee. I did this when I was Butterfly's sub, but unfortunately due to the time difference we could not always do this. I have also tried holding my pee while having to drink a LOT. That was really evil! I think I'd need more training in that.

4. what makes you feel like you have the least power?
When my basic needs are under someone else's control. And when I'm stuck in traffic.

5. if you had to pick between the tin man, the scarecrow or the lion, which would you be?
Lion.

6. hard metal or instrumental jazz? why?
Instrumental jazz. Simply because I really don't like hard metal.

7. how do you feel about feminization? what do you like about it and what do you dislike?
I think it's humiliating to take away my masculinity so in that sense I like it sometimes. But I'm not a sissy and I do not in general identify with a girl. But I don't mind having to do girly stuff for dares occasionally (like now when I have to write in pink) but it's not my favorite thing. I really don't like wearing makeup.

8. of all the emojis in the world, which is your favorite?
I'm not a very emoji kind of guy. I obviously like the feet emoji and otherwise just the basics like and

9. have you ever tried hypnosis? what do find is scary about it?
Check my thread, Cassandra made me try it a number of times. I didn't like it at all because it's just boring. It doesn't have any effect on me so it's like corner time but with the addition of having to listen to a boring voice at the same time. So no, there's nothing scary about it.

10. describe how the day that you meet your true mistress would go.
That is a very broad question. You really should be more specific. You mean meet online or meet in person? Meeting online would basically just be chatting and getting to know each other. I don't think we would even talk about kink on the first time. If it's offline if would be after we already learned a lot about each other and maybe played online. Then it would be more like a 'date' in which we'd probably go to a restaurant and just talk and have a good meal. I can't imagine there would be any play involved on the first day. Because with my true mistress it would have to become meaningful and real so I think it's best to take such things slow.

Thanks for the 20 more edges. Yes, I'm sure I was running low.

[Jaro]

Originally Posted by Captain Sparklez

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If you have a favourite pornstar who is it?
Riley Reid

What is your favourite kink?
It's impossible to name a favourite. I have several favorites like anal, bondage, losing control, denial and foot worship. I really couldn't name one above the other.

Who is your celebrity crush?
I don't have a celebrity crush. I used to have some in the past, my biggest one being Neve Campbell although I don't think she really counts as a celebrity.

3 more edges added

[Matt:]

What's the nicest thing anyone has ever done to/for you?



What's the nicest thing you have done for someone else?

[shynessincarnate]

Since you've kindly contributed to my own AMA thread, I thought I'd return the favour.

Please excuse any repeat questions. In all honesty, I did not read through your full thread.

1. Coffee or tea?
2. How do you like your eggs?
3. Butter or margarine?
4. What's the stupidest thing you've ever done?

[Butterfly]

Originally Posted by Jaroface

12. How proud do you think would Butterfly be if you wouldn't ruin anymore? How proud would you be yourself? How much would future mistresses appreciate such a feature of yours?
We would all be very proud and happy I think. I think if a Mistress owns my pleasure she wants to fully own it. If she denies me I should be properly denied and never orgasm and that includes ruins. The fact that I still can't do that I fear might eventually put someone off so yeah, I would be prouder than anything if I could really master this.

I just wanted to add that I am extremely proud of Jaro already, for all of the effort he has put into not ruining, and for getting better at edges. I would of course be extremely proud of him if he continued to get better and better, however, I would still be just as proud of him for doing his best for me every day. He really is a devoted, loyal and hard working worm. If anything, I would be happy for him because I know the ruining bothers him (whereas, I honestly don't mind.).