Permanent / long term rules

Louise1 · 09-09-2021, 01:59 PM

I know some of you have been following our story and time on here, especially during covid over the last 18 months or so.

Most will know I'm pregnant so life will be changing a lot in just a few weeks time. Obviously we may not be on here as much or able to continue how the last couple of years have been. We've been discussing the idea of permanent, or at least very long term rules, as a reminder of the last couple of years.

We've agreed to give you lot a say in suggesting what my long term / permanent rules could be. I'm well aware that I'll probably regret this!

The only things are obviously they have to be suitable for having a baby around. I'm not working anymore but Master (my husband) is so it'll just be me and the baby at home during the day.

If it's not 100% safe then it will not be chosen so on that note he will choose the rules, and there might then be a poll depending on how many suggestions there are from people.

This is not us saying goodbye, just acknowledging that life is about to change massively.

MrFrustration · 09-09-2021, 02:17 PM

What a great idea! My suggestion is permanent chastity (and orgasm denial), once you have recovered sufficiently after the birth. By permanent I mean that the belt is only removed for cleaning or in the case of medical emergency.

hungariancommie · 09-09-2021, 02:29 PM

I would suggest that you always wear some kind of necklace as your “collar” when running errands or shopping. To everyone else it will just be a necklace but to you a reminder

tzzzr · 09-09-2021, 04:49 PM

I would agree with the necklace as a collar.

This might be a bit to permanent but one suggestion would be a small tattoo or brand near your pussy with a word or phrase to remember this time. The getDare logo or your user name would be a good reminder.

MrFrustration · 09-10-2021, 01:06 AM

From what I understand you have been wearing a steel circular section collar such as this: https://www.google.ie/search?q=steel...pcqE7PCJrSN9jM

(or is it a little narrower than this?)

.. for a good while now, including around your parents, friends etc. If there haven't been any issues with it so far, after all this time there is no reason it shouldn't stay permanently in place...

Louise1 · 09-10-2021, 05:04 AM

Er they're some interesting suggestions!

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Originally Posted by MrFrustration

From what I understand you have been wearing a steel circular section collar such as this: https://www.google.ie/search?q=steel...pcqE7PCJrSN9jM

(or is it a little narrower than this?)

.. for a good while now, including around your parents, friends etc. If there haven't been any issues with it so far, after all this time there is no reason it shouldn't stay permanently in place...

It's a bit narrower than that and without the ring

MrFrustration · 09-10-2021, 05:48 AM

Definitely sounds like it could stay permanently then...

MrFrustration · 09-11-2021, 01:41 AM

Any more ideas? Just bumping this thread...

hungariancommie · 09-11-2021, 07:30 AM

Idk how you are with piercings but after you have your kiddo you could get a few labia piercings, and then use a lock on them to keep yourself chaste until your hubby comes home! Or/and you could get a couple of pieces of jewelry to hang off them

Louise1 · 09-13-2021, 01:39 AM

One suggestion via pm is to be barefoot permanently. We're in the UK and it's far too cold for that but master has suggested a possible alternative where I commit to being barefoot 24/7 from the 1st March to the 31st October... And only get shoes and socks etc November, December, January and February.

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Originally Posted by hungariancommie

Idk how you are with piercings but after you have your kiddo you could get a few labia piercings, and then use a lock on them to keep yourself chaste until your hubby comes home! Or/and you could get a couple of pieces of jewelry to hang off them

Wow that sounds painful! I only have pierced ears.

MrFrustration · 09-13-2021, 02:29 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Louise1

One suggestion via pm is to be barefoot permanently. We're in the UK and it's far too cold for that but master has suggested a possible alternative where I commit to being barefoot 24/7 from the 1st March to the 31st October... And only get shoes and socks etc November, December, January and February.

Wow that sounds painful! I only have pierced ears.

I think that is a great option re the bare feet.

MrJB · 09-13-2021, 02:34 AM

If you want something small to keep the fun/lifestyle alive, how about you have to present yourself naked to him each night after the baby goes down, so he can dress you as he likes

Louise1 · 09-15-2021, 01:50 PM

Master has said I need to post again and see if people have anymore suggestions for long term or even permanent rules.

From suggestions so far he likes the sound of:

Quote:

Originally Posted by MrFrustration

My suggestion is permanent chastity once you have recovered sufficiently after the birth. By permanent I mean that the belt is only removed for cleaning or in the case of medical emergency.

Quote:

Originally Posted by hungariancommie

I would suggest that you always wear some kind of necklace as your “collar”

And for this one he's thinking I have to present myself naked and in handcuffs and ankle cuffs and give him the keys.

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Originally Posted by retrogames

you have to present yourself naked to him each night after the baby goes down, so he can dress you as he likes

Sir Cap · 09-15-2021, 10:07 PM

I'm thinking something to do with a buttplug, whether it's 24/7 and removed for voiding or when at work or like one day off a week, you should definitely be using them weekly or ideally daily.

Robert Brady · 09-15-2021, 11:20 PM

Similar to whatwas stated above: a behavioural rule where you perform a certain task or duty each day or on command as a constant reminder of your submission.

For instance you could have a phrase like "sitting pretty" that he could use at will. You may be out to dinner with him or at home while he is at work. All he would need to say is, "are you sitting pretty?" This would be your prompt to sit with your knees and feet apart. Leaving you slightly exposed. Of course the phrase and position may vary depending on both of your desires. But once you've agreed to it, you should keep the phrase for a long time until he decides to change it. I recommend a phrase be used for 6 months minimum before changing to a new phrase. Then at random times in the future he could use an old phrase and you'll be conditioned to obey instantly.

Another option:
You are to undress him at the end of each day and then kneel on the bedroom floor until he tells you to get up. He may instruct you to suck him off, he may ignore you. You should stay on your knees until instructed to move or for 15 mins each night.

In my experience, behavioural submission like these options is more effective than something like labia piercings. After a while piercings can simply become jewellery. But your constant repeated behaviour reinforces your ongoing submission.

09-09-2021, 01:59 PM	#1
Louise1 getDare Succubus Join Date: Aug 2019 Location: UK Posts: 1,828 Blog Entries: 5	Permanent / long term rules I know some of you have been following our story and time on here, especially during covid over the last 18 months or so. Most will know I'm pregnant so life will be changing a lot in just a few weeks time. Obviously we may not be on here as much or able to continue how the last couple of years have been. We've been discussing the idea of permanent, or at least very long term rules, as a reminder of the last couple of years. We've agreed to give you lot a say in suggesting what my long term / permanent rules could be. I'm well aware that I'll probably regret this! The only things are obviously they have to be suitable for having a baby around. I'm not working anymore but Master (my husband) is so it'll just be me and the baby at home during the day. If it's not 100% safe then it will not be chosen so on that note he will choose the rules, and there might then be a poll depending on how many suggestions there are from people. This is not us saying goodbye, just acknowledging that life is about to change massively. __________________ 36f, UK Barefoot since Nov '21 👣 and will be barefoot 24/7 with NO exceptions until 25/03/2036 Head shaved bald for charity 27/10/23 Locked in full chastity (belt, bra AND thigh bands) 24/7 for the whole of 2024 In double long leg casts for 12 weeks from 29/02 - 23/05 by order of Missthegirl Vote here to add to my 2025 My brother found my page and realised he has a kinky sister. Now I have to do as he says so he doesn’t tell family and friends. Likes/Limits \| About Me and PM Dares Last edited by Louise1; 09-09-2021 at 02:31 PM.

09-09-2021, 02:17 PM	#2
MrFrustration Longtime User Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 3,379 Blog Entries: 7	What a great idea! My suggestion is permanent chastity (and orgasm denial), once you have recovered sufficiently after the birth. By permanent I mean that the belt is only removed for cleaning or in the case of medical emergency. __________________ Male fetishist/switch. Heels, corsets, tights add thread Track what I have been wearing and my points here

09-09-2021, 02:29 PM	#3
hungariancommie Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: USA Pacific time Posts: 623 Blog Entries: 1	I would suggest that you always wear some kind of necklace as your “collar” when running errands or shopping. To everyone else it will just be a necklace but to you a reminder __________________ likes: kinky tasks, pet play, anal, pain, body writing, denial, edging, ruined , chastity limits: family, friends, social suicide, lots of piss, scat, pics Pm dares: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=90065 not looking for a mistress or master, am a happily owned pet Send me pet play tasks!! 🔐 locked until the end of November with one hour unlock time daily to edge Edges 210/609 Accidental ruins 3

09-10-2021, 01:06 AM	#5
MrFrustration Longtime User Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 3,379 Blog Entries: 7	From what I understand you have been wearing a steel circular section collar such as this: https://www.google.ie/search?q=steel...pcqE7PCJrSN9jM (or is it a little narrower than this?) .. for a good while now, including around your parents, friends etc. If there haven't been any issues with it so far, after all this time there is no reason it shouldn't stay permanently in place... __________________ Male fetishist/switch. Heels, corsets, tights add thread Track what I have been wearing and my points here

09-10-2021, 05:48 AM	#7
MrFrustration Longtime User Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 3,379 Blog Entries: 7	Definitely sounds like it could stay permanently then... __________________ Male fetishist/switch. Heels, corsets, tights add thread Track what I have been wearing and my points here

09-09-2021, 04:49 PM	#4
tzzzr getDare Succubus Join Date: Apr 2014 Posts: 1,686 Blog Entries: 1	I would agree with the necklace as a collar. This might be a bit to permanent but one suggestion would be a small tattoo or brand near your pussy with a word or phrase to remember this time. The getDare logo or your user name would be a good reminder.

09-11-2021, 01:41 AM	#8
MrFrustration Longtime User Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 3,379 Blog Entries: 7	Any more ideas? Just bumping this thread... __________________ Male fetishist/switch. Heels, corsets, tights add thread Track what I have been wearing and my points here

09-11-2021, 07:30 AM	#9
hungariancommie Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: USA Pacific time Posts: 623 Blog Entries: 1	Idk how you are with piercings but after you have your kiddo you could get a few labia piercings, and then use a lock on them to keep yourself chaste until your hubby comes home! Or/and you could get a couple of pieces of jewelry to hang off them __________________ likes: kinky tasks, pet play, anal, pain, body writing, denial, edging, ruined , chastity limits: family, friends, social suicide, lots of piss, scat, pics Pm dares: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=90065 not looking for a mistress or master, am a happily owned pet Send me pet play tasks!! 🔐 locked until the end of November with one hour unlock time daily to edge Edges 210/609 Accidental ruins 3

09-13-2021, 02:34 AM	#12
MrJB Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: UK Posts: 617	If you want something small to keep the fun/lifestyle alive, how about you have to present yourself naked to him each night after the baby goes down, so he can dress you as he likes __________________ 32/M/Dom/Straight/UK PM me your likes if you want a personalised dare Enjoys giving Public, Pain & Humiliating dares

09-15-2021, 10:07 PM	#14
Sir Cap getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2021 Location: USA Posts: 275	I'm thinking something to do with a buttplug, whether it's 24/7 and removed for voiding or when at work or like one day off a week, you should definitely be using them weekly or ideally daily. __________________ 22 Male Straight Likes: scat, piss, eating and drinking both, enema play, anal, extended play, Food play, dice games Limits: all pain, messing clothes for any length of time, public or exhibitionism, pictures/video, diapers, illegal, social suicide, family, blood, animal or stranger's scat, heavy bondage My Sexmap

09-15-2021, 11:20 PM	#15
Robert Brady Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2020 Posts: 202	Similar to whatwas stated above: a behavioural rule where you perform a certain task or duty each day or on command as a constant reminder of your submission. For instance you could have a phrase like "sitting pretty" that he could use at will. You may be out to dinner with him or at home while he is at work. All he would need to say is, "are you sitting pretty?" This would be your prompt to sit with your knees and feet apart. Leaving you slightly exposed. Of course the phrase and position may vary depending on both of your desires. But once you've agreed to it, you should keep the phrase for a long time until he decides to change it. I recommend a phrase be used for 6 months minimum before changing to a new phrase. Then at random times in the future he could use an old phrase and you'll be conditioned to obey instantly. Another option: You are to undress him at the end of each day and then kneel on the bedroom floor until he tells you to get up. He may instruct you to suck him off, he may ignore you. You should stay on your knees until instructed to move or for 15 mins each night. In my experience, behavioural submission like these options is more effective than something like labia piercings. After a while piercings can simply become jewellery. But your constant repeated behaviour reinforces your ongoing submission. __________________ Straight Aussie Dominant Male Kik: robertbrady23