Permanent / long term rules
 

I know some of you have been following our story and time on here, especially during covid over the last 18 months or so.

Most will know I'm pregnant so life will be changing a lot in just a few weeks time. Obviously we may not be on here as much or able to continue how the last couple of years have been. We've been discussing the idea of permanent, or at least very long term rules, as a reminder of the last couple of years.

We've agreed to give you lot a say in suggesting what my long term / permanent rules could be. I'm well aware that I'll probably regret this!

The only things are obviously they have to be suitable for having a baby around. I'm not working anymore but Master (my husband) is so it'll just be me and the baby at home during the day.

If it's not 100% safe then it will not be chosen so on that note he will choose the rules, and there might then be a poll depending on how many suggestions there are from people.

This is not us saying goodbye, just acknowledging that life is about to change massively.

What a great idea! My suggestion is permanent chastity (and orgasm denial), once you have recovered sufficiently after the birth. By permanent I mean that the belt is only removed for cleaning or in the case of medical emergency.

I would suggest that you always wear some kind of necklace as your “collar” when running errands or shopping. To everyone else it will just be a necklace but to you a reminder

I would agree with the necklace as a collar.

This might be a bit to permanent but one suggestion would be a small tattoo or brand near your pussy with a word or phrase to remember this time. The getDare logo or your user name would be a good reminder.

From what I understand you have been wearing a steel circular section collar such as this: https://www.google.ie/search?q=steel...pcqE7PCJrSN9jM

(or is it a little narrower than this?)

.. for a good while now, including around your parents, friends etc. If there haven't been any issues with it so far, after all this time there is no reason it shouldn't stay permanently in place...

Er they're some interesting suggestions!

It's a bit narrower than that and without the ring

Definitely sounds like it could stay permanently then...

Any more ideas? Just bumping this thread...

Idk how you are with piercings but after you have your kiddo you could get a few labia piercings, and then use a lock on them to keep yourself chaste until your hubby comes home! Or/and you could get a couple of pieces of jewelry to hang off them

One suggestion via pm is to be barefoot permanently. We're in the UK and it's far too cold for that but master has suggested a possible alternative where I commit to being barefoot 24/7 from the 1st March to the 31st October... And only get shoes and socks etc November, December, January and February.


Wow that sounds painful! I only have pierced ears.

I think that is a great option re the bare feet.

If you want something small to keep the fun/lifestyle alive, how about you have to present yourself naked to him each night after the baby goes down, so he can dress you as he likes

Master has said I need to post again and see if people have anymore suggestions for long term or even permanent rules.

From suggestions so far he likes the sound of:

And for this one he's thinking I have to present myself naked and in handcuffs and ankle cuffs and give him the keys.

I'm thinking something to do with a buttplug, whether it's 24/7 and removed for voiding or when at work or like one day off a week, you should definitely be using them weekly or ideally daily.

Similar to whatwas stated above: a behavioural rule where you perform a certain task or duty each day or on command as a constant reminder of your submission.

For instance you could have a phrase like "sitting pretty" that he could use at will. You may be out to dinner with him or at home while he is at work. All he would need to say is, "are you sitting pretty?" This would be your prompt to sit with your knees and feet apart. Leaving you slightly exposed. Of course the phrase and position may vary depending on both of your desires. But once you've agreed to it, you should keep the phrase for a long time until he decides to change it. I recommend a phrase be used for 6 months minimum before changing to a new phrase. Then at random times in the future he could use an old phrase and you'll be conditioned to obey instantly.

Another option:
You are to undress him at the end of each day and then kneel on the bedroom floor until he tells you to get up. He may instruct you to suck him off, he may ignore you. You should stay on your knees until instructed to move or for 15 mins each night.

In my experience, behavioural submission like these options is more effective than something like labia piercings. After a while piercings can simply become jewellery. But your constant repeated behaviour reinforces your ongoing submission.