men: do you enjoy degrading women and why?

istm · 01-23-2013, 11:17 AM

as a female who enjoys being on the receiving end im always interested in hearing the reasons the menfolk enjoy treating whores like whores

Tugstrong73 · 01-23-2013, 12:54 PM

Yes i love seeing a women begging or being used. I dont know why i like it so much but i do. My favorite thing is to piss on them and stretch her ass out.

Dareholic · 01-23-2013, 12:56 PM

Not really into it; however, I am an actor. So if that is what someone wants, well I can play that part.

Haze · 01-23-2013, 02:08 PM

I enjoy the control, being able to satisfy whatever desire I wish, doing with them as I please with no regard for their pleasures or wants. A whore is suppose to satisfy not be satisfied. Outside of a Dom/sub relationship I can be a very compassionate lover, but as a master or Dom it is the control I enjoy. Pushing boundaries and limits is especially enjoyable, but with someone outside the fetish lifestyle forcing someone to do something they don't like isn't a pleasure.

vladimir_bz_lion · 01-23-2013, 03:03 PM

Perhaps it's because all women are naturally big teasers. And often can not figure out and confess it even to herself desires. I like to bring a woman to the point where it only thinks about the needs of her body. Only then can a woman forget of propriety and morals, to be honest with yourself and with me, to confess her secret desires and enjoy her body.

UnsureUser · 01-23-2013, 05:31 PM

I absolutely hate it, actually. I feel like total crap treating a woman like shit. I just don't like treating people that way period.

But I also understand that I have some kinks/desires women might not understand so I try to play along.

Have had a few women ask me to treat them like shit/degrade them, and yeah, I don't like doing it. At all.

heretoserveyou · 01-24-2013, 11:41 PM

i can be, but id much rather it switch around and the girl do it to me

PerfectCents · 01-25-2013, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by UnsureUser

I absolutely hate it, actually. I feel like total crap treating a woman like shit. I just don't like treating people that way period.

But I also understand that I have some kinks/desires women might not understand so I try to play along.

Have had a few women ask me to treat them like shit/degrade them, and yeah, I don't like doing it. At all.

This.

Of course men like forcing women. Ok, some prefer to be forced but the topic remains the same. People like dominance. However, sometimes you may feel used or like you've used someone and it's quite a confronting, degrading feeling. The first time I forced a girl yo gag on my cum in public was, by far, the best orgasm I've had. I felt terrible looking back on it but at the time it was amazing!

bakersdozen69 · 01-26-2013, 06:50 AM

I only like it if the girl asks for it or if I know she wants it. Otherwise, I would rather treat females with respect. I dated a girl in college that loved to be called names, have her hair pulled, and always asked me to slap her in the face with my cock, even at a random time when we weren't necessarily doing anything sexual. She loved it when I forced her down on me by the back of her head and cum on her face. I have to admit that it was exhilarating but I think that's only because I knew it turned her on.

borntoobey · 01-26-2013, 07:16 AM

i like degrading women because they deserve it .they are born to serve. it will keep her forever mine and making her obey gives me a kick...a sense of.total control over something is always a turn on for me

Itchynugat · 01-26-2013, 11:06 AM

I like to make it funny.

I dress her up in a silly costume, surprise her with a pie in the face, and laugh at her. I don't want her to actually be too upset about it, but I want her to react like she is. If she has no reaction, laughs with it, or tries to make it sexual, it means nothing to me.

What I'm looking for is perceived vulnerability. If she's obviously in control of herself, then I don't feel involved. If she's off balance and vulnerable, I'm engaged as both her tormentor and protector.

Jalexb5453 · 01-27-2013, 01:39 AM

Actually, I've had two different girls dump me because I wouldn't degrade them. They'd ask me to slap them, pull their hair, choke them, and call them things such as slut, cunt, or whore. Sure I'd pull their hair, or lightly choke them, but I couldn't force myself to be as abusive as they wanted. I don't know why, it's not a conscious choice, and even when I try, it just ruins it for both of us because it's obvious it's not "real" enough for her.

agathor · 01-27-2013, 02:31 AM

idk exactly why, all i know is when i show a slut who's boss and put her in her place, it makes me rock hard. Im hard already right now just typing about this.

EmmaLang · 01-30-2013, 07:02 AM

I am so glad there are men around who luv doing this to women. I for one luv it and am so please guys do it, I just wish there was more of them around.
Emma XxX

Shadowice · 01-30-2013, 02:22 PM

generally im nice to the girls, but if a girl tells me she loves it my filter comes off and i talk and treat her in a more degrading manor because its an easy thing to do if you know they enjoy it

01-23-2013, 11:17 AM	#1
istm Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Posts: 40	men: do you enjoy degrading women and why? as a female who enjoys being on the receiving end im always interested in hearing the reasons the menfolk enjoy treating whores like whores __________________ 24yr female I'm fine with: Anal, pain, piss, being degraded, scat, animals I'm not fine with: kids, family

01-23-2013, 12:54 PM	#2
Tugstrong73 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 11	Yes Yes i love seeing a women begging or being used. I dont know why i like it so much but i do. My favorite thing is to piss on them and stretch her ass out.

01-23-2013, 12:56 PM	#3
Dareholic getDare Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: 3rd Rock from Sun Posts: 2,329 Blog Entries: 37	Not really into it; however, I am an actor. So if that is what someone wants, well I can play that part. __________________ Brian (布莱恩) - Bi-Male (双男性) - Edge Master (边缘大师) RETIRED: THANKS getDare, I HAD FUN. OH, JUST REMEMBER: "Life is not fun, unless you are having fun." - Dareholic "Adam was but human - this explains it all. He did not want the apple for the apple's sake, he wanted it only because it was forbidden. The mistake was not forbidding the serpent; then he would have eaten the serpent." - Mark Twain Yamask

01-23-2013, 03:03 PM	#5
vladimir_bz_lion getDare Addict Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Europe Posts: 2,361 Blog Entries: 37	Perhaps it's because all women are naturally big teasers. And often can not figure out and confess it even to herself desires. I like to bring a woman to the point where it only thinks about the needs of her body. Only then can a woman forget of propriety and morals, to be honest with yourself and with me, to confess her secret desires and enjoy her body. __________________ I expect your detailed and exciting report. PM me for punishment if you failed my dare. "You're going to women? Don't forget your whip!" Friedrich Nietzsche “No woman, it is said, knows truly what she is until she has worn the collar” John Norman, Raiders of Gor Initiative whores - most ask for punishment to look forward to a man, to be a continuation of his motion, momentum, thoughts. Who yearns to be punished, craves and needs the pleasures of pain?

01-23-2013, 05:31 PM	#6
UnsureUser Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 48	I absolutely hate it, actually. I feel like total crap treating a woman like shit. I just don't like treating people that way period. But I also understand that I have some kinks/desires women might not understand so I try to play along. Have had a few women ask me to treat them like shit/degrade them, and yeah, I don't like doing it. At all. __________________ I am owned by a loving, but strict Miss My likes include: begging, drinking my own piss, swallowing my own cum, having things shoved up my ass, taking it in the ass like a bitch in heat, being made to kneel, being bent over, being humiliated or told to humiliate myself, being nude, and CBT. I am a horny bitch

01-23-2013, 02:08 PM	#4
Haze Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: In the dirty south Posts: 77	I enjoy the control, being able to satisfy whatever desire I wish, doing with them as I please with no regard for their pleasures or wants. A whore is suppose to satisfy not be satisfied. Outside of a Dom/sub relationship I can be a very compassionate lover, but as a master or Dom it is the control I enjoy. Pushing boundaries and limits is especially enjoyable, but with someone outside the fetish lifestyle forcing someone to do something they don't like isn't a pleasure.

01-24-2013, 11:41 PM	#7
heretoserveyou Senior Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: USA Posts: 103	i can be, but id much rather it switch around and the girl do it to me __________________ 20 M. Virgin. Likes: femdom, sissification, humiliation, masturbation open to everything Limits: blood, poo, pee, showing face

01-26-2013, 06:50 AM	#9
bakersdozen69 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: I'm in the eastern USA. Posts: 108	I only like it if the girl asks for it or if I know she wants it. Otherwise, I would rather treat females with respect. I dated a girl in college that loved to be called names, have her hair pulled, and always asked me to slap her in the face with my cock, even at a random time when we weren't necessarily doing anything sexual. She loved it when I forced her down on me by the back of her head and cum on her face. I have to admit that it was exhilarating but I think that's only because I knew it turned her on. __________________ 28/M - Pics, cam, masturbation, cum, general nudity - Pain, blood, poop, etc.. Anything in between, I'll consider..

01-26-2013, 07:16 AM	#10
borntoobey Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: India Posts: 10	i like degrading women because they deserve it .they are born to serve. it will keep her forever mine and making her obey gives me a kick...a sense of.total control over something is always a turn on for me __________________ i am a male age 23..i am dominant...i like total controll,humiliation,nipple and ass torture..spanking turns me on.

01-26-2013, 11:06 AM	#11
Itchynugat Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Southern California Posts: 105 Blog Entries: 1	I like to make it funny. I dress her up in a silly costume, surprise her with a pie in the face, and laugh at her. I don't want her to actually be too upset about it, but I want her to react like she is. If she has no reaction, laughs with it, or tries to make it sexual, it means nothing to me. What I'm looking for is perceived vulnerability. If she's obviously in control of herself, then I don't feel involved. If she's off balance and vulnerable, I'm engaged as both her tormentor and protector. __________________ Level 43 Half-Giant Bard Likes: Costumes, Cross-dressing, Comedy Humiliation, Pies in the face, Role-play, Hidden Public, light bondage, tasks. Maybe: semi-permanent, wedgies, public, webcam. Limits: Scat, pee, cum, diaper, family, extreme pain, anal, nude. Crossdress Costumes I Have: http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=76105 Skype live:.cid.99f1fcd3b2a80072 Kik: ikitsch

01-27-2013, 01:39 AM	#12
Jalexb5453 Junior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Posts: 11	Actually, I've had two different girls dump me because I wouldn't degrade them. They'd ask me to slap them, pull their hair, choke them, and call them things such as slut, cunt, or whore. Sure I'd pull their hair, or lightly choke them, but I couldn't force myself to be as abusive as they wanted. I don't know why, it's not a conscious choice, and even when I try, it just ruins it for both of us because it's obvious it's not "real" enough for her.

01-27-2013, 02:31 AM	#13
agathor Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Missouri, USA Posts: 48	idk exactly why, all i know is when i show a slut who's boss and put her in her place, it makes me rock hard. Im hard already right now just typing about this.

01-30-2013, 07:02 AM	#14
EmmaLang Distinguished Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Hall Green, Birmingham. UK Posts: 538	I am so glad there are men around who luv doing this to women. I for one luv it and am so please guys do it, I just wish there was more of them around. Emma XxX __________________ Limits - well none really I will try anything. Not looking for a Master, sorry. I am Sub not Dom so sorry but I am not looking for a Slave. Read my dares and let me have new dares please. http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=95735

01-30-2013, 02:22 PM	#15
Shadowice getDare Addict Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: USA Posts: 2,307 Blog Entries: 4	generally im nice to the girls, but if a girl tells me she loves it my filter comes off and i talk and treat her in a more degrading manor because its an easy thing to do if you know they enjoy it __________________ Curious to know about me? Visit my AMA Ladies if you are feeling brave please try my Hell Tease I love detailed reports