08-21-2013, 06:40 AM | #1 |
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Question about dare I received - what's your opinion?
I've been dared to go "80 days without masturbating" which I am doing. But I want to know if people think this means I can't cum in other ways?
Sex must be allowed as this definitely isn't masturbating, and wet dreams are beyond my control, but what about making myself cum in ways that don't involve stimulating my cock? Can I hump a pillow, finger my prostate? I just want your (The GetDare community's opinion on this wording). And if I am allowed to do these things is there some sort of forfeit? What's your take on this?
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08-21-2013, 06:48 AM | #2 |
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It depends. If someone gave you a dare they shouldnt have to list off every fathomable way you can work around it. Just strap up and do as you were told - If you wanted to do things your way you shouldnt have gotten your dare off someone else.
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08-21-2013, 07:03 AM | #3 |
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Well I don't want to try and work round it, trying to cut at the wording of the dare until there's nothing left, I'm just curious. Especially as 80 days is so long - I mean, if I stood naked in the middle of a room and without touching myself just willed myself to come, is that masturbating?
It may just be that ten days into the dare I'm horny and it's on my mind so I'm starting to test the boundaries. The dare was sort of given by a group of which I was the loser so there's no one to ask straight out about this.
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08-21-2013, 07:33 AM | #4 |
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I think that daring you not to masturbate involves the concept of self stimulation. To me, your dare included you "getting happy" on your own.
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08-21-2013, 08:45 AM | #5 |
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Humping pillow or stimulate your cock any other way when you alone is unequivocal - NO.
Milking the prostate and sex - are legal, on my mind, but a lot depends on the opinion of your dare master and the circumstances. For example, pick up a prostitute, just 'cause you can not wank - it's like cheating IMHO.
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08-21-2013, 09:24 AM | #6 |
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That's kind of what I felt. Any attempt to stimulate my cock is clearly wrong no matter what method I use but if for some reason (to ease social situation, comfort, to complete another dare) I needed to cum, should it be okay to "milk my prostate"? It's kind of like a wet dream really, just artificially induced.
(In fact now I think of it, wet dreams can be pretty intense and pleasurable. As time builds from my last wank I'm treated to increasingly erotic dreams. Isn't it better to stave these off with some regular milking?)
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08-21-2013, 09:46 AM | #7 |
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I think "handsfree" prostate milking is fairplay.
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08-21-2013, 09:56 AM | #8 |
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Any other opinions?
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08-21-2013, 10:00 AM | #9 |
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how about asking the person who gave you the dare how they meant it?
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08-21-2013, 10:09 AM | #10 |
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The dare was set by a group as a kind of "loser has to..." dare. I've asked some of those involved but they're obviously moving on with the game at this point so all I have is the original wording "loser cannot masturbate for x days".
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08-21-2013, 10:13 AM | #11 |
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If your permanent erection is jeopardising a limit (such as social suicide) I say do something about it. If you want to cum because of a more recent dare then no: first takes priority. Tell people you cannot complete theirs until after the deadline. Most people are pretty forgiving of this (with punishment in some cases).
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08-21-2013, 10:35 AM | #12 |
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Okay, so as I see it if continuing the dare risks breaking a limit then I can break the rules in that instance and then return to the dare (should there be a forfeit for this?)
Milking the prostate is less certain. Whilst not masturbating it seems the only reason I'd do it is to release sexual tension, the enduring of which is surely the point of not being able to masturbate. So although not strictly against the rules of the dare it is against the spirit of it. This is a shame as I was kind of interested to see if I could cum without touching my cock.
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