The Humiliation Self-Profile Kit for Submissive Men

Phaedo · 11-06-2023, 12:01 AM

Seems a shame that there's a kit for submissive women but not for submissive men, so I modified the original to be more male-sub specific.

Highlight in bold or with color your answers. Be sure to indicate which items make you especially turned on by appending one or more exclamation marks (!).

NB: In the following, the term "Owner" as a generic term to refer to any of: Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress or Top.

I Core information

1. Age: Can be approximate, if you like

2. Name: No need to be your real name, just something I can call you by

3. Het, Bi or Gay?

4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you? Pick one or more options from the list below:

Your Owner
Someone with power over you (police, soldier, doctor, teacher, boss, relation, friend, bully)
Someone you owe money or a favour
Someone who you need something from
Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to
Your blackmailer
Your rapist
Your abductor
Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy

5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realise that humiliation was a turn-on? Just need a number here

II List of Humiliations
Indicate what numbers in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes you particularly turned on.

1. Being Controlled / Owned

Being ordered around
Being made to perform tasks
Being denied orgasm
Not being permitted to wear underwear
Being forced to wear women's underwear
Being told what clothes to wear every day
Having to be naked in the house
Being told what you are allowed to eat
Being told when and where you can sleep
Having to eat off the floor
Having to crawl on all fours
Having to ask before you can go pee
Having to pee outside
Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned
Being tattooed to show you're owned
Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly

2. Being put on display

Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public
Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work
Having to bare your ass, cock, or balls in a public place
Being made to dress in a costume for your Owner (schoolgirl, maid, etc)
Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round
Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round
Having pictures of you posted onto the web
Being put on display as a sex slave in a shop window

3. Being treated as a sex object

Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants
Being groped in public by your Owner
Being groped in public by a complete stranger
Being treated as nothing but a set of holes
Being treated as nothing more than a cock that is only for your Owner's amusement
Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible
Having to take it up your ass
Having to take it down your throat
Being slapped across your face with a hard cock or strapon
Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag
Being gang-banged
Being whored out
Being used as a party favour
Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre
Being raped

4. Being verbally degraded

Being talked to in a condescending manner
Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion
Being called dirty
Being called a slut
Being called a whore
Being called worthless
Being called stupid
Being called a sissy
Being called a bitch
Being called a pig
Being called a cow
Being talked about to others
Being talked about to others as if you're not there
Having any of the above names written on your body
Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called

5. Being physically hurt

Having your hair pulled
Having your face slapped
Having your balls slapped
Having your cock slapped
Having your nipples pinched or clamped
Being bent over and having your ass spanked

6. Being disciplined

Being castigated for doing something incorrectly
Being scolded like a naughty boy or sissy
Having to write lines
Having to stand in the corner
Being made to apologise for your behaviour
Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment
Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom
Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display

7. Being treated as unimportant

Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored
Having your time deliberately wasted
Being ignored altogether
Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant
Owner degrading you as feminized or a pussy as you are ordered around like a maid
Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's
Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner

8. Having your orgasm controlled

Having to ask permission before you can cum
Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming.
Being made to edge throughtout the day to keep you dripping
Having to ask permission to touch your cock
Being locked in a chastity cage
Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length)
Only getting cock or a strapon in your mouth or ass

9. Being shamed about your body

Being told you're too fat
Being told your cock is too small
Being told you're ugly
Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you
Being compared to real men and told how you fail to measure up

10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation

Having your hands cuffed behind your back
Being kept in chains
Being gagged to stop you talking
Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked
Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will
Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use

11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things

Being spat on
Making you piss yourself
Being pissed on or in
Having to swallow your Owner's piss
Having to swallow your owner's cum
Having to swallow your own cum
Having piss in or over your food
Having cum in or over your food
Having you go out in public with cum over your face
Having you spend the day with cum in your underwear
Being gagged with used panties or underwear
Being fucked with a paper bag over your head
Being fucked with used panties or underwear over your head
Being fucked with your head in the toilet
Making you lick the toilet seat clean
Making you hump the toilet
Having your Owner sit on your face
Having a toilet brush shoved up your asshole to clean it
Making you lick his/her shoes clean
Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes
Being hosed down like an animal
Being made to lie in mud
Being made to spend the night in the barn

12. Controlling your other relationships

Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues
Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues
Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues
Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues
Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs

13. Raceplay

Having your race treated as inferior
Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally
Being called racially insulting names

14. Gender play as humiliation

Making you have sex with a man if you're straight
Making you have sex with a woman if you're gay
Treating all men as inferior to women

15. Your position in your relationship

Letting your Owner have sex with other people
Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another
Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want
Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with other people
Having to move into the spare room because their lover is now in your room
Having to clean their lover's home as well as yours
Having to buy their lover clothes, gifts and jewelery
Having to clean your Owner's and their lover's genitals with your mouth after they've made love
Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to them
Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple

16. Generic Humiliation

Being laughed at
Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next
Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard or her cunt wet
Having to beg them for something you need or want
Having to beg them _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do
Being humiliated to tears
Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on
Having to thank a person after they've hurt or used you
Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault
Being taunted because your cock gets hard and leaks when you are humiliated

III Additional Info (Optional)

What do you look like? (You're expected to tell the size of your erection, at a minimum.)
What race / ethnicity / nationality are you?
Are you shy or outgoing?
Are you religious? (if so, what faith?)
Are you a virgin?
If the answer to 5 is no, then how many men or women have you had sex with and which of your holes have they fucked?

11-06-2023, 12:01 AM	#1
Phaedo getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2019 Location: The Left Coast Posts: 1,396 Blog Entries: 7	The Humiliation Self-Profile Kit for Submissive Men Seems a shame that there's a kit for submissive women but not for submissive men, so I modified the original to be more male-sub specific. Highlight in bold or with color your answers. Be sure to indicate which items make you especially turned on by appending one or more exclamation marks (!). NB: In the following, the term "Owner" as a generic term to refer to any of: Dom, Domme, Master, Mistress or Top. I Core information 1. Age: Can be approximate, if you like 2. Name: No need to be your real name, just something I can call you by 3. Het, Bi or Gay? 4. Who you've fantasised about humiliating you? Pick one or more options from the list below: Your Owner Someone with power over you (police, soldier, doctor, teacher, boss, relation, friend, bully) Someone you owe money or a favour Someone who you need something from Any man or woman who your Owner lends you to Your blackmailer Your rapist Your abductor Anyone higher than you in the slave hierarchy 5. At what age did you have your first humiliation experience or realise that humiliation was a turn-on? Just need a number here II List of Humiliations Indicate what numbers in this list turn you on. Add exclamation marks (!) if it makes you particularly turned on. 1. Being Controlled / Owned Being ordered around Being made to perform tasks Being denied orgasm Not being permitted to wear underwear Being forced to wear women's underwear Being told what clothes to wear every day Having to be naked in the house Being told what you are allowed to eat Being told when and where you can sleep Having to eat off the floor Having to crawl on all fours Having to ask before you can go pee Having to pee outside Having to wear a collar to show that you're owned Being tattooed to show you're owned Having to answer any questions from your owner fully and honestly 2. Being put on display Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at home Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes in public Having to wear slutty and/or revealing clothes at work Having to bare your ass, cock, or balls in a public place Being made to dress in a costume for your Owner (schoolgirl, maid, etc) Being stripped naked in front of people your Owner invites round Being made to masturbate in front of people your Owner invites round Having pictures of you posted onto the web Being put on display as a sex slave in a shop window 3. Being treated as a sex object Being casually groped by your Owner whenever s/he wants Being groped in public by your Owner Being groped in public by a complete stranger Being treated as nothing but a set of holes Being treated as nothing more than a cock that is only for your Owner's amusement Being fucked as hard and as roughly as possible Having to take it up your ass Having to take it down your throat Being slapped across your face with a hard cock or strapon Being used as a cumbucket or cumrag Being gang-banged Being whored out Being used as a party favour Being used in a glory hole or adult theatre Being raped 4. Being verbally degraded Being talked to in a condescending manner Being talked to in a rude and arrogant fashion Being called dirty Being called a slut Being called a whore Being called worthless Being called stupid Being called a sissy Being called a bitch Being called a pig Being called a cow Being talked about to others Being talked about to others as if you're not there Having any of the above names written on your body Making you agree with and repeat back the names you are being called 5. Being physically hurt Having your hair pulled Having your face slapped Having your balls slapped Having your cock slapped Having your nipples pinched or clamped Being bent over and having your ass spanked 6. Being disciplined Being castigated for doing something incorrectly Being scolded like a naughty boy or sissy Having to write lines Having to stand in the corner Being made to apologise for your behaviour Having to bare your bottom, bend over and wait for your punishment Having to count out each spank or stroke as it lands on your bottom Having to stand in the corner with your red punished ass on display 7. Being treated as unimportant Having your views mocked, belittled or ignored Having your feelings mocked, belittled or ignored Having your time deliberately wasted Being ignored altogether Treating your work or career as trivial or unimportant Owner degrading you as feminized or a pussy as you are ordered around like a maid Having your needs ignored in favour of your Owner's Being told your only purpose in life is to serve your Owner 8. Having your orgasm controlled Having to ask permission before you can cum Being restricted to humping household objects as your only means of cumming. Being made to edge throughtout the day to keep you dripping Having to ask permission to touch your cock Being locked in a chastity cage Being denied orgasm for days or weeks or months at a time (specify length) Only getting cock or a strapon in your mouth or ass 9. Being shamed about your body Being told you're too fat Being told your cock is too small Being told you're ugly Being inspected and having your flaws pointed out to you Being compared to real men and told how you fail to measure up 10. Physical Constraints as a means of humiliation Having your hands cuffed behind your back Being kept in chains Being gagged to stop you talking Being gagged with an O-ring so your mouth and throat can be fucked Being tied up naked with your legs spread so you can be used at will Being kept locked up in a cage when you're not in use 11. Making you do demeaning and disgusting things Being spat on Making you piss yourself Being pissed on or in Having to swallow your Owner's piss Having to swallow your owner's cum Having to swallow your own cum Having piss in or over your food Having cum in or over your food Having you go out in public with cum over your face Having you spend the day with cum in your underwear Being gagged with used panties or underwear Being fucked with a paper bag over your head Being fucked with used panties or underwear over your head Being fucked with your head in the toilet Making you lick the toilet seat clean Making you hump the toilet Having your Owner sit on your face Having a toilet brush shoved up your asshole to clean it Making you lick his/her shoes clean Making you lovingly lick and kiss your Owners feet and toes Being hosed down like an animal Being made to lie in mud Being made to spend the night in the barn 12. Controlling your other relationships Having your private life discussed with family, friends or work colleagues Having intimate pictures of you shown to family, friends or work colleagues Making you have sex with your friends or work colleagues Making you help arrange sex for your Owner with family, friends or work colleagues Giving him/her access to all your computer accounts - email, facebook, blogs 13. Raceplay Having your race treated as inferior Being made to fuck other races who you wouldn't normally Being called racially insulting names 14. Gender play as humiliation Making you have sex with a man if you're straight Making you have sex with a woman if you're gay Treating all men as inferior to women 15. Your position in your relationship Letting your Owner have sex with other people Having to watch or listen to him/her have sex with another Being denied sex while your Owner has as much sex as they want Being told by your Owner how much more s/he enjoys sex with other people Having to move into the spare room because their lover is now in your room Having to clean their lover's home as well as yours Having to buy their lover clothes, gifts and jewelery Having to clean your Owner's and their lover's genitals with your mouth after they've made love Being humiliated by your Owner's lover for being inferior to them Not even having a Owner: you're just the live-in maid for another couple 16. Generic Humiliation Being laughed at Being told by your owner what s/he intends doing to you next Being told that making you feel mortified makes his cock hard or her cunt wet Having to beg them for something you need or want Having to beg them _not_ to make you do something you don't want to do Being humiliated to tears Being encouraged to cry because it turns your Owner on Having to thank a person after they've hurt or used you Having to say sorry to your Owner even when it's not your fault Being taunted because your cock gets hard and leaks when you are humiliated III Additional Info (Optional) What do you look like? (You're expected to tell the size of your erection, at a minimum.) What race / ethnicity / nationality are you? Are you shy or outgoing? Are you religious? (if so, what faith?) Are you a virgin? If the answer to 5 is no, then how many men or women have you had sex with and which of your holes have they fucked? __________________ M \| straight \| sub Kik: phaedo_bound Likes and Limits \| Toys \| AMA \| PM Dares Sexmap \| DirtyCode \| BDSM Test Last orgasm: 7 Jan 2024 (ruined) Locked in chastity since: 7 Jan 2024 Last edited by Phaedo; 11-06-2023 at 12:36 AM.