How shy are you about your sexuality or kink?

[Jaro]

Please elaborate on these questions as much as you can. Please specify the types of people: friends, family, strangers are applicable.

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
4. How do you usually dress?
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
8. Do you share your computer with others?
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
10. Anything else you'd like to share?

[timekeeper]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others? I don't talk about it much, only with close people like lovers or very close friends occasionally.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others? very open once i get to know someone.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked? not often but i will for the right person.

4. How do you usually dress? jeans and a shirt mainly.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home? pictures of landscapes and a couple of pictures of Indians.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home? dont have any.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer? dont have any stored on my computer.

8. Do you share your computer with others? no.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others? i don't swear much only on occasions, i think people who swear all the time in conversation are a turn off.

10. Anything else you'd like to share? no.

[Janus100]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Well, my sex life is non exsistant which I am very open about to anyone XD I have honestly never done anything with anyone
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
Not open at all with people IRL, dunno how they would react
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not easily at all. The closest I have come is getting down to just my underwear in front of two friends but I was very drunk.
4. How do you usually dress?
Just jeans, T shirt and hoodie. Nothing special
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
World map, map of UK, two GTAV posters that i got free, two Kate Upton posters, a Union jack flag hanging on my wall, and ofc a Taylor Swift poster. I am moving soon though so i am gonna change things around
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
Locked in a draw and hidden away
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I have no porn on my computer :/
8. Do you share your computer with others?
Nope its all mine
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Loads, I am always sharing. Shit, fuck, cunt, cock etc.
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Sometimes I think about sharing my kink stuff with a friend of mine but I dont know how she would react :/

[tyragon123]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Not very open at all. Not many people know (as in a very minimal amount)

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
I don't think anyone knows really (as in at all). I have a drawer of sex toys in my room but always keep something in front of it. No-one has opened it yet.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
If I'm in a public change room I don't really care if someone sees me nude (actually kind of like it). If I am naked at night outside, I try my hardest to not get spotted (although I have been)

4. How do you usually dress?
Generally a t-shirt with an unbuttoned shirt over the top, then cargo shorts, cargo pants or chinos. Depending on the weather. I can't stand denim.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
In my room I have a Mario poster, a Sonic poster (same style), a Minecraft poster, and a Video Game High School poster. Don't ask why the Minecraft one is still there.

On my computer my wallpapers for my two screens are essentially all naked/scantily clad women. It just rotates through hundreds of pics. The main reason I did this was to see if it was possible to have them there and just hide them when other people come in.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
A big drawer built into my desk (probably meant to put a filing system in). No-one has any reason to look in there and my laptop bag/something else is usually in front of it.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
It's a Windows hidden folder (but I don't hide hidden folders for some reason) called "Other" on my D: Drive (has all my files/movies/pictures on it, C: is OS SSD, and E: is program files). That folder is 975 GB (fuck). Sorted into pictures, movies, games, etc.

8. Do you share your computer with others?
No, it's one I built last year and lives in my room. I used to hide everything a lot more when my laptop was my only computer.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
In terms of swearing I'll use fuck, shit, cunt occasionally (not considered as bad a word in Australia than other places). These are mainly used with friends. If talking about penises/vaginas I'll use the anatomical words. (No "sex", "manhood" or "wetness")

[TestingLimits]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
With strangers, not at all. With friends, maybe if they ask. With people on here, I'm pretty open. I'll basically talk about whatever they seem interested in hearing about.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
I'm really only open with close friends. I can be open here because of anonymity.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not that easily, actually. I prefer to change in stalls even in locker rooms, where that's generally seen as okay. Usually, I don't show until someone else does, unless maybe they're close to me and they ask to see.

4. How do you usually dress?
Really casually. T-shirt, underwear, jeans, socks, done. I don't mind dressing up, it's just a lot more thought and effort than I'm willing to put in on a daily basis.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
I actually never got around to hanging any of my pictures or posters, but they're mostly sports stuff. I kind of outgrew my interest in them. Plus the players on the posters are mostly retired, since a lot of the posters are from when I was ten. Ish.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
Nowhere! I don't have any, but if I did, I'd probably either keep them under the bed or in the top shelf of my closet.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
Psh, downloading porn! That shit's free on the internet. The only porn I would keep is a game, which costs money, which means I don't get it.

Besides, I don't actually look at much porn.


8. Do you share your computer with others?
Absolutely not. I wouldn't even have my roleplay sites bookmarked, much less this site. Besides, I use the computer too often to ever share. If I could be online 24/7, I would.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
In terms of cuss words and such? Pretty much all of them, if I know they're fine with it. In terms of sexual words, I don't think I use any unless it makes sense in context. If it's someone on here, I'd feel free to use them all. In real life, it doesn't tend to fit.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Hm... kinky things to share... I'm naked under these clothes? (Okay, to be a little bit more exciting, I'm only wearing boxers, since I'm at home and it's warm.)

[Forester]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
I don't usually bring sex life up, but if someone else brings it up, I don't really hold back a lot.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
If you ask a question that warrants a TMI answer, that is what you are going to get.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Easily. I live in Finland, and sauna is naked here. I suppose hundreds of people have seen me naked, so it's not a big deal.

4. How do you usually dress?
T-shirt, hoodie, jeans/camos, superstars. If it's cold, a leather jacket and a beanie as well. I love sweatpants at home tho

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
I have an image of a bound girl as my computer desktop, and I don't really hide it. If you can't handle it, too bad. I like the pic, it looks great. Otherwise, I don't really have any pictures on my walls. Not even a poster.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
In the closet, not very well hidden but hidden enough so they don't stand out when the closet door is open, which it always is.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I don't really have any. Maybe some nudes in just some random folder in my pictures directory, nothing else.

8. Do you share your computer with others?
Nope.

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Pretty much sex terms, some that have to do with BDSM and homosexuality.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
You get what you ask for.

[WTGinger]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Pretty much not at all.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
Also not really at all, other than online

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not easily at all.

4. How do you usually dress?
Have to dress snartly for work, in an office. Outside of that, quite casually. Jeans and T-Shirt most of the time.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
I have a few photo frames on the walls. No actual paintings/posters.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
Bedside draw.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
Sub folder in my docs

8. Do you share your computer with others?
Nope

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Most of the time I don't use that kind of language. In work of my social circle it wouldn't go down well.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Nope...

[imakward]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
not really open only 2-3 people know

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
i talk easy about them depending on the person

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
NG+1 hard
4. How do you usually dress?
Casual

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
i have 3 shirts of Man.utd on my wall and some bands ordinary stuff

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
in a super secret Safe build in the wall

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
in a folder named "Watch out Porn"

8. Do you share your computer with others?
Rarely if my Uncle visits so he can check his games

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
cunt,twat ect.

10. Anything else you'd like to share?
It is Colour not Color ^^

[lifeisaflower69]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Not at all, I've a very classical sex life with my wife, so no need to talk about it
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
Not at all, nobodies know my kinky side, not even my wife
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Depend of the context, but not easily, except during bdsm or kinky play
4. How do you usually dress?
Casual
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
None
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
In a locked walled and a box in the garage
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
in the cloud
8. Do you share your computer with others?
Not easily, but dometimes
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Swinger or gay
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
No

[kurious kat]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Generally only with friends who first mention theirs to me, or current/past partners. I'm more open speaking anonymously online because the potential for negative repercussions is lower.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
I am quietly open with friends who indicate they might be accepting of the concept, but if someone seems dismissive of fetishes (or if I don't know them well enough to anticipate whether they might be), I take steps to ensure it never comes up.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
I'm not much of an exhibitionist. Outside the bedroom it's a rare thing.
4. How do you usually dress?
Knee-length dresses, or cotton pants and colorful knit shirts. "Pretty" rather than "Sexy."
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
Flowers, birds, reptiles, woodlands, doorways, and dancers.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
When someone is expected, they go in a box under the bed. The rest of the time they're living atop a table in my bedroom.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
On the internet.
8. Do you share your computer with others?
No. But like a phone, it feels very personal, so I kind of hate when people ask to borrow it anyway.
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
I swear very rarely. When I do, my friends tend to comment with surprise. I like to save strong language for situations that call for particular forcefulness.
...I do really like pressing that "submit" button on web forms, though!
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
In general, friends are far more valuable than any brief sexual encounter. Losing a potential friend just because pants came off for one night never feels worth it.

[Deltamale]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
I'd say I'm failry open. I don't tell much because I don't expect this would be interesting for my friends (much of my sex live is masturbating and developing my fantasies really), and I suppose I'm not really interested in their sex lives, as long as they are happy and healthy, that's all that matters to me. And I'm fairly happy too.
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
I don't talk about them that much, because I feel this is something that can easily be misunderstood. I only talk about it to people who I know will understand, not so much out of shame/etc than out of me willing to have pleasant and stress-free conversations.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
I don't really mind with friends. I did some naturism with them and I like it. But generally speaking I don't like to show too much skin. Naked or dressed, but I really don't appreciate middle grounds
4. How do you usually dress?
T-shirt and jeans. Hiking shoes for my bad ankles. I'd like to dress better, but I'm broke, jeans are resistant and t-shirts are cheap.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
I have a late Soviet poster and a "I want to believe" X-Files poster.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
I don't have any. Still broke.
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I don't have any. Just a few erotic pictures of an ex that I keep for old times sake, I don't really look at them.
8. Do you share your computer with others?
Nope, computers are like tooth brushes!
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
Ehm, I think I use the right words for the right situations. I'm not prude, but I never use insulting words for women or anything like that. I don't mind calling a pussy a pussy, but I'll never use the word "bitch". In serious conversations I'll use more precise words such as vulva, vagina, you get the idea.
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Mh, not really. I think I'm a very lucky person because I'm not silenced on any topics, and I don't silence myself other than out of respect (not everybody wants to hear about sex). I try to have truthful relationships with my friends, and for the rest of the world I don't really care about that.

[Doux et vivant]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Fairly Open
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
With GD people sure very open, otherwise open with two people.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not easily
4. How do you usually dress?
Cute, sweet and geeky
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
Restful, and fun and nerdy
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
In the drawer under the bed
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
I dont have any, do people still do that?
8. Do you share your computer with others?
no
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
i enjoy the work fuck
10. Anything else you'd like to share?
Twatwaffle is the greatest insult ever

[MaggieTheCat]

]Please elaborate on these questions as much as you can. Please specify the types of people: friends, family, strangers are applicable.

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?
Not very open, maybe to a few close friends (1 or 2)
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?
Once I get to know them well, then very open, but otherwise no.
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?
Not very easily, similar to number 2
4. How do you usually dress?
Probably with a skirt and any type of top, it varies.
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?
I have a lot of posters of various games and movies that I like.
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?
In a cabinet under all of my old clothes
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?
In a locked folder that needs a password titlted "Music"
8. Do you share your computer with others?
No
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?
None, i refrain from using them
10. Anything else you'd like to share?

[ChasteTeddyBear]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?

If they're bold enough to ask, I'll tell.

2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?

Same as above. If anyone asks directly about it then I don't mind talking about it. But I'll never invite the conversation.

3. How easily do you let others see you naked?

Depends. If I've known more than 6 months and they're not family then they probably understand that after 9pm, my house is clothing optional.

4. How do you usually dress?

For work: Jeans and a polo.
Not work: Black on Black on Black on Black. Sometimes accents of grey or red.

5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?

Our walls are bare. Bookshelves all the way.

6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?

Lockbox in the bedroom unless they're in use or being worn under clothing.

7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?

Dont have a computer. I keep my xbox browser logged into my pornhub account and my phone as my file storage. I can network stream videos off my phone to my xbox that way.

8. Do you share your computer with others?

Again, no computer. But my phone and xbox, yeah. Nobody uses the xbox internet browser. And people i trust to use my phone know that if they snoop they're going to find stuff that will probably confuse them.
(soooooo much needle/blood art)

9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?

I was a sailor. All of them...

10. Anything else you'd like to share?

I'm relatively shameless and I'm self-aware. I am who I am,
I like what I like, I don't like what I don't like. Most importantly, I dont take shit about it from other people. Kink is my religion. Chastity is my tithe. Whimpering is my prayers. The dungeon is my Vatican. [Go ahead and insert the Mic Drop here.]

[Kaitlyn1386]

1. How open are you about your sex life with others?not very open at all
2. How open are you about your kinks and fetishes with others?Not very open at all
3. How easily do you let others see you naked?I dont mind it but I dont openly try to do it
4. How do you usually dress?Mostly jeans and tshirt,skirt and blouse or shorts. Depends but mostly very casual
5. What kind of pictures hang on your walls or are otherwise displayed in your home?Mostly art or sunset etc..
6. Where do you keep your sex toys in your home?Locked chest in the closet
7. Where do you keep your porn files on your computer?Dont have any porn files
8. Do you share your computer with others?Nope
9. What kind of 'naughty' words do you use in your daily speech with others?None
10. Anything else you'd like to share?Nope