Advice for quiet spankings?

OccasionalSlave · 12-14-2016, 10:16 PM

Would any of you have any advice outside of putting a sheet over my ass.

I'm trying to spank myself, but I cant do it at its present volume level since I love in apartments with extremely thin walls.

cooperjess · 12-15-2016, 04:00 PM

Use the thin edge of a plastic or metal ruler, really stings but it's practically silent. I've heard people talk about those electric fly swatters as well, but it might be a step up :p

OccasionalSlave · 12-16-2016, 12:45 AM

Interesting idea! I'll give it a try

cooperjess · 01-14-2017, 11:42 AM

Hey, it's been ages (lol) but I had an epiphany today and I told you the wrong thing! Try wire coat hangers instead, I'm pretty sure it works better. Sorry! :p

Krakin · 02-13-2017, 02:42 PM

You could turn on some music and utilize a tool like the above user suggested. You will want something that produces more pain then your hand. So you don't have to put as much power behind it to produce the same level of pain. Just an idea that I had.

Heart · 02-13-2017, 02:48 PM

I'm told hangers are quiet and the brush side of a hair brush

sexualfeelings · 03-01-2017, 11:03 PM

I like to use a thin rod of wood the length of my forearm. It is simple to use, hide, and clean. Mine is a novelty kids toy that I re purposed. You can try something like that.

Edgeandenial · 05-03-2017, 06:23 AM

Turn up the music, turn your Air con and fan on. Tv?

Scrap · 05-03-2017, 10:10 PM

1) Music (as mentioned). Something with a heavy bass or cymbals. time your swats to the beat so any noise is masked by the music.

2) using a riding crop or bamboo/rattan rod will also help cut down the striking sound without drawing blood too early (a risk when using the edge of a ruler or metal hangar, as suggested previously).

3) line the walls of a large closet or small room with cheap foam "egg-crate" mattresses. Make sure the "finger" side is toward the open space. this is a cheap version of the same technique used to make recording booths and some theatres. sound travels normally inside the space, but doesn't reflect off of the walls- or transfer through them.

Good luck and have fun. Be sure to let us all know how things work out.

12-14-2016, 10:16 PM	#1
OccasionalSlave Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: California, USA Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 4	Advice for quiet spankings? Would any of you have any advice outside of putting a sheet over my ass. I'm trying to spank myself, but I cant do it at its present volume level since I love in apartments with extremely thin walls. __________________ Here's the results to my BDSM test: http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=3491763 Likes: orgasm control, lights edging, feminization, light anal, exercise and other regimentation, Limits: public, face pics, videos, blood, scat, anything illegal Toys: a metal and a plastic chastity cage, two realistic dildos (one medium, one large), a med vibrating dildo, small and medium butt plug, panties, a pillow the has a holder for a dildo

12-15-2016, 04:00 PM	#2
cooperjess Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 202 Blog Entries: 2	Use the thin edge of a plastic or metal ruler, really stings but it's practically silent. I've heard people talk about those electric fly swatters as well, but it might be a step up :p __________________ Jess \| 22 \| Bi AMAB. back after a long hiatus, active occasionally(?) - msg me, if you like Last edited by cooperjess; 12-16-2016 at 11:53 AM.

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OccasionalSlave Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2015 Location: California, USA Posts: 109 Blog Entries: 4	Interesting idea! I'll give it a try __________________ Here's the results to my BDSM test: http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=3491763 Likes: orgasm control, lights edging, feminization, light anal, exercise and other regimentation, Limits: public, face pics, videos, blood, scat, anything illegal Toys: a metal and a plastic chastity cage, two realistic dildos (one medium, one large), a med vibrating dildo, small and medium butt plug, panties, a pillow the has a holder for a dildo

01-14-2017, 11:42 AM	#4
cooperjess Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2015 Location: UK Posts: 202 Blog Entries: 2	Hey, it's been ages (lol) but I had an epiphany today and I told you the wrong thing! Try wire coat hangers instead, I'm pretty sure it works better. Sorry! :p __________________ Jess \| 22 \| Bi AMAB. back after a long hiatus, active occasionally(?) - msg me, if you like

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Krakin Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: United States Posts: 291 Blog Entries: 8	You could turn on some music and utilize a tool like the above user suggested. You will want something that produces more pain then your hand. So you don't have to put as much power behind it to produce the same level of pain. Just an idea that I had. __________________ 30 \|\| bigender \|\| Pansexual \|\| Little Sissy My Name Is Alexis 2-Week Trial Period with Grand.Master691 Loves: Feminization, Cumplay, Edging Likes: ice, anal (light and medium), oral, orgasm control limits\|PM dare list\|My items

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sexualfeelings Distinguished Member Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: Play Pen Posts: 563 Blog Entries: 6	I like to use a thin rod of wood the length of my forearm. It is simple to use, hide, and clean. Mine is a novelty kids toy that I re purposed. You can try something like that. __________________ ~Princess PottyPants~ Limits: Full exposure, illegal, blood, wax, needles, scat, permanent, edging, messy, penetration, oral, stripping, pet play, asterisk roleplay, food messy, feet, shoes Likes: Age play, rules, hypnosis, punishments, verbal humiliation, diapers, condescending language, being made to feel dumb, chastity, hidden public, predicaments, being made to prove im not a "big girl" My Rules Pm Dares

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Edgeandenial Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Posts: 510 Blog Entries: 4	Turn up the music, turn your Air con and fan on. Tv?

05-03-2017, 10:10 PM	#9
Scrap Distinguished Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: US Posts: 725 Blog Entries: 34	1) Music (as mentioned). Something with a heavy bass or cymbals. time your swats to the beat so any noise is masked by the music. 2) using a riding crop or bamboo/rattan rod will also help cut down the striking sound without drawing blood too early (a risk when using the edge of a ruler or metal hangar, as suggested previously). 3) line the walls of a large closet or small room with cheap foam "egg-crate" mattresses. Make sure the "finger" side is toward the open space. this is a cheap version of the same technique used to make recording booths and some theatres. sound travels normally inside the space, but doesn't reflect off of the walls- or transfer through them. Good luck and have fun. Be sure to let us all know how things work out. __________________ Scrap D Flasher 49/gf(m)/US/pan/sub Likes: nudity, public, watersports, humiliation, cross dressing, bondage Limits: illegal, social suicide, scat, blood, young AMA: https://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=293024 kik: scrapdflasher snapchat: scrapdflasher