How did you meet your Sub/Dom?

Ransom6626 · 07-03-2014, 02:20 PM

I have been surreptitiously looking for a Sub or Dom for a little while now and was curious of how others in happy (in particularly long lasting) Sub/Dom relationships met.

Shibari · 07-03-2014, 04:48 PM

I met my Dom/Rigger online, on Fetlife. I think we was talking for about a month then we met in person! He's local so I see him almost every weekend. I came very lucky to meet him but i dont recommend meeting people offline if hold loads of risks but at the same time its one of the best ways to meet a kinky person, so if you ever do just make sure you are safe!

Happy Me · 07-03-2014, 05:34 PM

I have met all of my online doms and subs through ads in the s/m area. Either my ad (4 of them), or their ad (2 of them.)
My longest is my current dommy (1 year this weekend!) and he replied to my ad!

pet monkey · 07-03-2014, 06:52 PM

In a roundabout way I met Miss through an ad I placed.

KittyKat13 · 07-03-2014, 09:05 PM

I met my dom in college. He was the brother of a classmate. We were friends for a few years and we became involved recently.

wetgirlforyou · 07-03-2014, 11:11 PM

Mine just sent me a PM. But a casual one. Not one describing how i will serve him etc etc. No ads

SweetTeen · 07-04-2014, 12:15 AM

I lurked in the Lounge along time sucking up to frosty and eventually I slipped into subbing to pupil and frosty because I was asked for it - Best feeling ever

Happy Me · 07-04-2014, 01:35 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by colosubguy

In a roundabout way I met Miss through an ad I placed.

It wasn't as roundabout as you think!

redhusky17 · 07-04-2014, 02:09 AM

i meet my Dom by living close and sharing the same interest

Slenderman - Doctor · 07-06-2014, 08:53 AM

I met my Domme after she contacted me on Kik Messenger. I had my username in my signature and she messaged just to say hey, and then we just kept talking for ages, and became friends. Then, naturally, we got talking about our kinks and curiosities and backgrounds, and it developed from there. And it couldn't be more perfect <3

View Poll Results: How did you meet your Dom/Sub?
Through an Advertisement	5	17.24%
Through the Chat Room	8	27.59%
Through a thread on the Forums	5	17.24%
Through PM's	7	24.14%
other. (please explain)	4	13.79%
Voters: 29. You may not vote on this poll

07-03-2014, 02:20 PM	#1
Ransom6626 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Posts: 247 Blog Entries: 7	How did you meet your Sub/Dom? I have been surreptitiously looking for a Sub or Dom for a little while now and was curious of how others in happy (in particularly long lasting) Sub/Dom relationships met. __________________ US/21/M Straight Creator of intricate scenarios designed to illicit ecstasy. (i.e dare giver / dom) Specialties: Denial, Forced Orgasm, Frustration, Hidden Public, Bladder Control, Multiple Orgasm Torture, Anal Play, Self-Bondage, and Long Term Scenarios Intrigued by: Witty Banter, Strong Demure, Insightful Diction, and Open Minds Disclaimer: Any acts undertaken as a result of my comments are assumed to be taken under the individuals discretion.

07-03-2014, 04:48 PM	#2
Shibari getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: England Posts: 399 Blog Entries: 10	I met my Dom/Rigger online, on Fetlife. I think we was talking for about a month then we met in person! He's local so I see him almost every weekend. I came very lucky to meet him but i dont recommend meeting people offline if hold loads of risks but at the same time its one of the best ways to meet a kinky person, so if you ever do just make sure you are safe! __________________ Submissive freak . Rope, Shibari/kinbaku. I kiss my enemies lips, while I dance in the flames of the devil, worship the Dominant that guides while I suffer at His feet. Last edited by Shibari; 07-03-2014 at 04:50 PM.

07-03-2014, 05:34 PM	#3
Happy Me Moderator Join Date: Oct 2012 Location: U.S.A. Posts: 2,092 Blog Entries: 15	I have met all of my online doms and subs through ads in the s/m area. Either my ad (4 of them), or their ad (2 of them.) My longest is my current dommy (1 year this weekend!) and he replied to my ad! __________________ What a beautiful thought it is that some of the best days of our lives haven't happened yet. I’m sick, please be nice.

07-03-2014, 06:52 PM	#4
pet monkey getDare Devil Join Date: Mar 2014 Location: USA Posts: 1,249 Blog Entries: 100	In a roundabout way I met Miss through an ad I placed. __________________ Mr. Monkey Man 48/M/USA Bi Sub This SLUT is owned by iSpuds. DJ Monkey: Official Groove Enabler to iSpuds WikiMonkey: Official Fact & Resource Repository for iSpuds PM me 'Haiku' and I will write a Haiku for you on a topic of your choice PM me 'pic' and I will send a sexy pic to iSpuds Monkey Do's and Don'ts Ask a Monkey Anything Ask me about my MONKEY MAGNETISM! ♫♪This is a song about an ol' Monkey♫♪ ♫♪He was a brave Sea Monkey, an ape of the sea♫♪ ♫♪Just one thing about him was pretty weird♫♪ ♫♪It was his swaggerin', peg-leggin', sea-captain's beard!♫♪

07-03-2014, 09:05 PM	#5
KittyKat13 Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2012 Posts: 125	my dom I met my dom in college. He was the brother of a classmate. We were friends for a few years and we became involved recently. __________________ insertions, nipple play,extreme pain, humiliation, CHOKING Anal (just starting out), hidden public permanent, public, urine, poo PM "pain slut" for me to whip my cunt 50 times I HAVE: a wand with a g-spot and clit vibe attachment, a smooth glass dildo, a ribbed glass dildo, a small vibe, nipple clamps with adjustable pressure, a dildo that stretches my pussy, 2 sets of 3 anal plugs, a collar that can choke me, leash, flogger, paracord whip, paddle

07-03-2014, 11:11 PM	#6
wetgirlforyou Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2013 Posts: 113 Blog Entries: 40	Mine just sent me a PM. But a casual one. Not one describing how i will serve him etc etc. No ads __________________ I want to have a smoking hot ass. PM me "Squat" and I'll do 30 squats PM me "Sumo Squat" and I'll do 30 sumo squats PM me "Lunges" and I'll do 20 lunges for each leg ASK ME ANYTHING THREAD My Blog. Each comment means a task for me.

07-04-2014, 12:15 AM	#7
SweetTeen getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Germany Posts: 2,045 Blog Entries: 31	I lurked in the Lounge along time sucking up to frosty and eventually I slipped into subbing to pupil and frosty because I was asked for it - Best feeling ever __________________ Likes Ask me anything !

07-04-2014, 02:09 AM	#9
redhusky17 getDare Devil Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Cluj-Napoca, Romania Posts: 1,169 Blog Entries: 1	i meet my Dom by living close and sharing the same interest __________________ 29/male/gay Loves:jocks, underwear,anal,, ice,crossdressing Likes: bondage,facials, masturbation, cum, Dislike: public, , staying up,fart Limits :permanent, blood,scat, illegal wags tail [COLOR="Magenta"]I'm a puppy who needs to be housebroken, please train PM Dares

07-06-2014, 08:53 AM	#10
Slenderman - Doctor Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 6,760	I met my Domme after she contacted me on Kik Messenger. I had my username in my signature and she messaged just to say hey, and then we just kept talking for ages, and became friends. Then, naturally, we got talking about our kinks and curiosities and backgrounds, and it developed from there. And it couldn't be more perfect <3