BDSM truths! (Questions!!) - Page 2

unibob · 04-08-2014, 05:12 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
I think 5 years now? Yeah, we'll go with that.
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
I would say 3 years online, and 2 for real.
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
I'd give myself a 3, seeing as I've only tied myself up once in a long while.
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
N/A
3)would you ever explore your limits?
Probably not.
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Meh. My fantasies aren't all that taboo, mostly about being helpless and fucked.
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Fucked myself in the ass with a dildo.
5a) Anything you've regret?
I regret many things, but not that one.
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Online play is much more sexual to me, although I haven't had much success IRL, so I can't say for sure.
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Sub all the way!
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
If they asked, probably.
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
One of my friends knows, but the others... I kind of want to tell them, but I probably never will.

Pretty_daring_slave · 04-10-2014, 10:45 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

I've known about BDSM since I was 14 years old. I liked playing the "damsel in distress" when I was a kid and discovered that my pussy tingled when I was tied up. So I googled getting tied up for fun and started reading!

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

I didn't get involved in BDSM online till I was 18. I've had partners that did some mild bondage and spanking but nothing I would consider a full real life relationship.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

I'd put myself between a 6 and 7 because there are lots of real life activities I haven't had the opportunity to try yet.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

3)would you ever explore your limits?

Hell yes! I love having my limits pushed

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

Golden showers, scat, enemas, medical, rape fantasy

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

Hmm...I just maturated naked in the bathroom at work

5a) Anything you've regret?

No.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

Both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

Submissive

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

Maybe to one or two that are more sexually open minded
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

One friend knows that I am interested in bdsm

marystoy · 04-10-2014, 11:06 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM. About 45 years.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? All 45 real, about 30 online

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced. Maybe a 7.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Absolutely

3)would you ever explore your limits? I love having my limits pushed.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Having a family member turn me into a full time sissy.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone. Most shocking was crawling through a mall led on a leash dressed only in bra, panties, garter, hose and heels. I had to constantly lick the floor while crawling.

5a) Anything you've regret? Not really.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure. 100% submissive.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? For sure, in the right circumstances.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? They know I like to look fem but that is it.

ChrissyDebra · 04-10-2014, 11:32 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
15 Years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
15/15

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
3

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
yes

3)would you ever explore your limits?
no

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
bitch / fuck me etc....

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
poo over my house

5a) Anything you've regret?
clear all over the house

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Switch

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
no/no/no

YourLittleBitch95 · 04-29-2014, 11:39 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
hmmm involved maybe month, interested in couple of years
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
online month, real none
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
1,5
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
I'd love to
3)would you ever explore your limits?
That's why I'm here for

but there are some limits that I want to stay that way
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Plenty of but can't think of anything in particular for now. Maybe golden shower? gangbang? but most of all being bound, helpless and doing what I am toled to
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
oh don't know if I did anything that shocking/dirty/rude to say it
5a) Anything you've regret?
Nothing so far
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
So far I've tried only an online play but real experiance must be a lot better
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Submissive
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
So far I'm not a one to recommend anything because I know little about it. But so far I would recommend it for anyone

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
They don't and I have some friends that I may decide to tell but definitely not now and not even in the near future

Ly Ph · 04-30-2014, 05:02 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
I am relatively new despite thinking about it for a long time. I would estimate about a month in total. One week and then a few since joining GD.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Entirely online. I tried to get my ex to give it a go but she wanted to sub and I am a very inexperienced dom. Some times I think I should explore a little of my dom side but in all of my fantasy's I am the sub.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
If 1 is no experience then 2 I guess.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
It depends on the limit. Some are cast in stone but others are more there because they disgust or endanger me. I would need some one I trusted to do break some of these.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
I used to like the idea of being forced into changing sex but since that's happening any way now its a bit broken. I am not sure this counts as a taboo.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
I guess I am just a little new to this so mine will be the relatively tame act of breaking my no drinking urine limit.

5a) Anything you've regret?
Many many things. Some a lot more than others but not to do with BDSM.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
I have only done online play but I wish I could try real life as im sure it would be better.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Sub and I don't think I would make a good dom.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
I don't think I would. I think its up to each individual to decide what they like and if you have looked at BDSM and didn't find the idea attractive you probably are not going enjoy trying it.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
My friends know that I like tattooed alternative woman and that I enjoy watching bondage porn but I have never told them anything about what I get up to. I guess that would just be too much information for most. If they asked I would probably tell them just may be not in great detail.

Komodo Jones · 04-30-2014, 05:02 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
I've been involved in BDSM probably close to eight years now. However, to the point where there were actually sessions where stuff in real-time has actually happened, not cybering, that phase of my life, I've been in for about six years.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
All of my BDSM experiences up to this point have been online, so eight years.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
I honestly hate these scale out of 10 questions, because I get paranoid on wondering if I'm selecting the right answer. I'll just say this I'm experienced that much is for sure and I'm pretty confident in my abilities, but I still feel that I have a lot to learn.
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
N/A
3)would you ever explore your limits?
I think I would, but only some of them. My likes/limits list does have hard limits on them but my hard limits have been separated into pushable hard limits and non-pushable hard limits.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Probably too many to list here. Incest has kind of always been a fantasy of mine, but there's only two cousins I'd ever want to try it with and they're both married so I don't touch that, but ageplay or brother/sister play is fun. I'm also not incredibly sure if you would call this "taboo" but another one of my fantasies is to be owned by a Mistress who would literally whore me out to many clients, male and female, to be used, and of course she would use me herself as well. But that one is purely fantasy. And being the center of a bukkake or a gangbang has always turned me on too.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
I once tasted my own shit...needless to say that is one of my limits.

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not really, as I've made mistakes in the past sure but they're all learning experiences, and have contributed to who I am today.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
While I have not experienced offline play in the BDSM realm I can't honestly answer this question. Playing in general though, I prefer both but gravitate towards real play.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
I am a switch, but I tend to gravitate towards submission more than dominance.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
No, and the reason for that is because, aside from this site, most of my friends are Christian, growing up in a Christian home. And my volunteer job that I'm in right now would be kind of odd for me to suggest something like that. There's only one friend in real life, not online, that I would suggest that to but we don't have contact enough to establish something like that.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
Once again aside from online, my friend population are mostly Christian. I told one of my friends that I was into kinky stuff but it was really awkward trying to explain that to him, so he's the only one though and I don't think he fully grasped of what I'm a part of. Because of the awkward situation and the fact that it could tarnish my reputation with my volunteer job at the moment, I probably would not tell them. Would I like to tell them, in all due honesty yes and no. No because of the whole awkwardness of what I said before along with the job face, but yes in the fact that I wouldn't have to live two separate lives and I could actually live out who I really am.

lucky7z · 04-30-2014, 10:11 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
13 years
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
online 9-10 years. IRL, experimenting solo 13 yrs, with a partner for 4 yrs
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
7
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Certain limits, not those in my signature, but maybe public or bi curious play...
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Done by/to me: jazzing on my own face. Done to someone: my ex had a surprise forced anal fantasy/request, so I surprised her one night waking her up and holding her bend over the bed for rough, no lube anal
5a) Anything you've regret?
Being over eager when I was new to online play
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
both
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
switch
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes, and have done so before
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
Very few. I would tell certain ones. No one particular i want to tell now that doesn't know already

slave_needs_mistres · 04-30-2014, 10:57 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Around 9 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Online for 9 years, real for the last 6 of them

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
I would say 7-8

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Absolutely

3)would you ever explore your limits?
I am already doing it for some of my limits, I like pushing them. Not all of them probably though

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Having my cock marked my one of my previous Mistresses. It was huge amount of pain and those marks will be there forever. Also, taking part in some CFNM parties, both in nightclubs and in house parties.

5a) Anything you've regret?
Maybe at first I regretted a bit being marked in the cock; I wasn't that compromised with the idea of having these lines and marks there forever. But I can say that now I am OK with that.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
I like both, however I think I eventually prefer the real one. Online is a good way to start (e.g. with a new Mistress) but real has a better and more intense feeling.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Absolutely submissive, no question about it.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Well, BDSM is not for everyone I think, you need to be able to accept some important lifestyle changes. However, people I know that got involved in the scene (mostly submissive guys) got really helped by that in their life, and it positively changed their personalities. So I would recommend to people trying it if they fell like that.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
Not really, there are some who know but those are friends that I've met in the scene (e.g. people that we served together with, or other participants of CFNM parties). I don't think I would ever tell somebody else, unless I wanted to suggest him doing the same.

startermaster · 05-01-2014, 06:00 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
about 3 years now
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
real life never, online see above
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
uhh 7
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
pet play
3)would you ever explore your limits?
sure
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
not that i can think of
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
showing a girl she has limits after telling me she doesn't have any by making her do the most disgusting thinks, not proud of it.
5a) Anything you've regret?
see above
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
I am guessing both
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Switch but mostly dominant.
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
now that would be embarrassing
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
no, probably not, nopenopenopenopenopenope

Jiggers18 · 05-01-2014, 06:25 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
a couple years now
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
havent really done much irl
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
i dunno like a 4
3)would you ever explore your limits?
only in very select circumstances
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
not really
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
i cant really pinpoint one time
5a) Anything you regret?
not that comes to mine
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
ive mostly done online but would love to get into more real stuff
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
mostly sub, dom in certain situations
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
no
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
no, no, no

Sexdemon · 05-02-2014, 11:20 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
About 8-10 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
online 8-10, RL 1.5yr

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
probably about a 7 or 8

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
N/A but yes

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Yup, at least twice for most things

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Yeah. id like to capture and keep a sub for as long as I want. to have her completely in the dark about everything. and there's no way out for her. id keep her as a sex slave/sub for weeks maybe a month.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
kept a slave tied to a tree, naked and blindfolded all night and made her thought i had left and loads of different people i contacted came along and fucked her. it was all me, but she was clueless, and to this day, still is.

5a) Anything you've regret?
nothing yet

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
real play, all the way. there's a connection, a bond of trust. and it just is far enhanced over normal sex. and just having the power and the tight of a tied nude girl is amazing hehe.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Dominant.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes and i have

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
they know XD

PreciousKitty · 05-19-2014, 02:49 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

since I was 15...

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

both....

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

honestly, near completely inexperienced. so like 3. any masters/mistresses i've had were never serious things. though i really really want to be serious bout it now

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

yes

3)would you ever explore your limits?

limits are limits for reasons

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

i got a couple rape fantasies...pretty much all of mine are at least a bit forced.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

i dunno

5a) Anything you've regret?

nope ^.^

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

in real, harder to fake lol

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

completely submissive

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

maybe

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

only my boyfriend. i would be too shy to tell anyone but i wish they knew/were into it too cause it would be nice to have actual discussions about it lol

BrokenWings · 05-19-2014, 11:17 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
6 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
about a year online, and again 6 in real

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
maybe a 7, id like to do so much more

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Maybe, with the right person

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Futanari orgy, tentacles, maybe a rape fantasy

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Golden shower/piss enema

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not doing enough kink yet

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real life

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Switch

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
I guess... although that would be a weird conversation, "hey there, would you be interested in BDSM? it comes in lots of different flavors"

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
They don't know the details, but the know i'm into some serious stuff

Saddi · 05-19-2014, 11:38 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM First tried it around 5 years ago but only with 1 person seriously. Tried to leave the scene for a long time but I couldn't stay away. It's a part of me.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Online on and off for 5 years. Offline for around 6 months 4.5ish years ago.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced About 5? But I make all the mistakes of someone with no experience.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? NA

3)would you ever explore your limits? Limits are quite fluid and flexible for me. As a lover of the extreme I am not easily scared by tasks. I try to set limits with my Master. He knows what I am capable of more than me.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? I am a little, which is quite taboo for most (although I have no idea why). Perhaps it is the coupling of my dark and twisted side with my little side that makes it taboo.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone The being cut open and bleeding while having sex is the only one I'd admit in the public forum.

5a) Anything you've regret? Plenty. Too much.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real life is by far the best. When I do something submissive for my Master I like to SEE if I have pleased him. Not read it on a message. However life dictates that is not always a possibility and so we make do. I can still do my best from behind a screen for him. But for online play I prefer the tasks be done while we are together and talking to each other. I put the most effort in if he is right there (by voice or typing etc)

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I'd say submissive to unsure.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Only if they are ready for their lives to be completely changed and to give up most things they know and think of themselves. Once you are in BDSM I don't think anything else is ever enough.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? [/QUOTE] My closest friends know stuff. 1 in paticular knows a lot which helps when I need a RL shoulder to cry on.

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04-08-2014, 05:12 PM	#16
unibob Member Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 64	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM I think 5 years now? Yeah, we'll go with that. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? I would say 3 years online, and 2 for real. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced I'd give myself a 3, seeing as I've only tied myself up once in a long while. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? N/A 3)would you ever explore your limits? Probably not. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Meh. My fantasies aren't all that taboo, mostly about being helpless and fucked. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Fucked myself in the ass with a dildo. 5a) Anything you've regret? I regret many things, but not that one. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Online play is much more sexual to me, although I haven't had much success IRL, so I can't say for sure. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Sub all the way! 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? If they asked, probably. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? One of my friends knows, but the others... I kind of want to tell them, but I probably never will. __________________ 18/M/5'10"/170lbs Likes: Feminization, crossdressing, bondage, forced bi, hypnosis, petplay Limits: Pain, scat, messy, public, cbt, atm PM this whore "Hypnoslut" and this whore will listen to a hypnosis file of your choice for however long you want. PM this whore "bondage" and this whore will stay in your choice of bondage for 2 hours. PM this whore "heels" and this whore will dress like a woman for 2 hours.

04-10-2014, 10:45 AM	#17
Pretty_daring_slave Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Posts: 21 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM I've known about BDSM since I was 14 years old. I liked playing the "damsel in distress" when I was a kid and discovered that my pussy tingled when I was tied up. So I googled getting tied up for fun and started reading! 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? I didn't get involved in BDSM online till I was 18. I've had partners that did some mild bondage and spanking but nothing I would consider a full real life relationship. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced I'd put myself between a 6 and 7 because there are lots of real life activities I haven't had the opportunity to try yet. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? 3)would you ever explore your limits? Hell yes! I love having my limits pushed 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Golden showers, scat, enemas, medical, rape fantasy 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Hmm...I just maturated naked in the bathroom at work 5a) Anything you've regret? No. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Submissive 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Maybe to one or two that are more sexually open minded 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? One friend knows that I am interested in bdsm __________________ Likes: Anal, Insertions, Forced Orgasms, Orgasm Control, Self Bondage, Humiliation, Enemas, Medical Play Hard Limits: Family, Public, Pictures, Webcam, Blood, Permanent, Beastiality Toys: small plug, medium plug, large plug, inflatable plug, 7, 9 & 18 inch dildos, hitachi vibrator, clover & alligator style nipple clamps, enema kit.

04-10-2014, 11:32 AM	#19
ChrissyDebra Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Malaysia Posts: 106	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM 15 Years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? 15/15 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 3 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? yes 3)would you ever explore your limits? no 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? bitch / fuck me etc.... 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone poo over my house 5a) Anything you've regret? clear all over the house 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yes 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? no/no/no __________________ Full List of BDSM Like list https://docs.google.com/spreadsheet/...EE&usp=sharing General Extreme: Self-Bondage, Cross-Dress, Like: Role Play, Pet Play Dislike: diaper, anal, Soft Limit: scat, Poo, Pee, Pain, photo/video send to anyone(without face) Hard Limit: Public, photo/video send to anyone(with face), Family, Friend, Student at the Academy of Crossdressing and Sissyhood

04-29-2014, 11:39 PM	#20
YourLittleBitch95 Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: Poland Posts: 20	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM hmmm involved maybe month, interested in couple of years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? online month, real none 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 1,5 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? I'd love to 3)would you ever explore your limits? That's why I'm here for but there are some limits that I want to stay that way 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Plenty of but can't think of anything in particular for now. Maybe golden shower? gangbang? but most of all being bound, helpless and doing what I am toled to 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone oh don't know if I did anything that shocking/dirty/rude to say it 5a) Anything you've regret? Nothing so far 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? So far I've tried only an online play but real experiance must be a lot better 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Submissive 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? So far I'm not a one to recommend anything because I know little about it. But so far I would recommend it for anyone 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? They don't and I have some friends that I may decide to tell but definitely not now and not even in the near future __________________ Female / 18 / bi / slave Love : humiliation, semi-public, pet-play, bondage, cum, blowjob, orgasm control, body writing, pussy/nipple play Like : piss, messy, forced, toothpaste Don't like : public, poo, anal, pain, gags Limits : pic, cam, family and friends, illegal, animals, perm Ask me questions pls!!!! ask.fm/madzik930526 Not looking for a Master at the moment!

04-10-2014, 11:06 AM	#18
marystoy Distinguished Member Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Buying a new dress, shoes and handbag Posts: 650 Blog Entries: 9	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM. About 45 years. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? All 45 real, about 30 online 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced. Maybe a 7. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? Absolutely 3)would you ever explore your limits? I love having my limits pushed. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Having a family member turn me into a full time sissy. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone. Most shocking was crawling through a mall led on a leash dressed only in bra, panties, garter, hose and heels. I had to constantly lick the floor while crawling. 5a) Anything you've regret? Not really. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure. 100% submissive. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? For sure, in the right circumstances. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? They know I like to look fem but that is it.

04-30-2014, 05:02 AM	#21
Ly Ph getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: UK Posts: 347 Blog Entries: 18	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM I am relatively new despite thinking about it for a long time. I would estimate about a month in total. One week and then a few since joining GD. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Entirely online. I tried to get my ex to give it a go but she wanted to sub and I am a very inexperienced dom. Some times I think I should explore a little of my dom side but in all of my fantasy's I am the sub. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced If 1 is no experience then 2 I guess. 3)would you ever explore your limits? It depends on the limit. Some are cast in stone but others are more there because they disgust or endanger me. I would need some one I trusted to do break some of these. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? I used to like the idea of being forced into changing sex but since that's happening any way now its a bit broken. I am not sure this counts as a taboo. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone I guess I am just a little new to this so mine will be the relatively tame act of breaking my no drinking urine limit. 5a) Anything you've regret? Many many things. Some a lot more than others but not to do with BDSM. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? I have only done online play but I wish I could try real life as im sure it would be better. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Sub and I don't think I would make a good dom. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? I don't think I would. I think its up to each individual to decide what they like and if you have looked at BDSM and didn't find the idea attractive you probably are not going enjoy trying it. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? My friends know that I like tattooed alternative woman and that I enjoy watching bondage porn but I have never told them anything about what I get up to. I guess that would just be too much information for most. If they asked I would probably tell them just may be not in great detail. __________________ 32/pre op MtF/lesbian/sub (mostly) Likes/Dislikes/Limits here

04-30-2014, 05:02 AM	#22
Komodo Jones getDare Succubus Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: in your fantasies...it's ok you can admit it Posts: 1,755 Blog Entries: 97	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM I've been involved in BDSM probably close to eight years now. However, to the point where there were actually sessions where stuff in real-time has actually happened, not cybering, that phase of my life, I've been in for about six years. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? All of my BDSM experiences up to this point have been online, so eight years. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced I honestly hate these scale out of 10 questions, because I get paranoid on wondering if I'm selecting the right answer. I'll just say this I'm experienced that much is for sure and I'm pretty confident in my abilities, but I still feel that I have a lot to learn. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? N/A 3)would you ever explore your limits? I think I would, but only some of them. My likes/limits list does have hard limits on them but my hard limits have been separated into pushable hard limits and non-pushable hard limits. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Probably too many to list here. Incest has kind of always been a fantasy of mine, but there's only two cousins I'd ever want to try it with and they're both married so I don't touch that, but ageplay or brother/sister play is fun. I'm also not incredibly sure if you would call this "taboo" but another one of my fantasies is to be owned by a Mistress who would literally whore me out to many clients, male and female, to be used, and of course she would use me herself as well. But that one is purely fantasy. And being the center of a bukkake or a gangbang has always turned me on too. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone I once tasted my own shit...needless to say that is one of my limits. 5a) Anything you've regret? Not really, as I've made mistakes in the past sure but they're all learning experiences, and have contributed to who I am today. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? While I have not experienced offline play in the BDSM realm I can't honestly answer this question. Playing in general though, I prefer both but gravitate towards real play. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I am a switch, but I tend to gravitate towards submission more than dominance. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? No, and the reason for that is because, aside from this site, most of my friends are Christian, growing up in a Christian home. And my volunteer job that I'm in right now would be kind of odd for me to suggest something like that. There's only one friend in real life, not online, that I would suggest that to but we don't have contact enough to establish something like that. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Once again aside from online, my friend population are mostly Christian. I told one of my friends that I was into kinky stuff but it was really awkward trying to explain that to him, so he's the only one though and I don't think he fully grasped of what I'm a part of. Because of the awkward situation and the fact that it could tarnish my reputation with my volunteer job at the moment, I probably would not tell them. Would I like to tell them, in all due honesty yes and no. No because of the whole awkwardness of what I said before along with the job face, but yes in the fact that I wouldn't have to live two separate lives and I could actually live out who I really am. __________________ KJ 38/male/partially bi/switch D/s Status: Protector, Dom and Daddy of pixie.dust I love meeting new, nice, smart people. I communicate through Discord mainly. What are my limits/likes/supplies? Click here! Check Out my Literary Works Targeting the Ignored [Fiction] Some Stuff I've Done (Non-Fiction)

04-30-2014, 10:11 PM	#23
lucky7z Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: In the moment Posts: 193	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM 13 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? online 9-10 years. IRL, experimenting solo 13 yrs, with a partner for 4 yrs 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 7 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? 3)would you ever explore your limits? Certain limits, not those in my signature, but maybe public or bi curious play... 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Done by/to me: jazzing on my own face. Done to someone: my ex had a surprise forced anal fantasy/request, so I surprised her one night waking her up and holding her bend over the bed for rough, no lube anal 5a) Anything you've regret? Being over eager when I was new to online play 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure switch 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yes, and have done so before 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Very few. I would tell certain ones. No one particular i want to tell now that doesn't know already __________________ 31/M/Switch Skype: Lucky7switch Kik: Lucky7switch Likes: Harsh CBT, orgasm control/denial, chastity, bondage, predicament bondage, humiliation, SPH, limit pushing, cam Willing to try anal, crossdressing, semi public Dislikes: public, face pictures Limites: Blood, bodily fluids, illegal, permanent, family, underage Toys: Chastity cage, Kali's Teeth spiked chastity lock, cbt parachute, pinwheel, etc

04-30-2014, 10:57 PM	#24
slave_needs_mistres Junior Member Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 7	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Around 9 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Online for 9 years, real for the last 6 of them 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced I would say 7-8 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? Absolutely 3)would you ever explore your limits? I am already doing it for some of my limits, I like pushing them. Not all of them probably though 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Having my cock marked my one of my previous Mistresses. It was huge amount of pain and those marks will be there forever. Also, taking part in some CFNM parties, both in nightclubs and in house parties. 5a) Anything you've regret? Maybe at first I regretted a bit being marked in the cock; I wasn't that compromised with the idea of having these lines and marks there forever. But I can say that now I am OK with that. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? I like both, however I think I eventually prefer the real one. Online is a good way to start (e.g. with a new Mistress) but real has a better and more intense feeling. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Absolutely submissive, no question about it. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Well, BDSM is not for everyone I think, you need to be able to accept some important lifestyle changes. However, people I know that got involved in the scene (mostly submissive guys) got really helped by that in their life, and it positively changed their personalities. So I would recommend to people trying it if they fell like that. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Not really, there are some who know but those are friends that I've met in the scene (e.g. people that we served together with, or other participants of CFNM parties). I don't think I would ever tell somebody else, unless I wanted to suggest him doing the same.

05-01-2014, 06:00 AM	#25
startermaster Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 182 Blog Entries: 2	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM about 3 years now 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? real life never, online see above 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced uhh 7 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? pet play 3)would you ever explore your limits? sure 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? not that i can think of 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone showing a girl she has limits after telling me she doesn't have any by making her do the most disgusting thinks, not proud of it. 5a) Anything you've regret? see above 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? I am guessing both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch but mostly dominant. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? now that would be embarrassing 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? no, probably not, nopenopenopenopenopenope __________________ M/19/The Netherlands Ask me anything Proud owner of: Space Princess, Marie

05-01-2014, 06:25 AM	#26
Jiggers18 Member Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 30	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM a couple years now 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? havent really done much irl 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced i dunno like a 4 3)would you ever explore your limits? only in very select circumstances 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? not really 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone i cant really pinpoint one time 5a) Anything you regret? not that comes to mine 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? ive mostly done online but would love to get into more real stuff 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure mostly sub, dom in certain situations 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? no 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? no, no, no __________________ loves: chastity, humiliation, pegging, mature, mother likes: bondage, messy, masturbation/edging, mild pain, light anal, limits: public, family, permanent, pee, poo, vomit

05-19-2014, 02:49 PM	#28
PreciousKitty Member Join Date: May 2014 Location: USA Posts: 65 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM since I was 15... 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? both.... 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced honestly, near completely inexperienced. so like 3. any masters/mistresses i've had were never serious things. though i really really want to be serious bout it now 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? yes 3)would you ever explore your limits? limits are limits for reasons 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? i got a couple rape fantasies...pretty much all of mine are at least a bit forced. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone i dunno 5a) Anything you've regret? nope ^.^ 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? in real, harder to fake lol 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure completely submissive 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? maybe 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? only my boyfriend. i would be too shy to tell anyone but i wish they knew/were into it too cause it would be nice to have actual discussions about it lol __________________ 18, Female, Sub, 5'2", 160 lbs LIKES, LIMITS, TOYS, ETC. HERE ----->http://www.getdare.com/bbs/blog.php?b=70667 Do NOT ask me to be your mistress PM me dares any time ;D PM me "WEDGIE" with a dare and I must complete it or accept any punishment Pm me "MAKE A MESS" and a food and I must pour/dump that into my panties

05-19-2014, 11:17 PM	#29
BrokenWings Account Banned Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: In a box, Somewhere near you Posts: 267 Blog Entries: 3	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM 6 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? about a year online, and again 6 in real 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced maybe a 7, id like to do so much more 3)would you ever explore your limits? Maybe, with the right person 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Futanari orgy, tentacles, maybe a rape fantasy 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Golden shower/piss enema 5a) Anything you've regret? Not doing enough kink yet 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real life 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? I guess... although that would be a weird conversation, "hey there, would you be interested in BDSM? it comes in lots of different flavors" 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? They don't know the details, but the know i'm into some serious stuff __________________ 21 / Female / Pansexual / Switch My Likes, limits and "Equipment" Dare Thread AMA Thread Not Started/Unfinished Dares Orgasm Left: 6 Spanks Left at 5% interest Ass: 2984 Tits: 2235 Pussy: 1556 “We don't stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” - George Bernard

05-19-2014, 11:38 PM	#30
Saddi getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Mar 2014 Posts: 257 Blog Entries: 2	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM First tried it around 5 years ago but only with 1 person seriously. Tried to leave the scene for a long time but I couldn't stay away. It's a part of me. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Online on and off for 5 years. Offline for around 6 months 4.5ish years ago. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced About 5? But I make all the mistakes of someone with no experience. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? NA 3)would you ever explore your limits? Limits are quite fluid and flexible for me. As a lover of the extreme I am not easily scared by tasks. I try to set limits with my Master. He knows what I am capable of more than me. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? I am a little, which is quite taboo for most (although I have no idea why). Perhaps it is the coupling of my dark and twisted side with my little side that makes it taboo. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone The being cut open and bleeding while having sex is the only one I'd admit in the public forum. 5a) Anything you've regret? Plenty. Too much. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real life is by far the best. When I do something submissive for my Master I like to SEE if I have pleased him. Not read it on a message. However life dictates that is not always a possibility and so we make do. I can still do my best from behind a screen for him. But for online play I prefer the tasks be done while we are together and talking to each other. I put the most effort in if he is right there (by voice or typing etc) 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I'd say submissive to unsure. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Only if they are ready for their lives to be completely changed and to give up most things they know and think of themselves. Once you are in BDSM I don't think anything else is ever enough. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? [/QUOTE] My closest friends know stuff. 1 in paticular knows a lot which helps when I need a RL shoulder to cry on. __________________ Mumbles is mine.