BDSM truths! (Questions!!)

[SandMguy]

Here's some awesomely nosey questions! Answer with 100% honesty!!!

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
About a month I've been into it for a while though.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
I'd say about three as there's a lot still to try.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
I'd love to be a slave for a beautiful mistress and worship her as she tortures me. Bondage and pegging would be involved.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Probably not unless it was in person with a beautiful harsh mistress.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
I have a fantasy where I get adopted by a milf who would dominate me. She would have beautiful teen daughters who are older than me in the fantasy and she teaches them how to discipline people using me. I end up being like their pet and am used and published for their pleasure.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
I think this was how I got into kink. When I was young thee wee two girls a few years older than me and they were at my house. We were playing hide and seek and they had kept teaming up on me. I was under my duvet and I suddenly got pinned. They pulled me out and held me down. They took it in turns to smother me with their breasts. They took their shoes of and sat on me one with their feet in my mouth and the other kicking me in the balls when I wouldn't suck. They kept swapping places so as they were doing it I tried to escape. They caught me by the waistband and my pants came down exposing my hard cock. They laughed and said it meant I fancied them, which wasn't wrong. They said they would tell if I wasn't their slave and so I kept licking their feet clean as they spanked and teased me. They said only they could touch my cock.
5a) Anything you've regret?

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real life play definitely.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
I'm a bit of a switch but mainly submissive.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
No
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No

[like to be cruel]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
-- over 20 years...

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
-- online: 16 years / real: 12 years

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
-- 9-10

3)would you ever explore your limits?
-- yep..

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
-- toilet slaves... ok here on GD it´s not a taboo its a category

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
-- to someone: eat dog poo!
-- to me: put myself into a chastity belt, let someone hold the key, let users here on GD determine my lock up time..

5a) Anything you've regret?
-- joining my own orgasm denial game! http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthrea...=177907&page=4

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
-- depends on my mood, but real is always better, online can be much fun too!

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
-- yep i am dominant, but sometimes i feel submissive to girls..

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
-- already have! ok he caught me...

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
-- most of them do not know, but if someone finds out, i am just smiling
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[maxblank]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Only two years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Both again, two years

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
3

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Definatley

3)Would you ever explore your limits?
Already starting to, but yes, I would

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Getting fucked by a dog

5)What's the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Been involved in watersports, getting peed on

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not so far

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real life is so much fun, if I find somone I trust

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Sub 100%

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
I would, if i wanted them knowing I was kinky as fuck :P

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No, no, no.

[Mumbles91]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

only for about a year.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

Unfortunately I have never done anything real life. So all online

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

I would say about a 5. Although ive explored a lot of kinks and interests I cant class myself as experienced as ive never done much offline (other than get spanked)

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

3)would you ever explore your limits?

I would say try anything once. but i would only push them with someone i truly trust and feel safe with.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

Not really taboo. not that i can think off. I must be an innocent one

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

The thing that makes me blush the most is when i took a recording of me riding my dildo and sent the clip to someone. Also i edged in a petshop through a cut out pocket.... And got caught.

5a) Anything you've regret?

Getting caught!

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

Never had offline so i cant compare. Online is such a brillaint way to explore when you cant find the opportunity in life.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

Submissive.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

If they were interested in the subject and curious yes.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them
Nearly all of my friends know. especially my housemates. But that was mostly because they were worried about the noises :P I have two friends that are slightly kinky and i tell them all about the things i do.

[HarryJD]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Not too much. Maybe a year, interested like 6 years.
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Online, a year. Real life scares me. o.O
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
Probably like a 2 if I'm being honest as I haven't done too much. I've talked with people a lot, which makes me think I could say 3.
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
I don't know.
3)would you ever explore your limits?
No.
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
I don't think there is anything shocking. I've flipped people off for rude though. =D
5a) Anything you've regret?
Not really.
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Online.
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Dominant, but every once in a blue moon I have submissive fantasies.
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Hahaha, no. I'd too afraid. Maybe if they approached me, but I don't know why they would be.
9) Do your friends know you're into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No, no, and no. My little secret.

[leashbottom]

1)How long have you been involved with BDSM?
All my life, since i was 13

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Never On-line
with my third Master... 13 years

2)How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced.
definitely 10

2a)If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
N/A

3)would you ever explore your limits?
I have and do every day

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
No

5)what's the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone?
I have sucked off over 27 cocks in one session, been gangbanged by 17 in one session, received cum and piss showers by large groups and not allowed to wash for three days

5a)Anything you've regret?
no

6)What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure?
Sub all the way

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes and i have

9)Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
all my friends are in the Life

[DarkSuit]

1) Maybe 2-3 years

1a) Only online, 2-3 years

2) Maybe a 6 or 7

3) Yes

4) Hmm. All kinds really. I'm into anything. Incest I guess?

5) Cum on someone's things without them knowing

7) Dominant or switch

8) No

9) No

[Foxy Rose]

Here's some awesomely nosey questions! Answer with 100% honesty!!!

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

Online just a little over a year now. Real life I've not had any physical involvement BDSM since I've been active. But if I have to think about it really hard, I would say there were always elements of BDSM/bondage in my sexual practices since I started having sex, so around age 18 maybe (11 years).

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

Online - about 1 1/2 years, but closer to two. Real life - about 11 years

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

Online - 5 or 6. Real life - 2 or 3.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

Life would be dull without a little ass spank or panty gag or hair pulling.

3)would you ever explore your limits?

Depends on my partner. Would probably have plenty of communication about it. And safe words is not an option, it's a GIVEN!

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

Mmm, this is really only a fantasy... Having sex with oh gosh, I don't want people to judge me

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

When I was still young and innocent, my brothers and I would always bathe together (that's what siblings do when innocent) and one of them would pee in my mouth. Nope, never liked it, never will... End of story!

5a) Anything you've regret?

The above mentioned. Also the first time I had anal sex... Nope he did not know what he was doing even though it didn't hurt. Not going into details about that one.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

Since I've not had real play with a partner yet (can Skype play be classified as real?) I'd go with online play. But looking forward to my first play session.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

I'm a Switch. Currently exploring my more submissive side. The fun of both worlds

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

Yes even if they only tried it once. They can choose to persuade it or just leave it.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

My best friend know and I believe a lesbian couple friends of mine. Other than that, I would feel too embarrassed at first. If I had a partner who would sit down and have a good talk with my family, I might consider it. But I believe what happens in private, should stay private.

[Kisune Karnon]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Since I was 18

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Since 18

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced Psh, maybe a 3

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? N/A

3)would you ever explore your limits? Maybe, depends

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? No

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Wouldn't even know

5a) Anything you've regret? Nearly killing myself

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Yes

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Only a select few

[BrokenWings]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
3 or 4 years, but the first year was, well a slow start as we were both young.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Online has only been for about 10 months, real life was 3 to 4 years.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
Probably a 6 or 7, there is still so much to do, so much to learn.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Most definitely, but with someone i absolutely trust.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
I think would like to "Peg" a guy, but, that's not entirely taboo for this site, it's just more outside my usual than normal.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone?
Well... i have killed a dog with my bike... it was an accident, i was coming out a trail really fast, and the dog just jumped out... poor doggy...
But to someone, i dunno... i've broken someones arm and nose in the same fight...

5a) Anything you've regret?
Nope... well, not really.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real life play

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure?
Switch

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Yes, most definitely.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
I think they probably suspect, but i have never told them. I would probably just let it come up naturally, or have one of them catch me in the act, it's more fun that way then telling them.

[verdzene]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM - appr. 15 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?- online- 15 years, real 4 years

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced - on some 3?

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? - most certainly although i have some

3)would you ever explore your limits? - yes

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?- everything criminal and illegal. Also animals, WC games

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone- can't think of one

5a) Anything you've regret?- not yet

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?- both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure- certainly sub!

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? - depends on friend

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? - some of them knows...

[thenewslave]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
about 1 year in reallife

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
can't remember, started watching bdsm porn some years ago

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
2

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
yes
3)would you ever explore your limits?
yes
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
rape, scat, lots of weird fetishes
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
a scat dare, having a picture of my sister in my fapfolder (which she found)
5a) Anything you've regret?
the thing with my sister
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
both
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
switch/unsure
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
theoretically yes (but wouldnt want them to find out about me liking it)
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
no, i thought about telling them. Also i sometimes make remarks which they think are a joke (but are actually true)

[natlie31]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Since I was 15 now I am 19 so about 4 years.

1a) How long for If online?4 years How long for if in real?Never although I have kind of got spanked almost in real life although it had to stop early parents came home.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 5.0 because I know the online aspects of being submissive but not really in person.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?Yes

3)would you ever explore your limits? Probably not

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? not sure.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone been naked in a car on the mountain with a guy and giving him head and having to get rescued because he got his car stuck and everyone had to know the story than. It was rather embarrassing.

5a) Anything you've regret? Nothing

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?I only really know online play.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Submissive all the way
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? No because I don't talk to friends about it.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?Some know others not so much.. like maybe one friend if any.
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[Odressian]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
For around 5 years.
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
2 years online, 5 months in real life.
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
6
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Being a pet
3)would you ever explore your limits?
Yes
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
None
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Go into a strip club and ask if I could dance while fully crossdressed.
5a) Anything you've regret?
No
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real play
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Sub
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
No
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Some do.

[boi4sex298]

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
5 years
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
5 years for real, 3 for both
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
8
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
n/a
3)would you ever explore your limits?
yes
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
none
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
been gangfucked by 5 men in a public toilet
5a) Anything you've regret?
no
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
real play
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
submissive
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
no