Would you still like me? - Page 2

MasterMichaelNY · 01-07-2017, 12:30 AM

I wouldn't mind, why we are not perfect, people collect scars and as you pointed out, they all have a story, kind of like when you look at a person, and you see the scars, your reading a book.

BUT, it's really isn't about what I think, but it is what you think, that's important, and how you perceive yourself, that going to need a little work. I knew one girl, that scared up her entire left leg, and you know what she told me. She said the accident was a message from God, the message was, to be humble. Think about it.

pranadevil · 01-11-2017, 04:25 PM

While I can't say exactly how I would think on initially seeing the marks , what I can say is absolutely anyone who matters in life won't get hung up on them. Friends should be liking you for who you are anyway, and what does it matter what marks you have as long as you're fun to be around? That's all I care about with my friends. If I like spending time with them, that's it.

As far as anyone who would be interested in being with you, if the marks are an issue, I would say you didn't need that person in the first place as the important bit of a relationship should be whether you get on with the person, and whether you have things in common and want each others company often. The nakedness and the sex stuff comes secondary to all that in all honesty as far and wide, the majority of people will spend more time clothed and just talking, or doing other stuff (movies, games, shopping, arguing about the toilet seat...) than anything that requires removing clothing, thus is the marks somehow matter, that person wasn't caring about you as a person anyway.

In short. Don't worry about how others will see you. Those that actually matter and are decent won't even care in the first place as it won't define who you are. Therefore, don't let it define you, be who you've always been, and remember you're better than anyone who has an issue with it.

iSpuds · 01-11-2017, 04:45 PM

I don't know you and if I had met you without reading your story, I would probably ask you about your scars. But, then, I like to think we'd have a laugh about how clumsy your friend was, and not get hung up on it. Something like that wouldn't affect how I'd see you as a person, and if you're as nice as you seem at first glance, then yes, I would still like you.

Doux et vivant · 01-12-2017, 09:41 AM

A scar is just a thing. I have many, from surviving accidents to "hopefully" surviving cancer. I think you should remember it's more important what you think about yourself.

D4r3S7uT · 01-12-2017, 09:49 AM

I agree that I wouldn't care either, except I may try to be a bit more careful if you were in a lab with me so it didn't happen to you again. Let your scars become the symbol of your compassion. Then you may be able to move on a little easier.

Cherry77 · 01-12-2017, 10:10 AM

I am so sorry that that happened to you! You are beautiful, no matter the scars. Scars do NOT define you, and they do NOT diminish your worth as a human being. I hope that you are able to find peace with them, eventually. I think that counseling would be a great thing for you to try, to help come to terms with your new vision of yourself.

HUGS to you! Stay strong and remember...you are BEAUTIFUL...no matter what!

Take care!

I'm here if you ever need a friend

01-07-2017, 12:30 AM	#16
MasterMichaelNY Account Banned Join Date: Jan 2016 Location: Port St. Lucie, FL Posts: 3,327 Blog Entries: 20	I wouldn't mind, why we are not perfect, people collect scars and as you pointed out, they all have a story, kind of like when you look at a person, and you see the scars, your reading a book. BUT, it's really isn't about what I think, but it is what you think, that's important, and how you perceive yourself, that going to need a little work. I knew one girl, that scared up her entire left leg, and you know what she told me. She said the accident was a message from God, the message was, to be humble. Think about it. __________________ They say, there will be a special place in hell for me. That's right. I'll be constructing the new rides Kik, MasterMichaelNY Email, [email protected]

01-11-2017, 04:25 PM	#17
pranadevil Distinguished Member Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: UK Posts: 721 Blog Entries: 8	While I can't say exactly how I would think on initially seeing the marks , what I can say is absolutely anyone who matters in life won't get hung up on them. Friends should be liking you for who you are anyway, and what does it matter what marks you have as long as you're fun to be around? That's all I care about with my friends. If I like spending time with them, that's it. As far as anyone who would be interested in being with you, if the marks are an issue, I would say you didn't need that person in the first place as the important bit of a relationship should be whether you get on with the person, and whether you have things in common and want each others company often. The nakedness and the sex stuff comes secondary to all that in all honesty as far and wide, the majority of people will spend more time clothed and just talking, or doing other stuff (movies, games, shopping, arguing about the toilet seat...) than anything that requires removing clothing, thus is the marks somehow matter, that person wasn't caring about you as a person anyway. In short. Don't worry about how others will see you. Those that actually matter and are decent won't even care in the first place as it won't define who you are. Therefore, don't let it define you, be who you've always been, and remember you're better than anyone who has an issue with it. __________________ M / 39 / UK Sadist Likes: Pain, humiliation, bondage, control, suffering Limits: Illegal activities (underage, bestiality etc.) Full Day Of Control Dare Song Contest Thread Kik is broken Skype - live:thecruelmaster82

01-11-2017, 04:45 PM	#18
iSpuds Starchy Sadist Join Date: Nov 2011 Posts: 921 Blog Entries: 43	I don't know you and if I had met you without reading your story, I would probably ask you about your scars. But, then, I like to think we'd have a laugh about how clumsy your friend was, and not get hung up on it. Something like that wouldn't affect how I'd see you as a person, and if you're as nice as you seem at first glance, then yes, I would still like you. __________________ No, I do not want to be your Mistress. No, I do not want to be your slave. So don't PM me about it! Likes, Limits, and Fantasies (click) A Domme with a Monkey. The Monkey, the Potato, and the Book of Truth (AMA) My PM Dares are Offline. I don't participate in unsolicited PM dares, so don't ask. "iSpuds used to be an onion before she realized that she wanted a simpler, layer free life. Gordon Ramsey himself agreed to perform the surgery, but when Nigella Lawson walked in during the middle of the procedure with a bottle of scotch, things went awry. Waking up as an iOS kernel trapped in a potato's body, iSpuds successfully sued the Food Channel for 13 quintillion Zimbabwe Shillings, and now lives in an exclusive, nano-sliver coated vegetable crisper." *-Runesmith* "On a scale of 1-10, what's your favorite color of the Alphabet?" "Prismarine!"

01-12-2017, 09:49 AM	#20
D4r3S7uT getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: varies a fair bit Posts: 300 Blog Entries: 1	I agree that I wouldn't care either, except I may try to be a bit more careful if you were in a lab with me so it didn't happen to you again. Let your scars become the symbol of your compassion. Then you may be able to move on a little easier. __________________ Likes: Nude tasks, underwear, Snapchat, stripping, pictures without face Limits: family, public, pain, permanent, messy, long, chastity, pee

01-12-2017, 10:10 AM	#21
Cherry77 Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Posts: 43 Blog Entries: 3	You are beautiful! I am so sorry that that happened to you! You are beautiful, no matter the scars. Scars do NOT define you, and they do NOT diminish your worth as a human being. I hope that you are able to find peace with them, eventually. I think that counseling would be a great thing for you to try, to help come to terms with your new vision of yourself. HUGS to you! Stay strong and remember...you are BEAUTIFUL...no matter what! Take care! I'm here if you ever need a friend

01-12-2017, 09:41 AM	#19
Doux et vivant getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2017 Posts: 281 Blog Entries: 2	A scar is just a thing. I have many, from surviving accidents to "hopefully" surviving cancer. I think you should remember it's more important what you think about yourself.