04-18-2016, 02:49 PM | #16 |
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I agree with alligator 365 Gd is a great site to talk to people about different kinks.
people being harassed by pm for dares(seems to be mainly girls being harassed) shouldn't really happen. the site is set up so that if you want to receive dares there is a section to ask for them same goes for giving them. I can see how it would piss people off getting random messages from people they haven't even spoken to before. great thread to read just thought id add my opinion.
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04-18-2016, 11:09 PM | #17 | |
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I can understand that it soemtimes can be hard if you are new here to get in touch with others and that can be frustrating but that still don't give anybode the right to be offensive. But in the real world you also wouldn't ask a stranger to immediately start any kind of bdsm play with you. I really made the experience that the most contacts evolve from more or less completely bdsm-free conversations. PS: I know I violated a rule but I think it's not really appropriate to be applied in this thread. |
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04-19-2016, 12:03 AM | #18 |
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I can vouch for how bad some pm's girl's get are, as Sam sometimes shows me some of hers. (she doesn't tell me who the sender was) I seriously can't believe some of them! They would make me very angry, and then there other's who won't take no for an answer. She says she try's to respond to all her pm's, I don't think I'd have the patience!
I know there are very few openly dom girls, so she is going to get a lot of attention, but it's no excuse for some of the pm's she gets. Considering that those contacting her are meant to be submissive, they can be very demanding! Don't get me wrong, I know I'm hopeless at talking to girls lol, (being very shy, submissive and having asperger's syndrome don't help!) but I'd never dream of sending PM's to girls asking for pics, asking to be her slave, asking for dares etc.. straight away. (I still don't know how I did end up being with Sam lol more by luck than any skill in taking to girls!) In the past I have probably been guilty of sending girls PM dares without really thinking about it, so I do try not to do that any more.
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04-19-2016, 07:41 AM | #19 |
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Just an other thougth: itshould not be "too" well known how to talk with girls because that will lower my changes.
And i actually wonder: Sure i think some guys will read this thread and learn something. But those were maybe the guys who were not perfect but at least manageble. However, will the real jerks read this and appreciate? I mean, If someone sends a pm without even reading a profile. Would he take the time to read this full thread? ----->> nevertheless i really appreciate this thread. |
04-19-2016, 08:53 AM | #20 | |
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04-19-2016, 12:14 PM | #21 | |
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Thank you for your input Matt!
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04-19-2016, 12:17 PM | #22 | |
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I also like seeing the guys opinions so please keep it coming. I am glad this thread has been taken seriously and used to start a conversation that needs to be had.
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04-19-2016, 12:18 PM | #23 | |
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04-19-2016, 12:30 PM | #24 | |
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04-19-2016, 01:33 PM | #25 |
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I also think this would be a great place for people that join the site. Kind of like get the lay of the land before going off and just spamming pm's and bugging everyone. Think if you going get any luck talking done you should be somewhat active in a few threads that interest you. Maybe a post you made caught someone attention.
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04-19-2016, 02:20 PM | #26 |
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Basically, treat women like people, not objects (at least at first, if they are into that it's different of course. But noone really wants that from a stranger, off the bat, if they want a real long term relationship).
Also, regardless of gender, it's typically smart to make sure you get along personality, kink, availability, and goal wise before starting a relationship. If your kinks don't line up, you hate each other's personality, or you aren't online at the same time, then it's kind of hard to imagine it working out. If you don't read a person's profile or advertisement, you won't be able to know that information about them. So basically, people just don't think things out before messaging. No surprise, they are likely getting off to the thought of the things they are writing or reading, and not ACTUALLY considering it as a real possibility or a real long term plan/relationship. |
04-24-2016, 12:01 AM | #27 |
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Hi,
Sorry, a male again , but it also gives a bump. Just as happened today. Getting a random pm from a girl asking for punish. I always try to properly answer. She is a newby, 0 posts, no profile description, just saying "female". No likes, dislikes, limits. Having had experience that 9 out of 10 just sending a punish ends in silence i decided to do different this time. Did not send a punish, just the whole explanation as here. Just saying i cannot send a proper punish like this (its true, what should i send? Spanking? Bondage? Denial? Quite different i would say). On the other hand i must say, i'm the really very proud owner of a slave currently. And that one started with such random post (live is weird) Last edited by sir stefan; 04-24-2016 at 12:03 AM. |
04-24-2016, 01:43 PM | #28 | |
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04-24-2016, 01:54 PM | #29 | |
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I try to work on that.
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04-29-2016, 03:28 PM | #30 | |
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Let me give you an update (and bump the thread) I guess non-surprising. So after replying really nice. After replying with real clear human interest. All i get back is nothing. Zil, silence, zero. Naah, i keep answering these random pm. Sometimes something nice comes from it ( as said, i'm having a real nice strongly bond slave now that started with such a random pm) |
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