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Old 08-19-2023, 08:41 PM   #1
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I’m curious to know what kind of online tasks are considered reasonable for a beginner sub/slave with no experience. Something to introduce into bdsm without resulting too abusive and start explore some kinks.
I usually set some basic rules and then proceed to slave body inspection or some slave positions training.
What about you?
Subs also I’d like to know the first few tasks you have been assigned.
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Old 08-19-2023, 08:57 PM   #2
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I’m curious to know what kind of online tasks are considered reasonable for a beginner sub/slave with no experience. Something to introduce into bdsm without resulting too abusive and start explore some kinks.
I usually set some basic rules and then proceed to slave body inspection or some slave positions training.
What about you?
Subs also I’d like to know the first few tasks you have been assigned.
First step is discussion about his /her likes and limits

Ask them to pick one out of it ,say spanking, give short 10 15 spanks ask them how it was. Then proceed to other say bondage, tie their hands behind back, then if they say spanking while this is okay so that

Similarly with other kinks
First make them aware of what is happening,give a little trial then you can introduce more slowly
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Old 08-19-2023, 09:15 PM   #3
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My very very first session didn't go well before finding my first Dom. This person didn't really try to understand where I'm at and required of me things I wasn't ready to do and things I didn't properly understand as well, I only vaguely remember it, it feels like a bad dream. Now I was new and didn't have a list of limits and whatnot, but as the experienced one of the two, they didn't ask.

After that they completely disappeared leaving my msg unread on kik, where I was left with the impression that we had agreed on some sort of a commitment, still unclear for how long but it was like... I'll be ordering you around, not just tonight, but like something longer, but then nothing. I had just joined the site and they were the one who slid in my DMs to propose this arrangement, I didn't ask for nothing. Maybe real life happened or who knows, anyway.

My first task from my first long term Dom so to speak was to stuff my pussy with thongs, which I failed to do no matter how hard I tried. It was also not a very good start. This would come to be a very memorable DS so it's not such a big deal if the first moments shared are not perfect, as long as the intentions are in the right place, it's a phase of discovering and adjusting for everyone involved.

Other tasks that came in my first two weeks once I was settled in a comfortable DS included : spanking (ass, pussy, tits), melted wax on tits, abrasive texture on clit and nipples, exposure games involving GD and kik. It was very slowly introduced and I didn't feel things were out of place or too much, except for pussy impact play, but I think that would have been hard no matter when or how, it's just a hard dislike for me.
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Old 08-20-2023, 02:36 AM   #4
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After adding likes, limits and PM dares it depends on how extreme is the sub. As far as i remember, i was instantly doing rather "hard" dares
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