If your kinky, do you only date people with similar fetishes?

subguy4 · 08-12-2011, 10:23 AM

Ive been wondering this for a long time, If you are kinky when it comes to sex and enjoy BDSM and whatnot, would you only date someone that shares similar interests as you in the subject? I am a submissive male and i find it hard to date someone who would not be a dominant female because I dont think I would enjoy a vanilla relationship anymore.

Rawrz12210 · 08-12-2011, 10:56 AM

I think I could cause if you really want to be in a relationship with someone, The sexual part shouldn't matter. Sex isn't necessary.

florida87x · 08-12-2011, 10:59 AM

I've never bothered to figure out what someone was into sexually before I started dating them.

That said, for some reason, I've only dated masochists.

Caprielle · 08-12-2011, 11:42 AM

To be honest, who doesn't love sex? I mean, I do love it as well! But the issue here is, love & relationship. So technically speaking, if I am to love someone, I'll work to give him/her what he/she wants. Be if sex, BDSM or what not. It doesn't matter because we're working on this relationship. On the contrary, if my partner really loves me, he/she will also work to give me what I want.

It's never perfect in life, but as long as we try really hard, it's all good. And to conclude, similar fetishes doesn't matter. It just ease things up a little only.

08-12-2011, 10:23 AM	#1
subguy4 Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2011 Posts: 233 Blog Entries: 3	If your kinky, do you only date people with similar fetishes? Ive been wondering this for a long time, If you are kinky when it comes to sex and enjoy BDSM and whatnot, would you only date someone that shares similar interests as you in the subject? I am a submissive male and i find it hard to date someone who would not be a dominant female because I dont think I would enjoy a vanilla relationship anymore. __________________ Limits: Piss, Scat, Illegal, Permanent, Blood, Cutting/Needles, Beastiality, Social Suicide. Likes: Chastity, Anal, Extended Plug wear, Dildos, Pegging, bondage, sensory deprivation, hoods, gags, nipple clamps, pain, dehumanization, objectification. Toys: Njoy XXL, XXL Glass plug, Large two bubble glass plug, medium sized glass plug, 8 inch dildo, sensory dep hood, ball gag, spider gag, bit gag, ball gag head harness, hitachi, clothespins. Toys

08-12-2011, 10:56 AM	#2
Rawrz12210 Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2011 Posts: 71 Blog Entries: 1	I think I could cause if you really want to be in a relationship with someone, The sexual part shouldn't matter. Sex isn't necessary.

08-12-2011, 10:59 AM	#3
florida87x Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 121	I've never bothered to figure out what someone was into sexually before I started dating them. That said, for some reason, I've only dated masochists.

08-12-2011, 11:42 AM	#4
Caprielle Member Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Somewhere fantastic! Posts: 71 Blog Entries: 1	To be honest, who doesn't love sex? I mean, I do love it as well! But the issue here is, love & relationship. So technically speaking, if I am to love someone, I'll work to give him/her what he/she wants. Be if sex, BDSM or what not. It doesn't matter because we're working on this relationship. On the contrary, if my partner really loves me, he/she will also work to give me what I want. It's never perfect in life, but as long as we try really hard, it's all good. And to conclude, similar fetishes doesn't matter. It just ease things up a little only.