Girlfriend becoming mistress

21geordie · 08-14-2018, 01:12 PM

Want to know peoples opinion on this and if I’m seen as pathetic to gf.
And if it turns me on makes me completely sub.
My gf recently put me in chastity.
She has also started edging me days at a time and not letting me cum.
Most amount of days so far is six days.
Last weekend we had a party and went to bed together at end of night.
She tied me to bed and blindfolded me.
She then got out her black dildo and fucked herself with it right next to me.
She slid anal beads up ger perfect ass and also used a wand on her to clit vibrating powerfully to cum while I lay there and couldn’t do anything.
Once she had cum twice she edged me for hours before untying me and telling me to sleep.
Does she see me as pathetic?
Does she now own me?
Is she fantasising about others?
We are partying again this weekend. I am hoping the same thing happens or if not even more. Maybe ties me up to bed again.
Spits it my mouth
Plays with my tits
Uses toys on herself to cum and makes me lick them clean.
Grab my tied up hand and stick 4 fingers in her pussy at same time and thumb up her perfect ass and bounces on them telling me this is only way I could ever fill her and that I’m tiny that’s why I’m in cage.
Then edges me.
Is this weird?
Is this fantasy?
Do I want to be her slave? Or cuck?
Or is it just hot?

SimonSays22 · 08-14-2018, 01:31 PM

Honey, these are all questions that you need to be asking her and yourself.

Other then that, it seems that you have one hell of a perfect situation that half of the people on this site would kill for :-) consider yourself lucky.

Also, that was all so hot. You should tottally post what she does reguarly! :-P

21geordie · 08-14-2018, 01:36 PM

Well the first part as stated is what she did last weekend. She is coming over tomorrow and says she wants to cum at least three times. And we are definitely having sex. But just because we are having sex dies not mean I can cum. Said it definitely not allowed to on Wednesday.

Then we are partying on Friday so could be similar to last time. She says she isn’t kinky but now has started saying I’m not getting to cum or she’s punishing me so she’s definitely getting into it more I think and taking more control

Consensus · 08-14-2018, 01:46 PM

I cant offer many answers to your questions. Nor can I promise anything I have to say will be helpful.

But I have some thoughts that, if you wish, I shall share.

First of all: is it weird? Yes. Are you okay with that? That's the real question. When it comes to sex and sexuality pretty much everything is weird in some way or other, the real question is if you are happy with that level of weird or not. If you're happy with it and she is happy with it: win-win.

Secondly: talk to her, properly, about it. Set whatever boundaries you wish and let the chips fall where they may. It may be that the talk ends things. It may be that it opens up a vista of wonderfulness and sexuality that you can both share. It may be a beginning, or an end. It may be brief, or long.

But have that talk.

Be clear. Write things down. Take your time. But have the talk. And, whatever, abide by what you agree - include 'get out' clauses and the option for both of you to walk away for any reason.

Talk. Discuss. Agree. Give enthusiastic and clear consent to whatever you wish to do so but don't feel pressured into doing things you don't want to do. Be respectful and do the same for her.

Best of luck!

21geordie · 08-14-2018, 01:52 PM

how is it weird?
I love it to be honest. I’m submissive but she never really knew
She has taken more control recently.
I am kinky and up for anything.
She normally isn’t but last few times has clearly been different and she likes that when she says something I listen or I do what I say

I wouldn’t talk about it. Would make it weird and stop and think it’s because it’s on a whim that it’s happened.

How far do you think it would go?

The kinkier the better for me

FolDae · 08-14-2018, 11:25 PM

If you both never talk about boundaries and feelings, someone will get hurt sooner or later. And that may be a definite ending to a nicely developing kink. I understand it can be weird to talk about it, but it is something you have to learn to do, and to do it regularly. Otherwise you will get confusions, wrong expectations, and probably hurt.

21geordie · 08-16-2018, 09:07 AM

As somebody said I should post updates here we go:
Yesterday gf came over and unlocked me from chastity.
She made me go down on her. Teased her clit with my tongue and fingered her until she cum.
I kept going licking her clit and fingering her. Then put her wand on her vibrating away until she was about to cum again. Just as she was about to she said “daddy please fuck me”.
So I kept the wand on her and fucked her hard and fast til she cum again.
I kept going but had to go slow and deep as she said I wasn’t allowed to cum. I kept going until she had her 3rd orgasm in a row.
I then went back down on her and licked up her juices and kept eating her pussy til she cum a 4th time.
I asked if she wanted me to stop and she said no.
I kept going and slid my finger into her and she cum 5th time in less than 10 seconds as was so sensitive.
She then began to edge me
I would say at least 30 - 50 times with her hand.
Then got on top of me and was riding me. Anytime I was about to cum she stopped.
She then made me get on top and fuck her.
I could only go for three seconds at a time as was so close to cumming.
She finally told me to get off her and edged me another 20 times at least then turned over and said now go to sleep.
Locked me back in chastity cage in morning.
I will see her again everyday over weekend.
She has already told me I have zero chance cumming this weekend

cbtslave999 · 08-16-2018, 09:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by 21geordie

As somebody said I should post updates here we go:
Yesterday gf came over and unlocked me from chastity.
She made me go down on her. Teased her clit with my tongue and fingered her until she cum.
I kept going licking her clit and fingering her. Then put her wand on her vibrating away until she was about to cum again. Just as she was about to she said “daddy please fuck me”.
So I kept the wand on her and fucked her hard and fast til she cum again.
I kept going but had to go slow and deep as she said I wasn’t allowed to cum. I kept going until she had her 3rd orgasm in a row.
I then went back down on her and licked up her juices and kept eating her pussy til she cum a 4th time.
I asked if she wanted me to stop and she said no.
I kept going and slid my finger into her and she cum 5th time in less than 10 seconds as was so sensitive.
She then began to edge me
I would say at least 30 - 50 times with her hand.
Then got on top of me and was riding me. Anytime I was about to cum she stopped.
She then made me get on top and fuck her.
I could only go for three seconds at a time as was so close to cumming.
She finally told me to get off her and edged me another 20 times at least then turned over and said now go to sleep.
Locked me back in chastity cage in morning.
I will see her again everyday over weekend.
She has already told me I have zero chance cumming this weekend

Sounds like a great weekend. I would love to be in that position.

08-14-2018, 01:12 PM	#1
21geordie getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 250 Blog Entries: 2	Girlfriend becoming mistress Want to know peoples opinion on this and if I’m seen as pathetic to gf. And if it turns me on makes me completely sub. My gf recently put me in chastity. She has also started edging me days at a time and not letting me cum. Most amount of days so far is six days. Last weekend we had a party and went to bed together at end of night. She tied me to bed and blindfolded me. She then got out her black dildo and fucked herself with it right next to me. She slid anal beads up ger perfect ass and also used a wand on her to clit vibrating powerfully to cum while I lay there and couldn’t do anything. Once she had cum twice she edged me for hours before untying me and telling me to sleep. Does she see me as pathetic? Does she now own me? Is she fantasising about others? We are partying again this weekend. I am hoping the same thing happens or if not even more. Maybe ties me up to bed again. Spits it my mouth Plays with my tits Uses toys on herself to cum and makes me lick them clean. Grab my tied up hand and stick 4 fingers in her pussy at same time and thumb up her perfect ass and bounces on them telling me this is only way I could ever fill her and that I’m tiny that’s why I’m in cage. Then edges me. Is this weird? Is this fantasy? Do I want to be her slave? Or cuck? Or is it just hot? __________________ 27 wannabe Sissy Faggot Likes. Crossdressing, humiliation denial, bondage, semi public, pee, cum eating, deepthroating, cocksucking, humiliation, pantyhose, Dislikes. Extreme Pain, Pussy, straight porn scat, complete public Limits. Blood, family, animals, scarring] [COLOR="Magenta"] Last edited by 21geordie; 08-14-2018 at 01:17 PM.

08-14-2018, 01:36 PM	#3
21geordie getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 250 Blog Entries: 2	Well the first part as stated is what she did last weekend. She is coming over tomorrow and says she wants to cum at least three times. And we are definitely having sex. But just because we are having sex dies not mean I can cum. Said it definitely not allowed to on Wednesday. Then we are partying on Friday so could be similar to last time. She says she isn’t kinky but now has started saying I’m not getting to cum or she’s punishing me so she’s definitely getting into it more I think and taking more control __________________ 27 wannabe Sissy Faggot Likes. Crossdressing, humiliation denial, bondage, semi public, pee, cum eating, deepthroating, cocksucking, humiliation, pantyhose, Dislikes. Extreme Pain, Pussy, straight porn scat, complete public Limits. Blood, family, animals, scarring] [COLOR="Magenta"]

08-14-2018, 01:46 PM	#4
Consensus Distinguished Member Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: In a house alone Posts: 643 Blog Entries: 48	I cant offer many answers to your questions. Nor can I promise anything I have to say will be helpful. But I have some thoughts that, if you wish, I shall share. First of all: is it weird? Yes. Are you okay with that? That's the real question. When it comes to sex and sexuality pretty much everything is weird in some way or other, the real question is if you are happy with that level of weird or not. If you're happy with it and she is happy with it: win-win. Secondly: talk to her, properly, about it. Set whatever boundaries you wish and let the chips fall where they may. It may be that the talk ends things. It may be that it opens up a vista of wonderfulness and sexuality that you can both share. It may be a beginning, or an end. It may be brief, or long. But have that talk. Be clear. Write things down. Take your time. But have the talk. And, whatever, abide by what you agree - include 'get out' clauses and the option for both of you to walk away for any reason. Talk. Discuss. Agree. Give enthusiastic and clear consent to whatever you wish to do so but don't feel pressured into doing things you don't want to do. Be respectful and do the same for her. Best of luck! __________________ Clothing / Preferences // PM Dares // Team-Up Calendar (please add) // Chastity // Femdom IRL old/transwoman/attracted to Females & Femininity/shaved pubes, legs and armpits And that's all she has to say about that.

08-14-2018, 01:52 PM	#5
21geordie getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 250 Blog Entries: 2	how is it weird? I love it to be honest. I’m submissive but she never really knew She has taken more control recently. I am kinky and up for anything. She normally isn’t but last few times has clearly been different and she likes that when she says something I listen or I do what I say I wouldn’t talk about it. Would make it weird and stop and think it’s because it’s on a whim that it’s happened. How far do you think it would go? The kinkier the better for me __________________ 27 wannabe Sissy Faggot Likes. Crossdressing, humiliation denial, bondage, semi public, pee, cum eating, deepthroating, cocksucking, humiliation, pantyhose, Dislikes. Extreme Pain, Pussy, straight porn scat, complete public Limits. Blood, family, animals, scarring] [COLOR="Magenta"]

08-14-2018, 11:25 PM	#6
FolDae Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2017 Location: Netherlands Posts: 175 Blog Entries: 7	If you both never talk about boundaries and feelings, someone will get hurt sooner or later. And that may be a definite ending to a nicely developing kink. I understand it can be weird to talk about it, but it is something you have to learn to do, and to do it regularly. Otherwise you will get confusions, wrong expectations, and probably hurt. __________________ 31/m/heteroflexible/switch PM dares Toys To-Do List BDSMtest My Rules AMA Teamup Calendar KIK: Foldae Loves: bondage, edging, teasing, Likes/Limits here

08-14-2018, 01:31 PM	#2
SimonSays22 Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2017 Posts: 129	Honey, these are all questions that you need to be asking her and yourself. Other then that, it seems that you have one hell of a perfect situation that half of the people on this site would kill for :-) consider yourself lucky. Also, that was all so hot. You should tottally post what she does reguarly! :-P

08-16-2018, 09:07 AM	#7
21geordie getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2012 Posts: 250 Blog Entries: 2	As somebody said I should post updates here we go: Yesterday gf came over and unlocked me from chastity. She made me go down on her. Teased her clit with my tongue and fingered her until she cum. I kept going licking her clit and fingering her. Then put her wand on her vibrating away until she was about to cum again. Just as she was about to she said “daddy please fuck me”. So I kept the wand on her and fucked her hard and fast til she cum again. I kept going but had to go slow and deep as she said I wasn’t allowed to cum. I kept going until she had her 3rd orgasm in a row. I then went back down on her and licked up her juices and kept eating her pussy til she cum a 4th time. I asked if she wanted me to stop and she said no. I kept going and slid my finger into her and she cum 5th time in less than 10 seconds as was so sensitive. She then began to edge me I would say at least 30 - 50 times with her hand. Then got on top of me and was riding me. Anytime I was about to cum she stopped. She then made me get on top and fuck her. I could only go for three seconds at a time as was so close to cumming. She finally told me to get off her and edged me another 20 times at least then turned over and said now go to sleep. Locked me back in chastity cage in morning. I will see her again everyday over weekend. She has already told me I have zero chance cumming this weekend __________________ 27 wannabe Sissy Faggot Likes. Crossdressing, humiliation denial, bondage, semi public, pee, cum eating, deepthroating, cocksucking, humiliation, pantyhose, Dislikes. Extreme Pain, Pussy, straight porn scat, complete public Limits. Blood, family, animals, scarring] [COLOR="Magenta"]