21/F secret dares whilst with my partner

XOpleaseme · 06-02-2017, 08:31 AM

So.. I'm meeting up with my boyfriend later this evening and I would like some secret dares I could complete whilst I'm with him. He's usually the dominant one so I want to try and reverse the role. I don't tend to go down on him much so maybe that could be a start?

I would love a few dares to get myself on edge beforehand (which could include pain/pleasure). I would like edges to be involved if possible!
I'd appreciate instructions for both my time alone and time with my partner. (I am into pain/pleasure masturbation but not sex)

Thanks in advance

ElisabethC7399 · 06-02-2017, 08:53 AM

hello there

so first, as you said that you like both pain and pleasure, edge yourself twice for me ^^ the second one with tooth brush and then get some toothpaste on it and make yourself cum with overstimulatiom for 2min.

After that, wait another 3min before washing yourself.

just before your time with bf you sure gotta clean your ass and prepare pussy, so get a dildo, cucumber or even a carrot and fuck your ass while edging. Edge at least 3times, no cumming. when with him, hump his leg ^^

herpderp42 · 06-02-2017, 09:06 AM

So I am a bit confused; you want to domme him in a sneaky way so to speak?
That´s how I understood your original post at least but the reply confused me now^^

temp_igen · 06-02-2017, 09:10 AM

So you haven't had an orgasm since january? Is that something you're open to having or are you in denial?

XOpleaseme · 06-02-2017, 09:15 AM

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Originally Posted by herpderp42

So I am a bit confused; you want to domme him in a sneaky way so to speak?
That´s how I understood your original post at least but the reply confused me now^^

Basically. It's just not very 'me' and want help to change it

XOpleaseme · 06-02-2017, 09:16 AM

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Originally Posted by temp_igen

So you haven't had an orgasm since january? Is that something you're open to having or are you in denial?

I haven't been on this account for a while so I hadn't taken that off my signature sorry. I'm open to suggestions

temp_igen · 06-02-2017, 09:18 AM

great! do you have any toys?

XOpleaseme · 06-02-2017, 09:24 AM

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Originally Posted by temp_igen

great! do you have any toys?

Yes I have a few toys but mainly for myself. Different types of vibrators such as love egg, bullet vibe, remote control vibe and a 7 inch dildo vibe. I also have deepthroat spray and cock ring that we've never used

temp_igen · 06-02-2017, 09:28 AM

When you first meet, have a dildo inside you to warm up. Should be fun when he notice it...

herpderp42 · 06-02-2017, 09:50 AM

Well here is one idea: Do like you are not horny at all. When he tries to initiate sex say you aren´t really in the mood.
Being male the chances are high that he tries to convince you nonetheless.

Keep strong and when his hope seems to vanish say that you could help him jerk off if he gives you a massage in exchange (or something similar, I don´t care just make him pay a bit but nothing too obvious

).
If he aggrees pull down his pants and make him sit in a chair but don´t get too naked yourself. (You should at least keep your underwear on)

If you feel like it you can give him head aswell but don´t make him cum immediately. Try to bring him to the edge 1 or 2 times. Say him that you want your massage now before he gets to cum and won´t do it at all.

See how it goes and go as far as you are comfortable. Release him and give him an orgasm or tease him even more. However you seem fitting

06-02-2017, 08:31 AM	#1
XOpleaseme Member Join Date: Aug 2015 Location: UK Posts: 93	21/F secret dares whilst with my partner So.. I'm meeting up with my boyfriend later this evening and I would like some secret dares I could complete whilst I'm with him. He's usually the dominant one so I want to try and reverse the role. I don't tend to go down on him much so maybe that could be a start? I would love a few dares to get myself on edge beforehand (which could include pain/pleasure). I would like edges to be involved if possible! I'd appreciate instructions for both my time alone and time with my partner. (I am into pain/pleasure masturbation but not sex) Thanks in advance __________________ I love light clit pain, clamps, short term denial, edges and more.. Please PM me for more info/give a dare. Limits- pictures, other people, scat, permanent, public, other messaging platforms. Toys- mini vibrators, 7inch dildo vibe, nipple&clit clamps, small butt plug, household Eg. pegs, drawing pins, deepheat etc

06-02-2017, 08:53 AM	#2
ElisabethC7399 Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Posts: 43	hello there so first, as you said that you like both pain and pleasure, edge yourself twice for me ^^ the second one with tooth brush and then get some toothpaste on it and make yourself cum with overstimulatiom for 2min. After that, wait another 3min before washing yourself. just before your time with bf you sure gotta clean your ass and prepare pussy, so get a dildo, cucumber or even a carrot and fuck your ass while edging. Edge at least 3times, no cumming. when with him, hump his leg ^^ __________________ Female - 1993, 158cm tall, 46kg, curly hair, skinny - +Loves: strong pain, blood, disgrace, ass to mouth, slave play, gaping, blood, needles, chili, toothpaste etc -Dislikes: public, long dares !-Limits: bestiality (insects are semi fine avalibe ones are bees and ugly, horrible tarantula), permanent, pics, family, scat - /Hates social dares. - Will send nude for good fantasy you send me. It's up to me to consider wheter it is, or not worth it ^^

06-02-2017, 09:06 AM	#3
herpderp42 getDare Addict Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Germany Posts: 2,485 Blog Entries: 10	So I am a bit confused; you want to domme him in a sneaky way so to speak? That´s how I understood your original post at least but the reply confused me now^^ __________________ Looking for a female sub

06-02-2017, 09:50 AM	#10
herpderp42 getDare Addict Join Date: Jul 2015 Location: Germany Posts: 2,485 Blog Entries: 10	Well here is one idea: Do like you are not horny at all. When he tries to initiate sex say you aren´t really in the mood. Being male the chances are high that he tries to convince you nonetheless. Keep strong and when his hope seems to vanish say that you could help him jerk off if he gives you a massage in exchange (or something similar, I don´t care just make him pay a bit but nothing too obvious ). If he aggrees pull down his pants and make him sit in a chair but don´t get too naked yourself. (You should at least keep your underwear on) If you feel like it you can give him head aswell but don´t make him cum immediately. Try to bring him to the edge 1 or 2 times. Say him that you want your massage now before he gets to cum and won´t do it at all. See how it goes and go as far as you are comfortable. Release him and give him an orgasm or tease him even more. However you seem fitting __________________ Looking for a female sub Last edited by herpderp42; 06-02-2017 at 10:04 AM.

06-02-2017, 09:10 AM	#4
temp_igen Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 153	So you haven't had an orgasm since january? Is that something you're open to having or are you in denial?

06-02-2017, 09:18 AM	#7
temp_igen Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 153	great! do you have any toys?

06-02-2017, 09:28 AM	#9
temp_igen Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2012 Posts: 153	When you first meet, have a dildo inside you to warm up. Should be fun when he notice it...