Tricks for denials?

abo9 · 05-11-2016, 10:03 AM

Hello guys,

I am looking for advices on denials, since I am for the moment living with a lot of people in the same appartment and we don't have much privacy, I wanted to not masturbate for a while.

However, I am in my 5th day of not cumming and I am unable to not touch myself. I can resist the orgasm, but now I am almost constantly hard.

This is especially frustrating since I attend classes and I have erections so often and for so long. Precum also comes out really often, and I am very sensitive.

I heard people going like a month or more without orgasms. How do you do? Do you have tricks/advices?

Thanks!

LitDarkness · 05-11-2016, 10:57 AM

I can't help you with the getting hard problem. (Wrong anatomy for that.)

One thing that helps me is have a turn off, use it, if sucking a man's cock is a turn off, when you are tempted to orgasm, think about that turn off as vivid as you can.

But, in all honesty, after a while, no matter what you are going to constantly want the orgasm. (Even with your turn off.) You just have to have will power.

It looks like you are just starting out, the best advice for people new to this is practice.

Don't feel like you have to even go a week at first. You're at 5 days, that isn't bad when you are new to this.

Just keep practicing, I found a good way to do this is first see how long you can go (see you're already doing step one.) and then try again after your orgasm but add 24 hours to it.

If you feel you need to change 24 hours to more or less time added, go ahead. Long term denial isn't easy.

And want to know a secret, just because people can go a month or more doesn't mean they haven't or won't screw up.

Sometimes these people mess up.

Admit it, and move on. You can only handle more with practice.

Oh and about the no touching, I would try to get denial down first then go for no touching, with no touching you have to watch what you are doing so, it is way harder. (For me, at least.)

tikiliz · 05-11-2016, 01:03 PM

What helps for me is to keep busy. At times when not doing anything it gets the hardest, both literally and figuratively...

abo9 · 05-11-2016, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by TheKidWithSkills

I can't help you with the getting hard problem. (Wrong anatomy for that.)

One thing that helps me is have a turn off, use it, if sucking a man's cock is a turn off, when you are tempted to orgasm, think about that turn off as vivid as you can.

I'll try that O.o I just imagined some turn off and I can feel its effective xD

Thanks for your detailed answer

Quote:

Originally Posted by tikiliz

What helps for me is to keep busy. At times when not doing anything it gets the hardest, both literally and figuratively...

Understand that... I'm a long time of the day sitting and not moving much. That could get me to do more physical activity (which is real good right?)

05-11-2016, 10:03 AM	#1
abo9 Junior Member Join Date: Feb 2016 Posts: 14	Tricks for denials? Hello guys, I am looking for advices on denials, since I am for the moment living with a lot of people in the same appartment and we don't have much privacy, I wanted to not masturbate for a while. However, I am in my 5th day of not cumming and I am unable to not touch myself. I can resist the orgasm, but now I am almost constantly hard. This is especially frustrating since I attend classes and I have erections so often and for so long. Precum also comes out really often, and I am very sensitive. I heard people going like a month or more without orgasms. How do you do? Do you have tricks/advices? Thanks! __________________ Do not try to reach me, quitting getdare.

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LitDarkness Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: May 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 6,116 Blog Entries: 289	I can't help you with the getting hard problem. (Wrong anatomy for that.) One thing that helps me is have a turn off, use it, if sucking a man's cock is a turn off, when you are tempted to orgasm, think about that turn off as vivid as you can. But, in all honesty, after a while, no matter what you are going to constantly want the orgasm. (Even with your turn off.) You just have to have will power. It looks like you are just starting out, the best advice for people new to this is practice. Don't feel like you have to even go a week at first. You're at 5 days, that isn't bad when you are new to this. Just keep practicing, I found a good way to do this is first see how long you can go (see you're already doing step one.) and then try again after your orgasm but add 24 hours to it. If you feel you need to change 24 hours to more or less time added, go ahead. Long term denial isn't easy. And want to know a secret, just because people can go a month or more doesn't mean they haven't or won't screw up. Sometimes these people mess up. Admit it, and move on. You can only handle more with practice. Oh and about the no touching, I would try to get denial down first then go for no touching, with no touching you have to watch what you are doing so, it is way harder. (For me, at least.) __________________ M/Novisexual/24/sub Do have female parts. 30/1,603 edges+ 2 more days of denial after edges Make My Denial Harder Denial Diary 6,000th post tasks and reports Likes + Limits Stuff I Can Use for Dares BDSM Test Results PM DARES Stories & Poems Spelling or Grammar Mistake: Let Me Know Help Break My Cursing Habit Live with people and do not own toys. Keep in mind when daring me please. Not your bitch and calling me names or trying to Dom me is probitted. Violators will be declared as idiots.

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tikiliz Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Posts: 23	What helps for me is to keep busy. At times when not doing anything it gets the hardest, both literally and figuratively... __________________ 26 / M / straight / sub BDSM Test Likes: Orgasm control / tease & denial / mindfuck / humiliation Dislikes: Cum eating / anal Limits: Public / Scat / Pics / Cam / Family / Permanent / Blood / Marks