Valentine's Day questions BE NOSY PLEASE

[vladimir_bz_lion]

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
7: Have you ever cheated?
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
23: How many relationships have you had?
24: Do you think love can last forever?
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
29: What do you notice first about another person?
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
33: Do you want to get married one day?
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
36: Are you still a virgin?
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
38: Do you enjoy love films?
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
48: What's your favorite love song?
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
62: How do you define "cheating"?
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?

[rhode64]

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
No I am married
2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
Yes
3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
25 years
4: Have you ever changed for someone?
No and never will
5: How is your relationship with your ex?
I don't have anything to do with her
6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Yes
7: Have you ever cheated?
No
8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
No
9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
sharing everything and sex
10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious
11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
No
12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
Quite a few
13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
Getting married the first time
14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
When they feel their ready
15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
Yes
16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
Maybe
17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes
18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Don't really know
19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When your both unhappy
20: Are you currently in a relationship?
Yes
21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
some times
22: Do you think people should date their friends?
Depends on each person
23: How many relationships have you had?
Lost count
24: Do you think love can last forever?
don't know
25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
Most things
26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
No I married someone my dad disapproved of .
27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Be more careful don't jump in feet first
28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Yes
29: What do you notice first about another person?
looks then personality
30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Straight
31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
Don't know I suffer severe depression
32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
No
33: Do you want to get married one day?
I am
34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
Never its cheap and nasty
35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
No
36: Are you still a virgin?
No
37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
personality
38: Do you enjoy love films?
No
39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
Yes
40: Have you ever had a valentine?
Yes
41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
A meal and a drink in a nice restuarant
42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
Yes
43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
Partner
44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
Not really
45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Yes
46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
???????
47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
None
48: What's your favorite love song?
Havnt got one
49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
don't know
53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single?
No
54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
Its not
55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
No havnt got a jelous bone in my body
56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
No
57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
Yes been there and was glad for a stranger who stopped to talk and stopped me doing just that
58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Both in equal portion
59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Yes all the time
60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
It works if your both honest about how you feel and neither has a jelous streak
61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
My partner is my family
62: How do you define "cheating"?
doing it behind their back
63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
No it boosts the sex life
64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yes its to financial
65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
Yes I like cuddles naked its the skin to skin makes it so much more intimate.

[Schwink]

1: Do you have a crush at the moment?
Nope

2: Have you ever been deeply in love?
Yes

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in?
Just over two years

4: Have you ever changed for someone?
I don't think it was for them, maybe because of them

5: How is your relationship with your ex?
She lives across the country. We don't hate each other

6: Have you ever been cheated on?
Not to my knowledge

7: Have you ever cheated?
Nope

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating?
Yes, but nothing serious

9: What's the most important part of a relationship?
Honesty

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?
Serious made me feel a lot better at the end of the day

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?
Nope

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with?
Still a virgin technically

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship?
I told my most recent gf about my mental health issues...

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?
Whenever they fully realize the consequences... you can't really put a number on these things because I know people that are 30+ and I don't think they should be screwing.

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"?
In a sense, yes

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"?
Not love, maybe lust, but it does help start relationships

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet?
Yes

18: What do you consider a deal breaker?
Being cheated on

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship?
When you go elsewhere for that emotional bond (whether it be friends or a new lover)

20: Are you currently in a relationship?
Nope

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?
Yes

22: Do you think people should date their friends?
Yes

23: How many relationships have you had?
Five

24: Do you think love can last forever?
Yes

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things?
I really want to nerd out, but I believe love can help you oversee faults

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?
Nope

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?
Don't be so open right away, just have fun for a while

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work?
Nope

29: What do you notice first about another person?
Eyes

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual?
Straight. I don't find men attractive, but I don't mind penis

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness?
It depends how severe, and how long I knew them before the illness happened

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship?
Nope

33: Do you want to get married one day?
To an extent. I like the idea of a ceremony with friends and family, but it is a lot of money usually, and I hate the idea of putting the government between two people in love

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed?
I have no tattoos, unlikely

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex?
As long as masturbation was okay. My longest relationship we just performed oral a lot and watched each other masturbate.

36: Are you still a virgin?
Yes

37: What's more important: Looks or personality?
Personality

38: Do you enjoy love films?
Yes... I've been made fun of for watching The Notebook, Atonement, Brokeback Mountain, etc...

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses?
I've given and received

40: Have you ever had a valentine?
Yea

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"?
Dinner at an intimate setting, and then spooning and talking

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"?
Yes

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends?
I've never had a partner more important than friends, but I feel eventually the partner would be more important

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"?
To an extent

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends?
Yes

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"?
Yes

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite?
Bonnie and Clyde

48: What's your favorite love song?
So Happy Together by The Turtles or
I Don't Mind by Defeater

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart?
Nope, always on the receiving end

50: If you're single, why do you think you are?
I refuse to settle for bar rats and I like being home instead of going out constantly

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy?
I'd like to experience the rich douche, but I'd say the latter is fine. Going out to eat at most places is fairly cheap, plus most of the things I do don't cost much.

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships?
For some reason, yea. I always have people come up to me. Two friends got married shortly after they came to me for advice.

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single
Nope

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)?
Not at all

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"?
I was told by my recent gf that I was overly attached, well obsessive, but I didn't feel like I was. I texted her maybe 15 minutes a week, and we hung out maybe once a week.

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship?
Nope

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart?
I've thought dark thoughts for millions of reasons. I can't tell people what is silly, because when my mind goes to dark places everything seems like a good reason.

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship?
Switch, I'd prefer if the girl was more dominant

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary?
Nope

60: What's your opinion on open relationships?
As long as it is agreed on and made pretty clear it is fine

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family?
Again, it kind of depends on how far you guys are. A wife should be more important than family, because she is the closest family you have.

62: How do you define "cheating"?
Going to someone else for an emotional connection or sex

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate?
No. It is just a means to get off.

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated?
Yes

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"?
I like being the little spoon or resting against her side if she is on her back. I do really enjoy cuddling.

[iSpuds]

Holy torrent of V-day related questions, batman.

1: Do you have a crush at the moment? Sort of.

2: Have you ever been deeply in love? Yup.

3: Longest relationship you've ever been in? Three years.

4: Have you ever changed for someone? Yup.

5: How is your relationship with your ex? I don't keep in contact with my exes.

6: Have you ever been cheated on? Yup.

7: Have you ever cheated? Nope.

8: Would you date someone who's well known for cheating? Depends.

9: What's the most important part of a relationship? Mutual understanding.

10: Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? I prefer that comfortable middle ground between flings and serious relationships.

11: When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"? Depends on the person and the dynamic of the relationship. It's a possibility.

12: How many people have you ever hooked up with? I don't hook up.

13: What's one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship? Can't really think of anything.

14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex? The age at which children become thoroughly educated of the benefits and dangers of sex, which could be never if the church has anything to say about it.

15: Do you believe in the phrase "age is just a number"? No. I believe one's age does play a part on one's level of maturity. This isn't to say that young adults can't be mature or that middle-aged and elderly adults can't be immature, but the trend still stands. That said, I prefer partners older than myself and typically do not give the time of day to people my own age or younger than me. Age is not just a number.

16: Do you believe in "love at first sight"? No. I believe in lust at first sight.

17: Do you believe it's possible to fall in love on the internet? In a way, yes.

18: What do you consider a deal breaker? Marriage, yes-men/women, hipsters, egoism, third-wave feminism, people who refer to women primarily as "females," and I'm on the fence about theism.

19: How do you know it's time to end a relationship? When I'm bored, s/he's bored, and no one's happy.

20: Are you currently in a relationship? No.

21: Do you think people who have dated can stay friends? They can, but I wouldn't advise it.

22: Do you think people should date their friends? I typically date people I've been friends with for a while, so I consider it an option.

23: How many relationships have you had? 4. I think. Maybe 5.

24: Do you think love can last forever? It can.

25: Do you believe love can conquer all things? Of course not.

26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of? My parents could thoroughly suck it if they didn't approve of my partner.

27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be? Don't put the pressure on one person to be your "everything." Surround yourself with people who each satisfy a little part of who you are.

28: Do you think long distance relationships can work? They can.

29: What do you notice first about another person? Their beard (or lack thereof).

30: Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual? Pansexual (thanks for remembering us! )

31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness? Depends on the type and severity, but I can't imagine it'd be too much of a bother if their cognitive skills are intact.

32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? No.

33: Do you want to get married one day? Hell to the no.

34: What do you think about getting your partner's name tattooed? I think it's stupid.

35: Could you be in a relationship without sex? I could. I have been.

36: Are you still a virgin? Yup.

37: What's more important: Looks or personality? Obviously personality is more important, but that doesn't mean appearance doesn't play a large role in mating. I probably wouldn't approach a mangled person of my own volition to learn that he has a dazzling personality.

38: Do you enjoy love films? Yup.

39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses? I've received them.

40: Have you ever had a valentine? Like, a person? Nope.

41: What's your imagination of a "perfect date"? I don't know about any perfect date, but a pretty fun one would be to hang around the pier shops or artist district at night and go for falafels. Or fries. Or key lime pie.

42: Have you ever read "Romeo & Juliet"? Yup.

43: What's more important: Your partner or your friends? If my partner has a conflict with my friends, s/he can take it up with them; I don't concern myself with petty bullshit.

44: Would you consider yourself "romantic"? Yup.

45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends? Oh, yes. A few of them, actually.

46: Have you ever been "friendzoned"? That's such a bullshit philosophy. There is no friendzone. If your friend has no feelings for you, you are at complete liberty to cease being friends with that person. Otherwise, you can quit being such a baby.

47: Which "famous couple" is your favorite? I don't really keep up with those.

48: What's your favorite love song? That'd be a tie between Cosmic Love - Florence and the Machine and Stop Your Crying - Lake Street Dive.

49: Have you ever broken someone's heart? Haha, have I? Sorry if I did.

50: If you're single, why do you think you are? Because I'm not trying not to be?

51: Would you rather date someone who's rich but a douchebag or someone who's poor but a nice guy? I'd go for the poor nice guy.

52: Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships? I suppose so.

53: Are you jealous of couples when you're single? Not at all, I love when I come across adorable couples.

54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on facebook)? What? I thought it was official when you started paying for their dinners and movie tickets.

55: Would you consider yourself "clingy", "overly attached" or "jealous"? Nope.

56: Have you ever "destroyed" a relationship? I don't think so?

57: Do you think it's silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart? Well, yes.

58: Are you the "dominant" or the "submissive" part in a relationship? Depends on the relationship.

59: Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner's birthday or your anniversary? For at least 4 of my past relationships, I didn't know them to begin with.

60: What's your opinion on open relationships? Isn't that pretty much what dating around is? What's the problem?

61: Who's more important: Your partner or your family? My sister. Everyone else can suck it where she's concerned.

62: How do you define "cheating"? Sexual or otherwise dedicated romantic relations outside of a standing relationship which was previously agreed upon as "exclusive." Not including casual flirting.

63: Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate? No, why would it be?

64: Do you think Valentine's Day is overrated? It depends on what valentine's day means to the individual. I think it can be nice sometimes, but I mostly go for the day-after discount chocolates.

65: Would you consider yourself a "cuddler"? I like to cuddle. I'm not a chronic cuddler. It's not a disease or anything. o.o