Ask me. I have a few stories to tell.

zephyrnem · 06-01-2018, 10:16 AM

Ask away. I love kink and have experience as a sub and dom.

Beard · 06-01-2018, 11:14 AM

What's the biggest mindfuck you've given to a sub?

zephyrnem · 06-01-2018, 12:41 PM

Interesting...mostly I like to let them psych themselves out before the first meeting. One sub was nearly vibrating just having her strip slowly the first time for me. She was horny and scared and confused as I went real slow. Not knowing and lowering those defenses. Nice and slow. Raising the threat. Newbies are such fun. She got down to her underwear over a 45 minute period. Piece by piece. She stood there, and I just drank my wine. She tried to cover so slightly, and i yelled at her. She didnt know uf she should cum or cry. She blushed, but her wet spot grew, and she was shaking.

I had her sit next to me. I touched her, lightly and she shivered. I told her I would kick her out into the hotel hallway if she resisted. Then grabbed her Pussy through the panties. Again, a sob and nearly an orgasm. First time fear is the best. Hard to match that, but it is the fear that sets the relationship.

faggotpet · 06-03-2018, 08:59 AM

What was the most humiliting you have ever done to someone?

Surfsop3 · 06-03-2018, 09:19 AM

What’s the longest you’ve ever denied someone an orgasm?

Matt: · 06-03-2018, 01:36 PM

How do you describe your sexuality?

How old were you when you first touched a pussy or cock (not your own) sexually?

Can you remember your 1st orgasm? How did you have it?

What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?

What are your favourite...

...books/authors?
...bands/musical artists?
...sports teams?

zephyrnem · 06-03-2018, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Matt:

How do you describe your sexuality?

Fully hi.

How old were you when you first touched a pussy or cock (not your own) sexually?

14 (cock) 16 (Pussy)

Can you remember your 1st orgasm? How did you have it?

I discovered I really enjoyed being naked around 10 or 11. I rolled around on my bed totally naked enjoying the feeling until the wave broke over me.

What’s your most embarrassing sexual experience?

That's a tricky one. To me, if I was truly being humiliated, I would love it. And so, not really be embarrassed. I was led by my cock around a sex shop completely nude. Then I was made to suck my toes and out on a masturbation show as well as serving another cock while soft. Loved it. Embarrassing and not fun are some situations where a sub hadn't given me enough information and wasn't open enough leading me to not be effective. That is personally embarrassing and when I learned a lot about making subs be open to me.

What are your favourite...

...books/authors?

Blood Meridian (Cormac McCarthy) , Flannery O'Connor,
David Sedaris, George Saunders

...bands/musical artists?

Janis Ian, Sam Baker, Nick Drake, Laurie Anderson, Dar Williams, Frank Sinatra, Bob Dylan

...sports teams?

Cubs, Bears, Real Madrid

zephyrnem · 06-03-2018, 02:04 PM

The most humiliating thing Ive done to a sub...

Hard to say. It depends on the Sub. I took one Subs dress, leaving her naked and it petrified her and she was nervous, and totally felt humiliated.

Another sub was when I peed on her back. She was fine with showing off, having sex with whoever I demanded, but then I pushed into an area of discomfort. She didn't hate it, but felt it.

Another one I used my feet on her and she found that humiliating. It is fun exploring what subs find degrading.

zephyrnem · 06-03-2018, 02:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Surfsop3

What’s the longest you’ve ever denied someone an orgasm?

Three weeks. Fairly common in my practice...as it were.

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zephyrnem getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Iowa / Illinois Posts: 2,099 Blog Entries: 35	Interesting...mostly I like to let them psych themselves out before the first meeting. One sub was nearly vibrating just having her strip slowly the first time for me. She was horny and scared and confused as I went real slow. Not knowing and lowering those defenses. Nice and slow. Raising the threat. Newbies are such fun. She got down to her underwear over a 45 minute period. Piece by piece. She stood there, and I just drank my wine. She tried to cover so slightly, and i yelled at her. She didnt know uf she should cum or cry. She blushed, but her wet spot grew, and she was shaking. I had her sit next to me. I touched her, lightly and she shivered. I told her I would kick her out into the hotel hallway if she resisted. Then grabbed her Pussy through the panties. Again, a sob and nearly an orgasm. First time fear is the best. Hard to match that, but it is the fear that sets the relationship.

06-03-2018, 02:04 PM	#8
zephyrnem getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Iowa / Illinois Posts: 2,099 Blog Entries: 35	The most humiliating thing Ive done to a sub... Hard to say. It depends on the Sub. I took one Subs dress, leaving her naked and it petrified her and she was nervous, and totally felt humiliated. Another sub was when I peed on her back. She was fine with showing off, having sex with whoever I demanded, but then I pushed into an area of discomfort. She didn't hate it, but felt it. Another one I used my feet on her and she found that humiliating. It is fun exploring what subs find degrading. Last edited by zephyrnem; 06-03-2018 at 04:33 PM.