4 Hypothetical Questions

Slenderman - Doctor · 06-11-2014, 04:59 AM

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

SandMguy · 06-11-2014, 05:03 AM

1. Probably
2. Definitely

For 3 and 4 some complicated switch games would always be going on between us.

SweetTeen · 06-11-2014, 06:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Doctor

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

Could be , but theres always the possibility to ease the person into kink

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

Defnitily! I think that as long as a person is open minded everything needs to be tried atleast once.

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

I dont know why but I could imagine that that love could be super nice.. 2 subs loving each other :3 - Definitly maybe try to find a dom/domme or a couple

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

Ooo I think that would defnitly need atleast one sub for them together because else they cant live their lifestyle

MissMaria · 06-11-2014, 06:32 AM

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

I am a switch so not directly related but in a relationship with a vanilla I did sacrifice certain areas of my kink lifestyle

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

I would like to think I would give it a go... I usually do try new things at least once

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

Being a switch I could manage that but would want some sort of domme also

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

It would be the better of the lifestyles for myself

Nwbie · 06-11-2014, 06:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Doctor

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

1. Yes, love is way more important to me

2. Sure why not, experimentating is fun

3. I think I would just be happy, maybe a female mistress but that would depend on how my partner would feel on that subject.

4. I think it would be fun for us to have a little pet

sweetjasmine · 09-08-2014, 01:40 AM

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

I don't know, I think is very difficult

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

Probably a compromise

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

This really happened to me, I had a secret story with a slave of another Master and our dream was to live together as slave but was impossible so she left me and even though time has passed, my heart is still broken

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

I don't know, I'm a slave

onipran · 09-08-2014, 02:07 AM

If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

Yea, I can sacrifice the lifestyle for a good person.

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

Can't Say

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

Not my type, so can't say

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

I think it will go as long as we both lead normal life, and won't mind if she converts but I won't

Melick · 09-08-2014, 08:20 AM

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?
Yes.

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?
In to try anything, as long as its safe, sane and consensual.

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?
Submissives are nice to be with. Cooperative and humble. Yes.

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?
I don't know. It's tough to even imagine. I would deal with a Dom. But probably this answer is because I'm such a sub myself. Unable to comprehend.

Princess.Ashley · 10-26-2014, 01:39 PM

1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Probably
4) I don't know. It depends on if I could have a sub on the side or not.

slave_boy93 · 10-26-2014, 02:17 PM

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?
yes without a doubt. I'd rather be with the one i love then keep my kink lifestyle

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?
I'm willing to try almost anything with someone i love. So yeah i'd at least try it.

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?
i see 3 options here.
1. both go switch. i'm not sure if i could pretend to be the dom if im really not.(i think i would prefer this one)
2. find a dom/domme to dominate the both of us. both my partner and my would have to be ok with this though and im not sure i would.
3. don't do either and see how it works out to both be subs. i guess that could work just as well. would just have to lay back on how submissive we'd both be.

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?
No idea. I think 2 dom/dommes would be harder than 2 subs. guess the going switch part may work out but i think thats harder with doms than subs. but i would be happy with the other dom/domme if am in love

hope you like my answers

HarryJD · 10-26-2014, 03:40 PM

1. Yes
2. Yes
3. Just be happy, or maybe try and work something out between us.
4. Just be happy, or maybe try and work something out between us.

If I was madly in love with someone, but couldn't compromise, would I really love them?

sub_boy · 10-26-2014, 04:49 PM

1. Yes, but hopefully they would try out some of my kinks.
2. Yes.
3. I think we could switch for eachother or find a Domme who we both could submit to.
4. Same as 3 but from the other side.

An_Jon · 10-26-2014, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Doctor

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them?

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow?

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive?

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

1 - I did that once, but I felt stifled. She tried to branch out for me and it didn't really work out. We were both miserable for a short while before we broke up.

2 - I can't really answer this. From experience something like what happened in my previous answer may happen.

3 - I guess we'd take it in turns. Compromise is key.

4 - Same as above.

Athanael · 11-09-2014, 07:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Doctor

1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? I guess ...

2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? Yeah I would, though, assuming I was vanilla, I guess it would be weird.

3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? Love first and foremost

4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

As I said, love first! Thanks for these questions

gp_guy · 11-16-2014, 09:40 AM

The questions can all be summed up as: If you fell in love with someone, but found out you were sexually incompatible would you still give the relationship a go?

I think love is worth giving a try, ultimately though it is a pretty major incompatibility especially for the long haul. Some accommodations would have to be made to make a relationship work, but that may be a gradual natural progression.

06-11-2014, 04:59 AM	#1
Slenderman - Doctor Truth or Dare Zealot Join Date: Jul 2009 Posts: 6,760	4 Hypothetical Questions 1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme?

06-11-2014, 05:03 AM	#2
SandMguy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: At your feet. Posts: 470 Blog Entries: 2	1. Probably 2. Definitely For 3 and 4 some complicated switch games would always be going on between us. __________________ Male/switch(more of a sub)/straight Likes/Punishments/Limits I can't cum until I'm released from this thread. Please keep that in mind. Last orgasm: 01/18/2015 Longest edge held: 3 minutes 5 seconds. Here are my PM Dares If you want to add any then please message them to me.

06-11-2014, 06:32 AM	#4
MissMaria Distinguished Member Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 788 Blog Entries: 14	1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? I am a switch so not directly related but in a relationship with a vanilla I did sacrifice certain areas of my kink lifestyle 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? I would like to think I would give it a go... I usually do try new things at least once 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? Being a switch I could manage that but would want some sort of domme also 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme? It would be the better of the lifestyles for myself __________________ 33/TGirl 38DD Likes, Dislikes & Limits PM Commands Member of the unofficial getDare PM Dare Commission. Help spread the word and the PM Dares! Join Today! PM me a dare to find out how.

09-08-2014, 01:40 AM	#6
sweetjasmine Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: Italy Posts: 115 Blog Entries: 4	1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? I don't know, I think is very difficult 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? Probably a compromise 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? This really happened to me, I had a secret story with a slave of another Master and our dream was to live together as slave but was impossible so she left me and even though time has passed, my heart is still broken 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme? I don't know, I'm a slave __________________ Now I'm a property of feetandtickling Like: Bondage, pain, anal (only dildos), humiliations. Limits: piss, scat, animal, permanent, blood, photo and video. My kit: collar, ropes, gags (ballgag, harness gag, muzzle, tape), blindfolds, black mask, armbinder, handcuffs, two plugs for my ass of different dimensions, nipple clamps, clothespins, Wartenberg Wheel, paddle, whip, cane. Ask me anything http://www.getdare.com/bbs/showthread.php?t=192975

09-08-2014, 02:07 AM	#7
onipran getDare Devil Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 1,338	If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? Yea, I can sacrifice the lifestyle for a good person. 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? Can't Say 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? Not my type, so can't say 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme? I think it will go as long as we both lead normal life, and won't mind if she converts but I won't __________________ GOOD bye

09-08-2014, 08:20 AM	#8
Melick Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Location: Bangalore Posts: 46 Blog Entries: 1	1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? Yes. 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? In to try anything, as long as its safe, sane and consensual. 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? Submissives are nice to be with. Cooperative and humble. Yes. 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme? I don't know. It's tough to even imagine. I would deal with a Dom. But probably this answer is because I'm such a sub myself. Unable to comprehend. __________________ 22/Female/Slave/Bisexual I am owned by Him.

10-26-2014, 01:39 PM	#9
Princess.Ashley Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2014 Location: United States Posts: 567 Blog Entries: 7	1) Yes 2) Yes 3) Probably 4) I don't know. It depends on if I could have a sub on the side or not. __________________ Not currently searching for a master, mistress, slave, or sub of any type. Please do not ask. ~Ask me anything~ Butterfly loves me ♡ I am the boss of everybody.

10-26-2014, 02:17 PM	#10
slave_boy93 getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Aug 2012 Location: The glory hole Posts: 303 Blog Entries: 3	1. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell madly in love with someone vanilla, would you sacrifice your kink lifestyle to be with them? yes without a doubt. I'd rather be with the one i love then keep my kink lifestyle 2. If you were a vanilla person and fell in love with a Dom/Domme, would you at least give the kink lifestyle a go, or would you try and 'compromise' somehow? I'm willing to try almost anything with someone i love. So yeah i'd at least try it. 3. If you were a submissive and fell in love with another submissive, would you still want to find a Dom/Domme, or would you just be happy and be with the other submissive? i see 3 options here. 1. both go switch. i'm not sure if i could pretend to be the dom if im really not.(i think i would prefer this one) 2. find a dom/domme to dominate the both of us. both my partner and my would have to be ok with this though and im not sure i would. 3. don't do either and see how it works out to both be subs. i guess that could work just as well. would just have to lay back on how submissive we'd both be. 4. If you were a Dom/Domme and fell in love with another Dom/Domme, would you still want to find a submissive, or would you just be happy and be with the other Dom/Domme? No idea. I think 2 dom/dommes would be harder than 2 subs. guess the going switch part may work out but i think thats harder with doms than subs. but i would be happy with the other dom/domme if am in love hope you like my answers __________________ 24/male/bi/5"/170cm/Netherlands Use and abuse me Likes and Limits PM dares

10-26-2014, 03:40 PM	#11
HarryJD Member Join Date: Nov 2012 Location: USA Posts: 59	1. Yes 2. Yes 3. Just be happy, or maybe try and work something out between us. 4. Just be happy, or maybe try and work something out between us. If I was madly in love with someone, but couldn't compromise, would I really love them? __________________ Likes: Gags, bondage, spanking, teasing, pain, control, humiliation, degradation, nipple torture, chastity, CBT, and anything that sounds like it could be fun. Limits: Permanent, family, scat, illegal, extreme (anything), public, cam/pics/video and I reserve the right to say no to anything. The lists are ever-growing, but I figure this is a good start. I'm 26, straight, switch. I'm always happy to talk and meet new people, so hit me up!

10-26-2014, 04:49 PM	#12
sub_boy getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 313	1. Yes, but hopefully they would try out some of my kinks. 2. Yes. 3. I think we could switch for eachother or find a Domme who we both could submit to. 4. Same as 3 but from the other side.

11-16-2014, 09:40 AM	#15
gp_guy Junior Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 16	The questions can all be summed up as: If you fell in love with someone, but found out you were sexually incompatible would you still give the relationship a go? I think love is worth giving a try, ultimately though it is a pretty major incompatibility especially for the long haul. Some accommodations would have to be made to make a relationship work, but that may be a gradual natural progression. __________________ Likes: Light CBT, Some orgasm control, bondage, pics/videos, light pain, light anal. Dislikes: More extreme torture, involving other people/friends, watersports (would so some), total body shaves, cross dressing/ sissification, pain, heavy anal, humiliation. Limits: Extreme public, social suicide, anything permanent, scat, blood, extreme pain, extreme humiliation, extreme online exhibitionism.