Hi all.

Kat's not here tonight, and on her orders (I lost a bet to her) I'm going to write a slightly longer, more thoughtful piece tonight. It's about me as a writer, finding my voice, working through difficulties and where I feel I am now with things. I hope you enjoy.

Beginnings
I'm going to start off with something some of you may already know. I'm a writer who's also a dyslexic. In my case, the dyslexia affects my phonological awareness of letter and numbers...

I have been feeling a bit homesick lately (being 3000 miles away from the place you grew up, all your friends and family is hard) and it is especially difficult because my birthday is coming up. Asslvr and I are going to try and keep some of my birthday traditions, but it will be a different year for me.

However, instead of getting down, I am going to try and view it as a good thing. I mean, at least I get to be here with my love and we get to celebrate...

GRRRR. MEN.

Aren't they just so shit? The way they're always throwing their willies about like they own the place, it's disgusting.

Time to get your own back.

If you're a female dom there's something you should know - you need to do ABSOLUTELY NOTHING to get attention on the internet. The submissive men WILL find you, and they WILL call you Princess or Mistress. All you need to do is set up an account and wait.

*Two minutes later*
...

You're so fucking domly it hurts.

Not you, of course, no one's ever going to hurt you. You have no 'real' feelings away from your cock. I mean that it hurts everyone else. When you walk past girls on the street, or stand near them in queues, or invade their personal space in an elevator/lift you just know that your dominant presence is radiating so thoroughly into their panties you're surprised they don't just fall off.

But you just can't seem to translate that Sir-iously...

YUP: Anal, public/semi nudity, exhibitionism, outside, masterbation, photos/videos, having my orgasms controlled, insertions, cum, full orgasm, dice dares

PERHAPS: Bondage, tease and denial, ruined orgasms, insertion of non-sex toy items, stranger danger. ice, humiliation, tease and denial,

NOPE: wedgies, pain, water sports, scat, social suicide, illegal, permanent,

TOYS: Butt Plugs (Small to WHOA!), Dildoes, nipple clamps,...

Loves: Edging, Bladder Control, Orgasm Control, Hypnosis, Creative Dares, Games of Chance, Diapers, Denial, Good Conversation, Having Fun, Sports, Rules, Being Kept Busy

Likes: Spanking, Wedgies, Light Pain, Humiliation, Petplay, Bondage, Anal, Temperature Play, Chastity, Age Play, Hidden Public, Shopping, Pics,

Unsure: Enemas, Exercise, CBT, Semi-Public, Exposure, Oral

Dislikes: Messy, Tedium, Line Writing, Hard Pain, Pee Drinking, A2M

Limits:...

If you spend ten minutes in chat you will probably notice how often someone will say something along the lines of, "Looking for someone to punish me. My kik is *insert kik name here*" Now, while this might be somewhat annoying, it's fine to want to find someone to play with.

However, my quarrel is with the casual use of the word 'punishment'. People will also post threads asking for a *like of their choice* punishment and then shoot things down because they don't like them....