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Ok I will try to avoid the camera as much as possible. If that's not possible, since it's a small studio, I will try to get only my back in the picture with the beautiful bondage.
Thank you everyone!Posted 07-25-2010 at 05:34 PM by Tiger -
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Or you could do what I did and make sure the photographer does not take face shots I did classy nudes for my friend's photography project for college and she only posted the ones without my face online.Posted 07-25-2010 at 04:57 PM by keykitty -
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There are websites that mask your IP. They are riddled with ads and slow you down, but it makes basic hiding much easier. Like Depp said, blurring your face is another great option. It is almost impossible to completely hide who you are, there are ways to make it significantly harder.Posted 07-25-2010 at 03:58 PM by Manbearpig -
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You may be able to have your face blurred/blacked out. I don't think that would be an unusual or odd request. If you have a job where you are afraid this sort of thing might interfere, I would make sure you can't be instantly identified.Posted 07-25-2010 at 03:10 PM by depp -
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Purple: The even though part means that on the website I'm talking about, you have to sign up to do anything on the site, even look at profiles. So if they see my picture, they would have to have an account and be into naughty stuff.
Theone: I wouldn't be posting them. The host would be taking the pictures and putting them on his profile. He might also post them on his website.Posted 07-25-2010 at 01:38 PM by Tiger -
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That is probably a good idea, leave out your face so nobody can identify you. That’s if you really want to post pictures. Be careful the internet is a risky place to have such pictures of yourself.Posted 07-25-2010 at 01:26 PM by theone
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I'm not quite understanding the "EVEN THOUGH they are doing it too?" part. But anything can happen on the internet. Anyone can take that picture and easily post it to other sites and keep spreading it if they wanted to.
I wouldn't take the chance if you are worried.Posted 07-25-2010 at 01:22 PM by PurplePirate -
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That is a good point Res. I don't want them to get angry at me for not being able to take pictures but I guess I will stick with no face.Posted 07-25-2010 at 01:10 PM by Tiger -
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To be honest: If I was in your position, I wouldn't risk it. The internet is the internet. Put something on there, no matter what, and give just a single person, no matter who, access to it - and you have no way to know where it might end up. Maybe they need an account to view the pictures on the original website, but how do you know, that there is not someone who will copy them to his own homepage or to his blog or just pass them to a friend, who will then again pass it to a friend and so on...
If there's a chance someone who knows you could tell that it's you in that picture - don't publish it anywhere. Period.
Of course you don't know if really anything bad is going to happen because of such pictures - but if it would, you had only yourself to blame. And I doubt you'd want to end up like that.
Sounds harsh, but... Rather be safe than sorry. Especially true on the internet.Posted 07-25-2010 at 12:26 PM by Res Grata -
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Hmm...what you could do is use a dummy ip address possibly and make an email that would be hard to track back to your original one. That is my best advicePosted 07-25-2010 at 12:18 PM by Manbearpig -
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Nixie is da best mommy! I luvs herPosted 06-26-2010 at 09:06 AM by Leopard -
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Yah pretty sure half of Lounge chat woulda been all RAH if you hadn't come back online. Not that any of us know how to contact anyone to find you, but still!Posted 06-26-2010 at 09:01 AM by Leopard -
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HAHA you did have someone to call!!! ME remember I told you that!!!
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Thanks Nixie. *hugs*
He did encourage me to ask lots of questions. About the part that he said I did wrong, he said that it would have been safer to have someone to call and say that I will call this person at X:00. If I don't, they will call the police. I did have someone to call just in case but I didn't get a time that I was going to call.
He did also say that I shouldn't get into dom/sub stuff for about a year since I have never done anything offline with someone else. I don't quite know what I like and don't like but I should try stuff to see and go from there.Posted 06-26-2010 at 08:57 AM by Tiger -
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I am SOOOO incredibly PROUD OF YOU!!!
*sniffles*
I am soo glad you listened to the advice we all had to give. And seriously I personally think you did just fine. He can have his opinions. But I think you asked the right "questions" I advised you to ask. And meeting first. If he thinks otherwise then let him. It is ALL about you feeling safe and comfortable. Not only about his pleasure. But about YOU too. When you have questions YOU ASK THEM. Never feel as if you shouldn't just because you consider yourself submissive. He should always respect your inquisitive mind and your knowledge of needing to know more especially when it is your first time. And totally "ignorant" of Real life situations in that area. You can only read so much to prepare youself. Sometimes a mentor is better suited to help you learn than jumping straight to a Real Life Dom. And if he is willing to mentor you that is great. And patience. Always Patience Luv Bug.
In MY eyes you did well and right in all the areas you need to because it was RIGHT FOR YOU Noone else but you can decide that. Not him or me or anyone else. Be true to yourself always.
Great Job babe. <3Posted 06-26-2010 at 08:49 AM by Nixie
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Thanks! I had a lot of fun. After I went into his play area, he told me I did almost everything wrong when I was meeting someone for this kind of thing. :OPosted 06-26-2010 at 07:11 AM by Tiger