Unrealistic expectations: One of the most common mistakes on both sides. A Dom expects a sub to be perfect, meet his every need, and have no limits. A sub expects a Dom to be perfect, understand their every need, avoid all mistakes on the top, and know everything.

Isolation: Tries to cut you off from family and friends; accuses people who are your supporters as “causing trouble”; the abuser may deprive you of a communication and transportation methods.

Extremely...

[2012-01-30 11:08:12] Achernar [»] softeyes: maybe the softness in your eyes will fade,,, but hopefully not
[2012-01-30 11:08:39] softeyes [»] Achernar: o.o
[2012-01-30 11:09:15] Achernar [»] softeyes: ahh,, now I can see the softness, it's instilled deeply
[2012-01-30 11:09:40] Achernar [»] softeyes: I'm guessing that they were your eyes that you were flashing me with
[2012-01-30 11:09:41] softeyes [»]Achernar: Weird. D:
[2012-01-30 11:10:26] Achernar [»]...

Two Fridays ago, I sent a dare request to Dravot via private messaging for dares while cleaning my room. The dare was very successful, and I am still doing part of the dare now, until this Friday, when it will be over.

I wanted to make a blog to share with everyone the process of this dare, including my request, his response, our negotiations, and my reports. I have asked his permission, and he is fine with me copying and pasting our private messages into a blog to share with everyone....

The Original Dare before negotiating

Firstly, let me thank you for writing such a lengthy and detailed email, the more information you give me the better the dares I can come up with. You did very well with this, I will be pleased to assist you in this matter.

You will begin at 8, you will get up at 7 this gives you time to have breakfast, check emails etc. You will be in bed the night before no later than midnight to ensure you are rested.

Starting at 8...

During this dare, I have a white board where I recorded everything. In the first section, I have T with a divider table for R and L, this stood for right tit and left tit. Next to the T, there is an A, for Ass, and then a P for Pussy. For every 10 spankings to the same area, I gave myself a dot.

On the next section of the white board, I have a heading of ST, which stands for squats and toe touches. Every blue dot means I did a set of...

During the entirety of my cleaning, from start to finish, with the exception of when using the bathroom, I was made to wear a front and back wedgie, to remind me that I had a task to do. I attempted many times to make a good front wedgie, but could not. Granted, I did have a front wedgie, it just didn’t go up very far. The back wedgie however, was very well done, and was a great annoyance all day long. Whenever I felt the wedgie “loosening,” I pushed it up further. Every time I sat on the ground...