BDSM truths! (Questions!!) - Page 4

rickead · 05-10-2015, 08:11 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
few years
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Only online
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
0
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
yes
3)would you ever explore your limits?
yes
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Walking naked/masturbating on a public place.
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
walking naked in the wood
5a) Anything you've regret?
Walking naked in my street when I was drunk.
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Now Online play, but I think real play is much more fun
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
submissive I think
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yes
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No

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18/M
Likes: Humiliation, semi public, Bondage, control dares, spanking, clothes control, orgasm control
Limits: anal, pictures/cam

Tiwim54 · 05-11-2015, 03:09 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
More than 20y

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Online, tried to experiment selfbondage but was not a great success
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
No real experience

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Yes, I'd love to

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Yes, it's one of the goals

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Taboo is age play or permanent.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Drink my own piss

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not being able to selfbondage

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Both

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Submissive, definitively

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Depends on the friend

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No, they don't know and I don't want them to know

Blaire93 · 05-12-2015, 01:00 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
3 years or so

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
In real life, and still 3 years.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
Maybe a 4.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
I am kind of experienced, and I still have stuff I want to explore!

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Yes. With my current Dom I will try anything once. I trust him that much.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
I doubt it's taboo, but I think my ultimate fantasy would be when my Dom ties me up, blindfolds me, and takes away my hearing either by music or ear plugs then allows a person I've never met to use me. Maybe gags me too?? (If Sir trusts the stranger that much.) He makes me completely helpless. But they get to do as they wish with my body for Sir's pleasure. Instructions about orgasm will be administered either before hand or through the head phones.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
I am a very nice person, so I don't think I've ever done anything of this nature.

5a) Anything you've regret?
I regret not breaking the rules about no cats in the house. Two kittens died from the freezing weather.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Real play. 100%

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
I am a switch.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
IF, and only if, they find someone they can trust themselves with.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
One does, and she approves. I send her pictures all the time. The others would probably freak out... and run. lol

WalkingWholockian · 05-16-2015, 11:53 AM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
about 4 years
1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
about 3 online (i just kinda floated for a year before trying it) and i havent really had any bdsm experiences in person (but my boyfriend is attempting to be more dominant and i appreciate it ^.^ its new for him)
2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
with bdsm? 0....i'm super interested but i chicken out or im too busy/not feeling it.v it would be easier in person. with sex? 8, ive only been with 5 guys total but i've been told im incredible ^.^
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
i would love to, but only in person because i have a hard time holding up to my promises if theres no way you can make me do it
3)would you ever explore your limits?
nope
4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
just rape fantasy, gang bang, and teacher/student fantasies
5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
i dont remember, i havent really done much
5a) Anything you've regret?
nope
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
id prefer in real if only i could find someone
7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
im unsure but i have extremely passive and submissive tendencies, but then again i play by my own rules too so idk
8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
yerp
9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
to my knowledge, he has no idea but i want to talk to him bout it so bad. idky. i just sorta have a crush on him....ive hinted at it when ranting about my hatred for the Fifty Shades of Bullshit shit

Gyev · 05-16-2015, 01:38 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

I was always interested in this topic, even though I didn't knew about its name. From practical point of view however, I was involved once for a short time.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

Like above.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

5? I count theory as well.

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

I have slight practical experience, although I'd like to experience it in future as well.

3)would you ever explore your limits?

No.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

Yes, macabric, let's say. Although I am not going to put them into real life, these are simply fantasies that I sometimes have.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

No idea.

5a) Anything you've regret?

Yes, meeting a person I'd like to never meet.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

Real play.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

Submissive.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

No. Everyone has own preferences which I am not going to invade. If someone is interested in such topics, then he/she will find it without my help.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

I doubt it, I am not talking about it with anyone and I don't see the purpose to change that.

MistressVanessa · 05-16-2015, 02:14 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
- I have always liked games like cops and robbers when I was a young kid. You can say that it turned me on, but i didn't know it. Then I started reading erotic stories about bdsm when I was about 12. I got 'serious' with bdsm when I was 17. I am 22 now.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
- online 5 years with breakes
- offline, I played few times

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
- 6.5??? I think I am very experienced compared to online people, but I am no match for a full time mistress...

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
- I would like to play offline some time again, but it's hard to find the right person. I don't want to do it with a stranger.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
- As a sub, I have few limits, but they are hard limits like permanent stuff, I am not going to explore that.
- As a mistress I listen to my sub's limits. If they are willing to break it I would help them. I would love to make someone tattoo my name on their body

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Being a 24/7 slave to a mistress/master serving them in everything and have all kind of rules on me. I would really like to do it for a periode of time (1-3 months?) without any commitment afterwards, so I could just get back to my old life.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
- I was pissed at my male slave and I let him stay outside with a sign saying 'free foot worship'. He had to stay like this for 2 days.

5a) Anything you've regret?
- When i was exploring my sub side i was stupid and listened to wrong people. i was just starting and I was very green. I assumed my masters would know what to do and I trusted them completely. Some of them asked for nude pictures only and dissapeared pretty soon afterwards, others asked me to ruin my life by telling me to do stuff within my limits (I didn't). One blackmailed me... Which was the worse. I have never told this story on any website and I am still little bit traumatic after it. That was the main reason why I didn't want to be a slave anymore.

After a bit of talk he told me to send him nudes with face. He seemed nice and we talked a lot before he asked me to do it so i trusted him. When he got them he told me that I will be his 24/7 bitch from now on, or he will put the pictures online. Long story short, I had to do things for him and send him my pictures as proof. Lucky for me he only asked me things within my limits, although they were at the point of almost breaking it. I had to do a lot of things that I wasn't yet comfortable with and that I didn't want to do.

The worst part was when he asked me to use my towel as diaper and wet myself. He made me drink a lot before that. I told him I can't because my mom would come home in 5 minutes, but he only reminded me of the pictures. When i finally peed in it, my mom entered the house. For those of you who think that i could simply clean the towel, keep in mind that I was forced not to pee the whole day and I had to drink a lot. What left my body was like a waterfall, the whole towel was soaked in pee. I tried to wash it with water but couldn't take all the pee out. I also couldn't dry it, because I was in bathroom far too long anyway, and I don't think it would help much. The towel was all wet, you could very easily see that something happened, and it obviously smelled like pee. I was so ashamed that i told my mom that I am going to sleep and closed the door.

The next morning I woke up, my mother already left for work. In the bathroom i found a note that said: 'I don't know what happened with the towel, but here you get a new, dry and a CLEAN one.' I was so ashamed, my mother obviously knew what happened, it smelled like pee horribly. When she came home she asked me about it and I only mumbled a bad story that it felt in the bad or something... The towel is yellowish to this day.

I realised I had to stop the blackmail or it will ruin my life more than the pictures. I was now on a good way to ruin my relations with family and friends... The worst thing that he could do is put the pictures online, where nobody recognises me. What's the chance someone I know will find them... So i told him I quit and that he could put them online if he wanted. I ignored him afterwards. I have not found my pictures online yet, but who knows, maybe you've seen them.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
- Real play, both as sub and mistress

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
- I have periodes of time when I feel submissive and periodes of time when i feel dominant.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
- I think you have to be born with it to like it... Other people just find it weird

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
- My best (girl) friend knows about it, but I couldn't covince her to do anything with me. I don't dare to tell it to anyone else, although when I am drunk at a party or when i see other people drunk i like to casually suggest some bdsm things, or atleast play truth or dare so i can get something out of it

Fantage · 05-16-2015, 03:15 PM

I've learned about Bdsm since I was 11.

scgd · 05-16-2015, 03:55 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Not long, like a month maybe.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Only online, so a month.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
I'd say a 2... 3 at a push. So yeah, new to it and inexperienced but I'd say I cope alright considering.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Yes at some point but only some of my limits, probably under very specific circumstances. For now I'm doing just fine exploring my dislikes - limits is a bit far at the moment!

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
For most of society, BDSM is fairly taboo anyway. But I wouldn't say I have any fantasies that are taboo in the realms of BDSM, no.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
It's not particularly shocking but considering her inexperience at doing tasks for me, punishing my sub by making her pour her own pee over her head, sit in the puddle with a finger up her ass (she doesn't like anal) and write lines for me was quite extreme.

5a) Anything you've regret?
Pushing my sub too far, too fast. She's new to these things but she's so willing and loves to impress that I initially forgot, or didn't realise (probably due to my lack of experience at being a dominant) so I asked too much of her and it became too stressful. We've sorted it now though and I've learned my lesson.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Only experienced online play. I'd like to try real play but it would be so different that I don't know how I'd handle it at first.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure?
I'm unsure at the moment. I know that I like being dominant but I say switch for now because I'm experimenting with my submissive side.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
How do I word this... Yes, I'd like to recommend it, but I wouldn't actually go up to a friend like, "Hey, why don't you put some clothes pegs on your girlfriend's nipples, she might like it". I think everyone should try it but it wouldn't be me who suggests it to anyone.

9) Do your friends know you're into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
Nope, and that's partly why my answer to question 8 is what it is. I'd like them to know so I have someone I know to talk to about it, but I don't think I'll ever actually tell them, I don't know how they'd take it. It would just be so awkward!

Leslie's Slave · 05-16-2015, 09:27 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
A.-about 6 years i think....

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
A.-online 6 years. IRL 6 years but it didnt lasted.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
5 not that much experienced....
2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

3)would you ever explore your limits?
not really. theyre there for a reason.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
not really...i mean BDSM is kinda Taboo (in mexico anyways)

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Spitting on my partner while teasing. she disliked that xD! (also i somehow got sleppy during a blowjob...yeah...)

5a) Anything you've regret?
almost falling sleep during a blowjob. kinda ruined the whole blowjob thing for us...
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Both.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
Dominant. i swore to never be a sub to soemoene else than Leslie.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
depends on the friend.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
they dont. and i wont tell.

BennyBoi16 · 05-17-2015, 03:31 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Almost 4 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? 4 years for both

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 10

3)would you ever explore your limits? yes and I have

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? None that I haven't already explored.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Let's just say it involved private school uniforms, an entire weekend and a few public outings.

5a) Anything you've regret? no

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? in pwrson, but happy with onlune until that comes around again

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch, but more Dom.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yes and have

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? [/QUOTE] A few do, yes

RebekaD · 05-17-2015, 04:54 PM

Here's some awesomely nosey questions! Answer with 100% honesty!!!

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
around 5 years

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
5 years online, real life about 1 year

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
7 maybe, i'm experienced, but i know there is still a lot i haven't explored

3)would you ever explore your limits?
some of them i am tentatively pushing, but most are hard limits and aren't going to change

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
rape and incest. there are probably others, but those are my 2 big ones.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone not sure

5a) Anything you've regret?
nothing i can think of
6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
i really love both. i'd prefer to do real play mostly, but due to my master being at college across the country i'm content with online (and occasional meetings)

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
very very submissive

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
maybe, depends on the friend

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
a couple do. and there are a couple that i'd really like to tell (and to get them involved with me)

smh22 · 08-15-2016, 02:54 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
7 ish years, I think 2007/08 time.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Same as above, I discovered it online.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
3, could learn A LOT more!

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
YES

3)would you ever explore your limits?
Possibly

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Me and my friend tied each other up naked and then were locked in a wooden crate, outdoors. Really big turn on, I must have been locked in there for over an hour, it was such a rush. Less shocking, more fun!

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not really.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
Both, getting the ideas from online is great and then putting them into real play.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
I think I can be both.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Maybe, if I am comfortable around them yes, like a partner?

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

Only one of them, no I wouldn't tell anyone else and right now I don't want to!
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SluttyPig · 08-17-2016, 04:09 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM

Since January

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?

Online and real both since Jan.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced

In these 8 months I have experienced a lot lol. I'm going to go with 8

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?

Pain

3)would you ever explore your limits?

The only one up for exploring right now is restrictive bondage. And that's a NO still! I bring it up sometimes but I can't do it, it's too scary.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?

I don't know if this is taboo but I really, really like being degraded

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone

I've been peed on before

5a) Anything you've regret?

Being peed on

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?

Real play

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure

Submissive 100%

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?

If they were into it

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?

A very, very few amount. I wouldn't tell the others it's none of their buisness what I enjoy during sex. If someone asked me about it then maybe I would. It's not definite at all

needingsomefun · 08-17-2016, 04:17 PM

1) How long have you been involved with BDSM
Been interested in it for about 30 years.

1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real?
Neither online or real.

2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced
1

2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink?
Bondage.

3)would you ever explore your limits?
With the right person.

4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what?
Being the center of attention at a CFNM party.

5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone
Self Bondage with hot wax.

5a) Anything you've regret?
Not yet.

6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both?
I don't know for sure.

7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure
I would like to think of myself as a switch.

8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend?
Yes.

9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them?
No, no and no.

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05-12-2015, 01:00 PM	#48
Blaire93 Junior Member Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: Tennessee Posts: 10 Blog Entries: 2	Truth 1) How long have you been involved with BDSM 3 years or so 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? In real life, and still 3 years. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced Maybe a 4. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? I am kind of experienced, and I still have stuff I want to explore! 3)would you ever explore your limits? Yes. With my current Dom I will try anything once. I trust him that much. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? I doubt it's taboo, but I think my ultimate fantasy would be when my Dom ties me up, blindfolds me, and takes away my hearing either by music or ear plugs then allows a person I've never met to use me. Maybe gags me too?? (If Sir trusts the stranger that much.) He makes me completely helpless. But they get to do as they wish with my body for Sir's pleasure. Instructions about orgasm will be administered either before hand or through the head phones. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone I am a very nice person, so I don't think I've ever done anything of this nature. 5a) Anything you've regret? I regret not breaking the rules about no cats in the house. Two kittens died from the freezing weather. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real play. 100% 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I am a switch. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? IF, and only if, they find someone they can trust themselves with. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? One does, and she approves. I send her pictures all the time. The others would probably freak out... and run. lol

05-16-2015, 11:53 AM	#49
WalkingWholockian getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Apr 2015 Location: MD Posts: 309 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM about 4 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? about 3 online (i just kinda floated for a year before trying it) and i havent really had any bdsm experiences in person (but my boyfriend is attempting to be more dominant and i appreciate it ^.^ its new for him) 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced with bdsm? 0....i'm super interested but i chicken out or im too busy/not feeling it.v it would be easier in person. with sex? 8, ive only been with 5 guys total but i've been told im incredible ^.^ 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? *i would love to, but only in person because i have a hard time holding up to my promises if theres no way you can make* me do it 3)would you ever explore your limits? nope 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? just rape fantasy, gang bang, and teacher/student fantasies 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone i dont remember, i havent really done much 5a) Anything you've regret? nope 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? id prefer in real if only i could find someone 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure im unsure but i have extremely passive and submissive tendencies, but then again i play by my own rules too so idk 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yerp 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? to my knowledge, he has no idea but i want to talk to him bout it so bad. idky. i just sorta have a crush on him....ive hinted at it when ranting about my hatred for the Fifty Shades of Bullshit shit** __________________ 20, Female, Sub. NOT looking for dom/slave, just fun i dont give dares/tasks LIKES LIMITS TOYS SUPPLIES ECT I DO NOT* FACETIME/SKYPE/ETC.!* FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM: WalkingWholockian_official

05-16-2015, 01:38 PM	#50
Gyev Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: European oblivion Posts: 190 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM I was always interested in this topic, even though I didn't knew about its name. From practical point of view however, I was involved once for a short time. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Like above. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 5? I count theory as well. 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? I have slight practical experience, although I'd like to experience it in future as well. 3)would you ever explore your limits? No. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Yes, macabric, let's say. Although I am not going to put them into real life, these are simply fantasies that I sometimes have. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone No idea. 5a) Anything you've regret? Yes, meeting a person I'd like to never meet. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real play. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Submissive. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? No. Everyone has own preferences which I am not going to invade. If someone is interested in such topics, then he/she will find it without my help. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? I doubt it, I am not talking about it with anyone and I don't see the purpose to change that. __________________ I left this place with no intention to come back.

05-16-2015, 03:55 PM	#53
scgd Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2014 Location: UK Posts: 116 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Not long, like a month maybe. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Only online, so a month. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced I'd say a 2... 3 at a push. So yeah, new to it and inexperienced but I'd say I cope alright considering. 3)would you ever explore your limits? Yes at some point but only some of my limits, probably under very specific circumstances. For now I'm doing just fine exploring my dislikes - limits is a bit far at the moment! 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? For most of society, BDSM is fairly taboo anyway. But I wouldn't say I have any fantasies that are taboo in the realms of BDSM, no. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone It's not particularly shocking but considering her inexperience at doing tasks for me, punishing my sub by making her pour her own pee over her head, sit in the puddle with a finger up her ass (she doesn't like anal) and write lines for me was quite extreme. 5a) Anything you've regret? Pushing my sub too far, too fast. She's new to these things but she's so willing and loves to impress that I initially forgot, or didn't realise (probably due to my lack of experience at being a dominant) so I asked too much of her and it became too stressful. We've sorted it now though and I've learned my lesson. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Only experienced online play. I'd like to try real play but it would be so different that I don't know how I'd handle it at first. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure? I'm unsure at the moment. I know that I like being dominant but I say switch for now because I'm experimenting with my submissive side. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? How do I word this... Yes, I'd like to recommend it, but I wouldn't actually go up to a friend like, "Hey, why don't you put some clothes pegs on your girlfriend's nipples, she might like it". I think everyone should try it but it wouldn't be me who suggests it to anyone. 9) Do your friends know you're into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Nope, and that's partly why my answer to question 8 is what it is. I'd like them to know so I have someone I know to talk to about it, but I don't think I'll ever actually tell them, I don't know how they'd take it. It would just be so awkward! __________________ M/22/Straight/Switch?? Loves : Nudity, Masturbation, Bondage, BDSM Likes : Hidden/semi public, Chance, Humiliation, Edging, Body writing Dislikes : Mild pain, Anal, Pee, Denial, Wedgies Limits : Social suicide, Food, Crossdressing, Scat, Diapers, Extreme pain, Blood, Permanent, Face --> PM Dares <--

05-10-2015, 08:11 PM	#46
rickead Senior Member Join Date: May 2015 Posts: 113 Blog Entries: 1	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM few years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Only online 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 0 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? yes 3)would you ever explore your limits? yes 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Walking naked/masturbating on a public place. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone walking naked in the wood 5a) Anything you've regret? Walking naked in my street when I was drunk. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Now Online play, but I think real play is much more fun 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure submissive I think 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yes 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? No ______________ 18/M Likes: Humiliation, semi public, Bondage, control dares, spanking, clothes control, orgasm control Limits: anal, pictures/cam

05-11-2015, 03:09 AM	#47
Tiwim54 Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Posts: 104 Blog Entries: 3	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM More than 20y 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Online, tried to experiment selfbondage but was not a great success 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced No real experience 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? Yes, I'd love to 3)would you ever explore your limits? Yes, it's one of the goals 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Taboo is age play or permanent. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Drink my own piss 5a) Anything you've regret? Not being able to selfbondage 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Submissive, definitively 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Depends on the friend 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? No, they don't know and I don't want them to know

05-16-2015, 02:14 PM	#51
MistressVanessa Member Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: The Netherlands Posts: 77	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM - I have always liked games like cops and robbers when I was a young kid. You can say that it turned me on, but i didn't know it. Then I started reading erotic stories about bdsm when I was about 12. I got 'serious' with bdsm when I was 17. I am 22 now. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? - online 5 years with breakes - offline, I played few times 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced - 6.5??? I think I am very experienced compared to online people, but I am no match for a full time mistress... 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? - I would like to play offline some time again, but it's hard to find the right person. I don't want to do it with a stranger. 3)would you ever explore your limits? - As a sub, I have few limits, but they are hard limits like permanent stuff, I am not going to explore that. - As a mistress I listen to my sub's limits. If they are willing to break it I would help them. I would love to make someone tattoo my name on their body 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Being a 24/7 slave to a mistress/master serving them in everything and have all kind of rules on me. I would really like to do it for a periode of time (1-3 months?) without any commitment afterwards, so I could just get back to my old life. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone - I was pissed at my male slave and I let him stay outside with a sign saying 'free foot worship'. He had to stay like this for 2 days. 5a) Anything you've regret? - When i was exploring my sub side i was stupid and listened to wrong people. i was just starting and I was very green. I assumed my masters would know what to do and I trusted them completely. Some of them asked for nude pictures only and dissapeared pretty soon afterwards, others asked me to ruin my life by telling me to do stuff within my limits (I didn't). One blackmailed me... Which was the worse. I have never told this story on any website and I am still little bit traumatic after it. That was the main reason why I didn't want to be a slave anymore. After a bit of talk he told me to send him nudes with face. He seemed nice and we talked a lot before he asked me to do it so i trusted him. When he got them he told me that I will be his 24/7 bitch from now on, or he will put the pictures online. Long story short, I had to do things for him and send him my pictures as proof. Lucky for me he only asked me things within my limits, although they were at the point of almost breaking it. I had to do a lot of things that I wasn't yet comfortable with and that I didn't want to do. The worst part was when he asked me to use my towel as diaper and wet myself. He made me drink a lot before that. I told him I can't because my mom would come home in 5 minutes, but he only reminded me of the pictures. When i finally peed in it, my mom entered the house. For those of you who think that i could simply clean the towel, keep in mind that I was forced not to pee the whole day and I had to drink a lot. What left my body was like a waterfall, the whole towel was soaked in pee. I tried to wash it with water but couldn't take all the pee out. I also couldn't dry it, because I was in bathroom far too long anyway, and I don't think it would help much. The towel was all wet, you could very easily see that something happened, and it obviously smelled like pee. I was so ashamed that i told my mom that I am going to sleep and closed the door. The next morning I woke up, my mother already left for work. In the bathroom i found a note that said: 'I don't know what happened with the towel, but here you get a new, dry and a CLEAN one.' I was so ashamed, my mother obviously knew what happened, it smelled like pee horribly. When she came home she asked me about it and I only mumbled a bad story that it felt in the bad or something... The towel is yellowish to this day. I realised I had to stop the blackmail or it will ruin my life more than the pictures. I was now on a good way to ruin my relations with family and friends... The worst thing that he could do is put the pictures online, where nobody recognises me. What's the chance someone I know will find them... So i told him I quit and that he could put them online if he wanted. I ignored him afterwards. I have not found my pictures online yet, but who knows, maybe you've seen them. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? - Real play, both as sub and mistress 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure - I have periodes of time when I feel submissive and periodes of time when i feel dominant. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? - I think you have to be born with it to like it... Other people just find it weird 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? - My best (girl) friend knows about it, but I couldn't covince her to do anything with me. I don't dare to tell it to anyone else, although when I am drunk at a party or when i see other people drunk i like to casually suggest some bdsm things, or atleast play truth or dare so i can get something out of it

05-16-2015, 03:15 PM	#52
Fantage Distinguished Member Join Date: Oct 2014 Location: Earth Posts: 775	I've learned about Bdsm since I was 11.

05-16-2015, 09:27 PM	#54
Leslie's Slave Member Join Date: Sep 2014 Posts: 77 Blog Entries: 2	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM A.-about 6 years i think.... 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? A.-online 6 years. IRL 6 years but it didnt lasted. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 5 not that much experienced.... 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? 3)would you ever explore your limits? not really. theyre there for a reason. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? not really...i mean BDSM is kinda Taboo (in mexico anyways) 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Spitting on my partner while teasing. she disliked that xD! (also i somehow got sleppy during a blowjob...yeah...) 5a) Anything you've regret? almost falling sleep during a blowjob. kinda ruined the whole blowjob thing for us... 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Dominant. i swore to never be a sub to soemoene else than Leslie. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? depends on the friend. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? they dont. and i wont tell. __________________ Likes Cornertime,Spankings,Lines blindfolds,gags seelfbondage Anything not in likes is a limit! PM DARES 26/M/Straight/Dom/Mexican (lol for the last one) Last Rule: N/A By: N/A Second Rule: N/A BY: N/A ExtraRule: Sleep Blindfolded by:msp1006 Saving 50 PM dares :P pm me away *will start doing PM dares soon my life is almost back to normal. almost. also sadly i lost most of my petplay items D:

05-17-2015, 03:31 PM	#55
BennyBoi16 Member Join Date: Feb 2015 Location: Australia Posts: 31	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Almost 4 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? 4 years for both 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 10 3)would you ever explore your limits? yes and I have 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? None that I haven't already explored. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Let's just say it involved private school uniforms, an entire weekend and a few public outings. 5a) Anything you've regret? no 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? in pwrson, but happy with onlune until that comes around again 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Switch, but more Dom. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? yes and have 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? [/QUOTE] A few do, yes

05-17-2015, 04:54 PM	#56
RebekaD Distinguished Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Posts: 745 Blog Entries: 3	Here's some awesomely nosey questions! Answer with 100% honesty!!! 1) How long have you been involved with BDSM around 5 years 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? 5 years online, real life about 1 year 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 7 maybe, i'm experienced, but i know there is still a lot i haven't explored 3)would you ever explore your limits? some of them i am tentatively pushing, but most are hard limits and aren't going to change 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? rape and incest. there are probably others, but those are my 2 big ones. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone not sure 5a) Anything you've regret? nothing i can think of 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? i really love both. i'd prefer to do real play mostly, but due to my master being at college across the country i'm content with online (and occasional meetings) 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure very very submissive 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? maybe, depends on the friend 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? a couple do. and there are a couple that i'd really like to tell (and to get them involved with me) __________________ f/bi/sub Loves: Bondage, Mild pain, Humiliation (especially being called degrading names), pet play Dislikes: Ice, Heavy pain, Edging, nipple pain Limits: Family, Anal, Public, (Face) Pictures/Cam, Messy, Drinking/Eating Bodily Fluids click for full likes/limits Toys listed here Dare Calendar

08-15-2016, 02:54 PM	#57
smh22 Junior Member Join Date: Oct 2015 Posts: 22	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM 7 ish years, I think 2007/08 time. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Same as above, I discovered it online. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 3, could learn A LOT more! 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? YES 3)would you ever explore your limits? Possibly 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Me and my friend tied each other up naked and then were locked in a wooden crate, outdoors. Really big turn on, I must have been locked in there for over an hour, it was such a rush. Less shocking, more fun! 5a) Anything you've regret? Not really. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Both, getting the ideas from online is great and then putting them into real play. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I think I can be both. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Maybe, if I am comfortable around them yes, like a partner? 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? Only one of them, no I wouldn't tell anyone else and right now I don't want to! __________________ __________________ Male 20 *Likes* - Bondage, Uncomfortable, Situation Dares, Time Dares *Dislikes* - Insertion, Hard Pain, Public, Poop, Family Give me Bondage Dares! I have handcuffs, but want to get more toys to use in BDSM scenarios!

08-17-2016, 04:09 PM	#58
SluttyPig getDare Sweetheart Join Date: May 2016 Location: America Posts: 288 Blog Entries: 7	1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Since January 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Online and real both since Jan. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced In these 8 months I have experienced a lot lol. I'm going to go with 8 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? Pain 3)would you ever explore your limits? The only one up for exploring right now is restrictive bondage. And that's a NO still! I bring it up sometimes but I can't do it, it's too scary. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? I don't know if this is taboo but I really, really like being degraded 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone I've been peed on before 5a) Anything you've regret? Being peed on 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? Real play 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure Submissive 100% 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? If they were into it 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? A very, very few amount. I wouldn't tell the others it's none of their buisness what I enjoy during sex. If someone asked me about it then maybe I would. It's not definite at all __________________ Likes: humiliation, pain, orgasm denial, icy hot (mmm..) and degradation. Limits: family, scat, needles, permanent, restrictive bondage, pictures, illegal, or unsafe. My AMA with my Wolf82!

08-17-2016, 04:17 PM	#59
needingsomefun Junior Member Join Date: Aug 2016 Posts: 12	BDSM in my dreams. 1) How long have you been involved with BDSM Been interested in it for about 30 years. 1a) How long for If online? How long for if in real? Neither online or real. 2) How experienced do you think you are? Out of 10. 1 being no experience and 10 being highly experienced 1 2a) If you've had no experience would you want to experience the world of kink? Bondage. 3)would you ever explore your limits? With the right person. 4)Any 'taboo' fantasies? If so what? Being the center of attention at a CFNM party. 5) whats the most shocking/dirty/rude activity you think you've done? Or done to someone Self Bondage with hot wax. 5a) Anything you've regret? Not yet. 6) What do you prefer: Online play, in real play, or both? I don't know for sure. 7)Are you Dominant? submissive? Or Switch? Or are you unsure I would like to think of myself as a switch. 8) Would you recommend BDSM to a friend? Yes. 9) Do your friends know youre into kinky stuff? Would you ever tell them? Do you want to tell them? No, no and no.