Anal Hate

westoff · 08-07-2014, 06:10 PM

So I just tried my first anal experience for a dare and hated it! It felt terrible and no pleasure was achieved. I don't like it at all. Is that weird? Is there anybody else who doesn't like anal?

lilsissy · 08-07-2014, 06:11 PM

i never use to like anal honestly but now im kinda ok with it. it just sorta grows on you

SweetTeen · 08-08-2014, 02:09 AM

Either it comes with time or not. People are different. The ones like stuff the other dont. Thats completly normal.

Kisune Karnon · 12-04-2014, 12:40 AM

It happens. Now, they say in order to truly hate something you have to try it at least twice. I know that sounds bad, but it could be that you were rushing or not focusing on enjoying it and the second time could change how you feel. So take some time during a day and get all relaxed and enjoying other play style things. Then when you're ready, get some anal lube and a small object and try again. Do it at your own pace and as much as you want. You never know how it'll turn out. If you don't like it when you're doing it or when you're all done, then you don't ever have to do it again. Just don't perceive something as bad from one bad experience.

Sapphire · 12-10-2014, 04:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Kisune Karnon

It happens. Now, they say in order to truly hate something you have to try it at least twice. I know that sounds bad, but it could be that you were rushing or not focusing on enjoying it and the second time could change how you feel. So take some time during a day and get all relaxed and enjoying other play style things. Then when you're ready, get some anal lube and a small object and try again. Do it at your own pace and as much as you want. You never know how it'll turn out. If you don't like it when you're doing it or when you're all done, then you don't ever have to do it again. Just don't perceive something as bad from one bad experience.

I feel like this is good advice, especially with anal. If you don't know what you are doing than you will definitely experience pain (and if you are not a masochist, this will not be enjoyable). I say follow this advice. I always find that I enjoy anal the most when I have played for a bit first. Get sexually amped, try it one more time, and if it still sucks, you might just be one of those many who don't like it.

A little bit of advice, try circling the object against yourself with a gentle pressure. Patience is everything. Start small. You can never have enough lube!

centurion01 · 12-10-2014, 04:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Sapphire

I feel like this is good advice, especially with anal. If you don't know what you are doing than you will definitely experience pain (and if you are not a masochist, this will not be enjoyable). I say follow this advice. I always find that I enjoy anal the most when I have played for a bit first. Get sexually amped, try it one more time, and if it still sucks, you might just be one of those many who don't like it.

A little bit of advice, try circling the object against yourself with a gentle pressure. Patience is everything. Start small. You can never have enough lube!

Too much lube!
Small and short ammount of times is the way forward, slowly in creasing time then size.

Mumbles91 · 12-15-2014, 11:16 PM

I despise anal. I've tried it a lot, differnt shapes, sizes, lengths of time and amounts of lube and I still hate it. Miss uses it as a punishment because of how much I hate it.

BenC44 · 12-16-2014, 04:14 PM

I havent met a girl i have done it with who didnt enjoy it, but i guess there must be some out there.

It should be pleasurable as there are a lot of pleasure nerve endings there but as mentioned above it does need to be done right.

If it wasnt generally pleasurable gay men would be having a lot less fun!

08-07-2014, 06:10 PM	#1
westoff Member Join Date: Jun 2014 Location: US Posts: 69	Anal Hate So I just tried my first anal experience for a dare and hated it! It felt terrible and no pleasure was achieved. I don't like it at all. Is that weird? Is there anybody else who doesn't like anal? __________________ Likes: SPH, Underwear, masturbation, anal, pranks, semi-public, exchanging dares, exhibition, wedgies, humiliation. Dislikes:Spanking, food, cum eating. Limits: Family, X-Dressing, poop and pee Mess, Social suicide, diapers, body writing. Male/25/US/Bi Kik:westoffgd Skype: live:.cid.76e6073cbcabdfbc Twitter: WGetdare

08-07-2014, 06:11 PM	#2
lilsissy Account Banned Join Date: Aug 2014 Location: CA,USA,Debael's crib crying for a new diaper and sucking on my pacifer Posts: 379 Blog Entries: 4	i never use to like anal honestly but now im kinda ok with it. it just sorta grows on you __________________ F/25/Bisexual/ Milly + Miri [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC] I am Debael's Darling little girl ;p Likes/dislikes/Limits,training, Pm dares, *OWNED by* Debael I worship Debael's feet(god that makes me so horny)

08-08-2014, 02:09 AM	#3
SweetTeen getDare Addict Join Date: Jan 2014 Location: Germany Posts: 2,045 Blog Entries: 31	Either it comes with time or not. People are different. The ones like stuff the other dont. Thats completly normal. __________________ Likes Ask me anything !

12-04-2014, 12:40 AM	#4
Kisune Karnon GetDare Ninja Join Date: May 2010 Location: Imagination Land Posts: 12,192 Blog Entries: 7	It happens. Now, they say in order to truly hate something you have to try it at least twice. I know that sounds bad, but it could be that you were rushing or not focusing on enjoying it and the second time could change how you feel. So take some time during a day and get all relaxed and enjoying other play style things. Then when you're ready, get some anal lube and a small object and try again. Do it at your own pace and as much as you want. You never know how it'll turn out. If you don't like it when you're doing it or when you're all done, then you don't ever have to do it again. Just don't perceive something as bad from one bad experience. __________________ Male/Married/Straight/Switch/32/190 lbs Likes and Limits Toys (So Far) PM Dares Utilizing Keywords Version 3 Kik: Kisune22 My goal is to give good dares and receive them because that is how I enjoy the game. I will send reports when I choose to or if I am asked. If you give me a repeated dare or a "do your own dare," I will be very disappointed because I like to be surprised and challenged.

12-15-2014, 11:16 PM	#7
Mumbles91 Senior Member Join Date: Jul 2013 Posts: 162 Blog Entries: 4	I despise anal. I've tried it a lot, differnt shapes, sizes, lengths of time and amounts of lube and I still hate it. Miss uses it as a punishment because of how much I hate it. __________________ How about you sit on my face and let me eat my way to your heart. Owned by the Dark Potato Lord - Saddi

12-16-2014, 04:14 PM	#8
BenC44 Member Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: London Posts: 59	I havent met a girl i have done it with who didnt enjoy it, but i guess there must be some out there. It should be pleasurable as there are a lot of pleasure nerve endings there but as mentioned above it does need to be done right. If it wasnt generally pleasurable gay men would be having a lot less fun! __________________ My slave will like - choking, caning, spanking, edging, tying up, squirting, anal, unusual objects, collars, clothing control, body writing I dislike - disobedience, scat, extreme pain, blood kik: tixsao 39/M/UK, currently seeking a slave/sub