40/male/master seeks 18+/female/slave in any location (serious replies only)

Mr. Devious · 07-08-2017, 09:12 PM

40/male/master seeks 18+/female/slave in any location (serious replies only)

About Me

I am a 40 year old married guy living in Canada. My wife is well known on getDare, so you may already know of her. Her name is Butterfly. I have spent the last three years with Butterfly as my sub, but recently we decided that she would search for a different Dom, and thus I am interested in beginning my own search again.

Although I have a few years experience, I still feel like I am learning. I love to learn and try new things. I consider myself a kind and caring person. I work full time and enjoy a few different hobbies, including golf, camping and reading. I love the outdoors and being in the mountains or wilderness. Of course, my wife keeps me busy as well.

What I am looking for:

I am not sure what it is I am looking for at this moment. Of course, I would like to hope for a serious, long term relationship, but I cannot promise that. All I can promise is to communicate as we go, and hopefully meet both of our needs. I would like to find someone whom I can trust and care for. I can be quite a busy person, but I would be committed to finding time for my sub. I would expect regular contact, and enjoy talking about everyday things. I believe that mutual respect and communication is key. I want a girl that is not afraid to be totally honest about what she wants and desires. I am fairly flexible on things such as rules, task frequency and different levels of control. This is something I believe requires serious discussion as to what we are both looking for in this respect. I would like my sub to be articulate and like to write detailed reports on tasks given. Pictures are not required but is something I would like to be a possibility once trust and a relationship has been established.

Likes, dislikes and kinks

This is something I am fairly open with. I have a large range of interests that are mostly unexplored. My main and obvious kink is anal play, this one is a deal breaker. Anyone interested should have a love of all types of anal play, including: insertions, fingering, stretching and gaping. A bonus would be if you liked long time insertions, food and messy anal play, enemas.

Anal is definitely not my only interest, I love giving a broad range of tasks including: public/semi-public, pet play, light pain, orgasm control, multiple orgasms. Bondage, although I am quite interested in, it is something I don't have a lot of experience with.

As for dislikes, I am not a sadist and don't enjoy hard or extreme pain, I will never ask for that. I also do not enjoy degrading and overly humiliating tasks and names. Otherwise besides the regular limits most people have, I am open to experimentation. Although of course your limits are more important in this regard.

Although, I am married to a brat and thoroughly enjoy the art of bratting, a deal breaker for me would be somebody who enjoys breaking rules or misbehaving for the purpose of being punished. I take punishments seriously and do not like having to punish my sub. There is a difference between pushing buttons and just wanting to be abused.

Communication

I would prefer to communicate through kik or Line Messenger. Other messengers are a possibility. I would want to talk on a near daily basis, sharing our daily lives. I don't want someone who only wants to play. As I stated, I am fairly busy, however I would like to make time to play at least once a week, but also want to chat about anything and everything. I truly do want to be friends with my sub. I would like someone in a similar time zone to make communication easier, but for the right person I would be flexible.

How to apply

If you are interested send me a private message here, or leave a note in this thread.
Include some details about yourself, your interests, likes and limits and a quick description of what you are looking to get from the relationship.

I will reply to all messages so feel free to pm and we can chat and see where it goes.

Thanks again,
Asslvr

Butterfly · 07-09-2017, 06:50 PM

I may be a little biased but Asslvr is the best dom ever. He is very creative and devilish but kind and understanding and caring. I really hope he finds somebody amazing.

ForeverAlways · 07-10-2017, 09:37 PM

Damn. If I was looking, I'd reply to this ad myself. Alas, I'm not, but Asslvr is a great guy and whoever he decides to choose as his sub is one lucky lady

Good luck!

PurpleS · 07-11-2017, 11:41 PM

Hope you find someone to explore with and that suits you

Jaro · 07-12-2017, 09:01 PM

I wish you the best of luck in your search! I hope you will find someone that's really good and will work around your schedule!

Butterfly · 07-20-2017, 08:45 AM

You're all very sweet for leaving such nice messages here!

GluttonFor · 07-20-2017, 10:00 AM

I'd be interested in filling this role if it's not already been taken. I'm a transwoman living in North Carolina and interested in a variety of things, mostly politics and BDSM, especially bondage, moderate pain, humiliation, and anal.

Jaro · 07-22-2017, 09:08 PM

Does she have to be a callipygian?

Mr. Devious · 07-22-2017, 11:18 PM

I actually had to look that word up

It's not a necessity, but it would help

drwarschauu · 07-26-2017, 10:09 AM

Good luck in your search!

Ladies, this one is a great guy. Why not shoot him a message?

Mr. Devious · 07-30-2017, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ForeverAlways

Damn. If I was looking, I'd reply to this ad myself. Alas, I'm not, but Asslvr is a great guy and whoever he decides to choose as his sub is one lucky lady

Good luck!

Quote:

Originally Posted by brattyslave

Hope you find someone to explore with and that suits you

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jaroface

I wish you the best of luck in your search! I hope you will find someone that's really good and will work around your schedule!

Quote:

Originally Posted by drwarschauu

Good luck in your search!

Ladies, this one is a great guy. Why not shoot him a message?

Thank you all for your kind words. I appreciate it a lot!
Still looking by the way

Krakin · 07-30-2017, 08:39 PM

Best of luck in finding a submissive girl, I know butterfly and she is a very nice and cares about people. If she gives her blessing, then I am sure that you would make a great dom to someone.

Take care!

Butterfly · 08-05-2017, 06:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Krakin

Best of luck in finding a submissive girl, I know butterfly and she is a very nice and cares about people. If she gives her blessing, then I am sure that you would make a great dom to someone.

Take care!

Thanks Krakin. That is very kind of you.

Asslvr is honestly amazing!

Butterfly · 09-04-2017, 10:25 PM

I can't believe this wonderful Dom hasn't been snatched up by one or you lovely female subs.

toto75 · 09-07-2017, 12:43 AM

What a great ad !
Even though I am a male Dom, and not interested at all in being your sub, I read it to the end, because it is really well written and appealing.
I really have a lot a common points with you (I am not a big anal fan, however). I am more speaking about your way to live and enjoy the sub/Dom relationship than about your tastes themselves.
It is increadible that it is hard for you to find a great match.

I am also really surprised that I did not even get a single answer to my ad, posted a few days ago.

Anyway, it is a good releaf and a real pleasure to notice that there are some responsible and sane persons on this forum

Good luck in your search !
I wish you all the best.

Marc

07-08-2017, 09:12 PM	#1
Mr. Devious getDare's Mr. Devious Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 943 Blog Entries: 31	40/male/master seeks 18+/female/slave in any location (serious replies only) 40/male/master seeks 18+/female/slave in any location (serious replies only) About Me I am a 40 year old married guy living in Canada. My wife is well known on getDare, so you may already know of her. Her name is Butterfly. I have spent the last three years with Butterfly as my sub, but recently we decided that she would search for a different Dom, and thus I am interested in beginning my own search again. Although I have a few years experience, I still feel like I am learning. I love to learn and try new things. I consider myself a kind and caring person. I work full time and enjoy a few different hobbies, including golf, camping and reading. I love the outdoors and being in the mountains or wilderness. Of course, my wife keeps me busy as well. What I am looking for: I am not sure what it is I am looking for at this moment. Of course, I would like to hope for a serious, long term relationship, but I cannot promise that. All I can promise is to communicate as we go, and hopefully meet both of our needs. I would like to find someone whom I can trust and care for. I can be quite a busy person, but I would be committed to finding time for my sub. I would expect regular contact, and enjoy talking about everyday things. I believe that mutual respect and communication is key. I want a girl that is not afraid to be totally honest about what she wants and desires. I am fairly flexible on things such as rules, task frequency and different levels of control. This is something I believe requires serious discussion as to what we are both looking for in this respect. I would like my sub to be articulate and like to write detailed reports on tasks given. Pictures are not required but is something I would like to be a possibility once trust and a relationship has been established. Likes, dislikes and kinks This is something I am fairly open with. I have a large range of interests that are mostly unexplored. My main and obvious kink is anal play, this one is a deal breaker. Anyone interested should have a love of all types of anal play, including: insertions, fingering, stretching and gaping. A bonus would be if you liked long time insertions, food and messy anal play, enemas. Anal is definitely not my only interest, I love giving a broad range of tasks including: public/semi-public, pet play, light pain, orgasm control, multiple orgasms. Bondage, although I am quite interested in, it is something I don't have a lot of experience with. As for dislikes, I am not a sadist and don't enjoy hard or extreme pain, I will never ask for that. I also do not enjoy degrading and overly humiliating tasks and names. Otherwise besides the regular limits most people have, I am open to experimentation. Although of course your limits are more important in this regard. Although, I am married to a brat and thoroughly enjoy the art of bratting, a deal breaker for me would be somebody who enjoys breaking rules or misbehaving for the purpose of being punished. I take punishments seriously and do not like having to punish my sub. There is a difference between pushing buttons and just wanting to be abused. Communication I would prefer to communicate through kik or Line Messenger. Other messengers are a possibility. I would want to talk on a near daily basis, sharing our daily lives. I don't want someone who only wants to play. As I stated, I am fairly busy, however I would like to make time to play at least once a week, but also want to chat about anything and everything. I truly do want to be friends with my sub. I would like someone in a similar time zone to make communication easier, but for the right person I would be flexible. How to apply If you are interested send me a private message here, or leave a note in this thread. Include some details about yourself, your interests, likes and limits and a quick description of what you are looking to get from the relationship. I will reply to all messages so feel free to pm and we can chat and see where it goes. Thanks again, Asslvr

07-09-2017, 06:50 PM	#2
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,641 Blog Entries: 515	I may be a little biased but Asslvr is the best dom ever. He is very creative and devilish but kind and understanding and caring. I really hope he finds somebody amazing. __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

07-10-2017, 09:37 PM	#3
ForeverAlways getDare Sweetheart Join Date: Mar 2015 Location: Hogwarts Posts: 278 Blog Entries: 6	Damn. If I was looking, I'd reply to this ad myself. Alas, I'm not, but Asslvr is a great guy and whoever he decides to choose as his sub is one lucky lady Good luck! __________________ "Don't underestimate me. I know more than I say, think more than I speak, & notice more than you realize." ~Unknown 20/F/Switchy/Straightish Likes/Dislikes/Limits AMA

07-11-2017, 11:41 PM	#4
PurpleS getDare Addict Join Date: Oct 2016 Posts: 2,361	Good luck! Hope you find someone to explore with and that suits you __________________ Female 26 Low effort = NO REPLY Seeking Master Ad

07-12-2017, 09:01 PM	#5
Jaro A filthy maggot anal whore Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,456 Blog Entries: 299	I wish you the best of luck in your search! I hope you will find someone that's really good and will work around your schedule! __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys ♦ AMA ♦ Check out my truths and dares here

07-20-2017, 08:45 AM	#6
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,641 Blog Entries: 515	You're all very sweet for leaving such nice messages here! __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

07-20-2017, 10:00 AM	#7
GluttonFor Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2015 Location: Near some woods that I can play in-my limit is with definite contact/viewing with/by others. Posts: 110	I'd be interested in filling this role if it's not already been taken. I'm a transwoman living in North Carolina and interested in a variety of things, mostly politics and BDSM, especially bondage, moderate pain, humiliation, and anal. __________________ Trans MtF, 18, Sub Likes: Spanking, humiliation, degradation, semi-public, pics, self-bondage, pain, anal, blowjobs Limits: Family, Social Suicide, blood, Full public Toys: 9" black rubber dildo, BDSM teddy, ring gag with nipple clamps, 7" butt plug, ball gag

07-22-2017, 09:08 PM	#8
Jaro A filthy maggot anal whore Join Date: Jun 2016 Location: Netherlands Posts: 7,456 Blog Entries: 299	Does she have to be a callipygian? __________________ Worm owned by Princess Butterfly ♦ Likes & Limits ♦ Toys ♦ AMA ♦ Check out my truths and dares here

07-22-2017, 11:18 PM	#9
Mr. Devious getDare's Mr. Devious Join Date: Feb 2014 Location: Canada Posts: 943 Blog Entries: 31	I actually had to look that word up It's not a necessity, but it would help __________________ Married to my amazing beautiful Butterfly Rure is my cuddleslut Ask me questions!!! Join the unofficial getDare discord Here

07-26-2017, 10:09 AM	#10
drwarschauu getDare Devil Join Date: Apr 2013 Posts: 1,442 Blog Entries: 104	Good luck in your search! Ladies, this one is a great guy. Why not shoot him a message? __________________ Male/39/switch PM dares

07-30-2017, 08:39 PM	#12
Krakin Account Banned Join Date: Jul 2016 Location: United States Posts: 291 Blog Entries: 8	Best of luck in finding a submissive girl, I know butterfly and she is a very nice and cares about people. If she gives her blessing, then I am sure that you would make a great dom to someone. Take care! __________________ 30 \|\| bigender \|\| Pansexual \|\| Little Sissy My Name Is Alexis 2-Week Trial Period with Grand.Master691 Loves: Feminization, Cumplay, Edging Likes: ice, anal (light and medium), oral, orgasm control limits\|PM dare list\|My items

09-04-2017, 10:25 PM	#14
Butterfly A Butterfly Princess <3 Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Alberta, Canada Posts: 4,641 Blog Entries: 515	I can't believe this wonderful Dom hasn't been snatched up by one or you lovely female subs. __________________ On Hiatus PMs will not be responded to My heart belongs to my Husband: Mr. Devious Being tortured frequently by my Dom SleepySloth Served by my loyal worm Jaro Caring for my little TheBrat Recordings ❤ FAQ ❤ AMA Likes/Limits ❤ Toys Discord: butterfly.cm ❤

09-07-2017, 12:43 AM	#15
toto75 Senior Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Paris, France Posts: 126	What a great ad ! Even though I am a male Dom, and not interested at all in being your sub, I read it to the end, because it is really well written and appealing. I really have a lot a common points with you (I am not a big anal fan, however). I am more speaking about your way to live and enjoy the sub/Dom relationship than about your tastes themselves. It is increadible that it is hard for you to find a great match. I am also really surprised that I did not even get a single answer to my ad, posted a few days ago. Anyway, it is a good releaf and a real pleasure to notice that there are some responsible and sane persons on this forum Good luck in your search ! I wish you all the best. Marc